Good sex after breast cancer treatment

Good sex after breast cancer treatment

There are 6 comments on the examiner.com story from Mar 16, 2013, titled Good sex after breast cancer treatment. In it, examiner.com reports that:

Breast cancer survival is increasing. There are currently 2.5 million breast cancer survivors in the United States.

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Since: Feb 10

Saint Petersburg, FL

#1 Mar 16, 2013
Vaginal dryness is the least of it. Why this article isn't talking about the facts that AI's dry up your sex drive -- well, I know why they don't talk about it -- because they are determined that we will take them. I think it quite possible that the lask of sex drive would be an intolerable side effect for some women.

These sorts of articles are worse than useless when they are less than honest.
Brent
#3 Sep 23, 2013
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mark

Orange Grove, TX

#6 Jul 28, 2015
Bev wrote:
It didn't work that way for me. I got married to my HS sweetheart at 18. We attended College together then he went to work first while we made plans to have a baby when I was 26 post masters. We had two. A boy & a girl then I had one miscarriage. I stayed home with the little ones & did home schooling for grade K so they started out on 4th Grade level in 1st but I wanted them to socialize with other children. I was 32 then. At 34, I found a lump that I was keeping an eye on but made the mistake not going right away to the doctor. 3 months later it was large so I went right away. It has spread to both breasts & breast bone but no further. That was still bad. I had surgery double mastectomy, radiation & chemo. I was terribly worried my husband wouldn't want me then. I had large, natural breast. That Holiday season I found he was having an affair. He told me he wanted a divorce. He said we had drifted apart. After the divorce he admitted he couldn't get turned on by me after the surgery so it was really about that. We split everything evenly so no trouble there. I work as he does so no one gets money from the other. It was a bank account, stocks then a house split down the middle. We made a deal that he got most of the cash equal to value a little more than half the house since values increase in time. I got little cash but some stocks not worth much & the house but it came out even. He wanted the cash to move out of State with his lover of age 22. They married & he spoils her. She has no HS grad & doesn't work. She is very pretty though. I'm late 30s now.
The kids were asked if they wanted to spend summers with him or me etc then holidays so they stay with me for school year then him summers but he doesn't want them much. His wife doesn't even like children so he wants them in and out in July. I don't let them know that. I say good things to them about their father so not to emotionally harm them.
I have a sex drive pretty high but have not done anything since, I'm afraid a man might get turned off. There is something I might have done in October that gives me breasts that look real but aren't. I might start dating after that. For now, I stay busy with work then I see hunky men at the mall that I fantasize about so I go home then use a vibrator since doubt they would want me now. I've been with two men. Early BF at 16 then my ex husband. We had sex 5 nights a week until I got sick then post surgery he never touched me again. I think it comes down to the man. As for dryness in vagina, I didn't get that like many do so it was just how it looks when nude at this time. I am cancer free though with good odds it won't return. I have a good savings of my own, house paid, independent on my own so I just want a sweet guy who would love me. I don't care about his formal education or career or money. I just need to know a man could love me. I never cheated & never would. Other than breasts, my body is in good shape like that of a 20 year old.
if you have a body of a 20 year old other the breast any man that wouldn't want you if a f@@king idiot

Since: Jul 15

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#8 Jul 28, 2015
It's not about the package it's what comes from deep down inside. I hope you find a guy who is not so judgemental but can love you the way you are. Your ex should have been happy that you recovered. Men can be such jerks.
Travis

Manassas, VA

#9 Jul 28, 2015
Ignore the trolls on here women. You have been through enough as it is with cancer. I've seen women 60 years old with better bodies than 18 year old if they workout & eat right. I think the one lady is only in her late 30s so it's very possible to have a great body working-out or with right foods.

I'm male 22 & tend to like women who are older but most are married or looking for a guy who has a lot of money but not all of them. I'm sure any kind of cancer is hard to get through but things like breast cancer have to be real hard on woman because they might feel like they don't look a certain way they should but believe me, it's only a guy who isn't worth it if he cared about that kind of thing so much unless he was caring about your health. The one lady is better off without that husband imo. He was like that all along but it came out then. Better than than 20 years later imo.

I hope you are all okay. You're all very worthwhile & good no matter if you had lost a breast or not. I'm more skinny type guy & it's hard for me to build the muscles I want but easy for other guys. That bothers me but I figure the right woman will like me for me more than just how my muscles are.

Good luck to all of you. If anyone ever wants to talk just let me know. I can be just friends only nothing sexual. That is up to the lady not me.

Since: Jul 15

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#10 Jul 28, 2015
Travis wrote:
Ignore the trolls on here women. You have been through enough as it is with cancer. I've seen women 60 years old with better bodies than 18 year old if they workout & eat right. I think the one lady is only in her late 30s so it's very possible to have a great body working-out or with right foods.
I'm male 22 & tend to like women who are older but most are married or looking for a guy who has a lot of money but not all of them. I'm sure any kind of cancer is hard to get through but things like breast cancer have to be real hard on woman because they might feel like they don't look a certain way they should but believe me, it's only a guy who isn't worth it if he cared about that kind of thing so much unless he was caring about your health. The one lady is better off without that husband imo. He was like that all along but it came out then. Better than than 20 years later imo.
I hope you are all okay. You're all very worthwhile & good no matter if you had lost a breast or not. I'm more skinny type guy & it's hard for me to build the muscles I want but easy for other guys. That bothers me but I figure the right woman will like me for me more than just how my muscles are.
Good luck to all of you. If anyone ever wants to talk just let me know. I can be just friends only nothing sexual. That is up to the lady not me.
I hope you are not referring to me as a Troll. My mom suffered breast cancer. It was devastating. She eventually had reconstruction surgery. It is hard to tell her reconstructed breast isn't her original
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