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#22 Mar 27, 2012
After being in relationship with her for seven years, she left me, i did everything possible to bring her back back but all was in vain. I want her back because of the love I have for her, I begged her with everything, I tried to entice her with money, made promises but she refused. I explained my problem to someone online and he suggested that I should rather mail a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring her back but I am the type that never believe in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, that was around 5:00pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all she said was that she was so sorry for everything that happened, that she wanted to return to me, that she love me so much. I was so happy and told her to come, she came to me the following day and we started living together again. Since then I have made a promise that everybody I know will never have a relationship problem that I will refer them to the spell caster t help them. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is you can email him if you need his assistance or vist
Haastrup cole

Lagos, Nigeria

#25 May 11, 2012
thanks lord orangan tutu

Wollongong, Australia

#34 Jul 20, 2013
I am so glad that I came here to read your story. I just ended a 4 mth relationship. I am heart broken and wont be going back. I thank you for the truth of what my life could of been like. Its funny how we all loved these men the most. I first saw an episode in month one. He was way over the top and I didnt do anything. I let it get to 4 mths because he was trying hard. We even went to doctors twice but the meds made him drowsy and with his job it was a no no. The antidepressants worked some amd yes he took them daily. In the end he would kick me when I was down. Drag me into an emotional state myself. I should of listened to his wife. I know im better then this. I will not be a victim but a lady who knew if ahe married this man she just like the wife would of been punched and kicked and made to feel like I deserve it. Stuff that!!!
number 207

Boca Raton, FL

#35 Oct 6, 2013
i admire your thoughts. do you have an email address?
number 207

Boca Raton, FL

#36 Oct 6, 2013
Been There Done That wrote:
I was with an unmedicated bi-polar person for over four years. These relationships are toxic. Especially if you have issues yourself. You can not change them. They will never be there to support you. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't waste another minute trying to understand this person and why they can't be there for you. Run away as fast as you can. And I agree, get yourself some professional help. You have a whole life to live. Be happy!
do you have an email address? Your thoughts are 100% spot on

Clinton, MS

#37 Oct 6, 2013
number 207 wrote:
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do you have an email address? Your thoughts are 100% spot on
Read a little in the "Do all BP relationships end in disaster blog"


#77 Dec 11, 2016
abab wrote:
ok i have a similar experience. i have to say this forum is amazing. i have learned so much and now realize it's not me.

in short, i met this man about a year and a half ago. we met through a friend and things progressed at lightning speed. our first date he took me to meet some of his family and he went on and on about how i was the one. after 3 months he broke up with me saying i was just a hook up and that he didn't care for me at all. I was devestated but i healed. I thought he just had a drinking problem but then learned through others that he was a very depressed person.

fast forward 10 months to this year. he shows up literally out of the blue (we had no contact for 10 months) and says everything i wanted to hear last year. we had another amazing 3 months but he did tell me that he was depressed about his job situation and that he went days sleeping and sometimes couldn't get out of bed. things got better for a week - then bam - he didn't leave the house for a MONTH. a whole month. he kept telling me to hang in there and that this happens to him sometimes. Well i tried to be patient but when 6 weeks had gone by without seeing each other (he would text and call at least once a day)- i put my foot down and said that we can't be together if we dont see each other. he lashed out about how selfish i was (!?!) and that he was depreseed and had too much going on in his life, and the fact i could only think about myself showed him how horrible a person i was. i was shocked. I have only tried to help him and be there for him during this depression. The next he emailed me like nothing had happened and told me he was going to visit his sister to help her with her new baby. We live in the same town and have now not seen each other for 7 weeks. 2 days ago I texted him (since i can't get him on the phone)and told him i couldn't do this anymore. His response!?!- he avoided that subject all together and wrote about how cute his sister's baby was.

I'm so torn and hurt because he has a HUGE drinking problem and is bipolar. i know these are not healthy things but i care about him so much. the face he evades any talk of us - when 2 months ago we were planning a vacation to the carribean and a trip to visit family for the holidays.
I'm crushed.
Hi there. I am in a very similar story now. Can you tell me how this story ended?

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