Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#43 Feb 8, 2009
Tiffany, I put diapers and a snap-on rubber panty on my daughter every evening after suppper. But she thinks she should be allowed white tights under dresses like her friends when boys are around. She knows I won't allow this until she has been dry for a long time, until then she will wear ankle socks, diapers and rubber panties. Your diaper and rubber panty would be much more comfortable if your mother forbid the tights and put you in socks. Do you have only one set of diapers and a single baby panty. My daughter has them stacked up on her bedroom dresser. Maybe your Mom needs to get more for you? We live in Vancouver.
Wondering

Pineville, NC

#44 Feb 9, 2009
Is your daughter developmentally delayed in all areas? At 15 doesn't she have her period? Pubic hair etc.? Do you believe it's appropriate to diaper your daughter like a baby because she has a bladder control problem that she can't control instead of teaching her how to take care of these issues herself. Unless I'm misunderstanding and she is mentally or physically unable to do so? Why would you want to treat her like a baby? Have you been to the doctors with her? I'm genuinely trying to understand this thinking, so please explain to help me do so.
Jean wrote:
Dear Tiffany: I put diapers and rubber panties on my 15 yr. old daughter every night for bed and under her short little party dresses for all special occasions. I forbid her to wear tights and keep her strictly in fancy white ankle socks for dressing up. She would love to wear tights, but I feel strongly that a girl of 15 who needs diapers and rubber pants should be kept in socks. Sometimes she doesn't cooperate with me and gets a spanking.
Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#45 Feb 9, 2009
My daughter is a normal, happy, very social 15 year old girl who has poor control of her wetting. Medication is not suitable for her. Goodnights, etc. which she could pull on by herself simply do not contain the amount of wetness she experiences, and that's why I put her in double diapers and rubber panties. Her doctor has explained to her that lots of children her age are still wetting their beds at her age, and not to worry, she will outgrow it. She understands that I am a very busy professional and must tightly control the time and labour associated with wet bedding and clothing, and mostly accepts the decisions I have made for her.
tiffany

Saint Paul, MN

#46 Feb 10, 2009
ddog,you still around?do you think its right for a parrish to require the girls to wear the diaper and plastic pants under their communion dresses like you me had to?
tiffany

Saint Paul, MN

#47 Feb 11, 2009
jean,i dont wear my diaper and plastic pants.i only had to wear them for my first communion last year then i wore them under my junior brides dress in a wedding.my mom wanted me to wear them since my junior brides outfit was similar to my communion outfit
tiffany

Saint Paul, MN

#48 Feb 11, 2009
jean,if you really want to dress your daughter up cute and pretty for easter sunday,buy her a first communion dress and veil[sears,pennys,etc]then do the white anklets and white shoes.put a double diaper on her then her ruffled rubberpanty over them.you could have the dress shortened so the fancy rubberpanty would show.she would very cute and dainty in the communion out fit on easter sunday.i saw two girls wearing their communion outfits on easter sunday last year.
Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#49 Feb 11, 2009
Tiffany, would a shortened communion dress be full enough in the skirt for her crinoline, which has many layers of stiff net? If so she would look very cute. All the adults at church like to see young girls properly dressed up and look forward to seeing her short little dresses. Of course she's already asking to wear tights but I will put ankle socks on her because it's so much easier to remove her ruffled rubber panty for diaper changing. P.S. I'm glad your mother only puts you in diapers and rubber panty when she decides you need them for religious purposes or other reasons.
Jean

Canada

#50 Feb 11, 2009
Tiffany, because my daughter will be put into double diapers for Easter, and because I provide only one fancy rubber panty for her, the best plan is to put a thick snap-on rubber panty on her first, then pull on the frilly rubber panty over top. Then when she's wet and needs a change, the fancy panty is still dry. All she needs is a couple of nice dry diapers, a fresh snap-on rubber panty with the fancy panty put on over top. That way, she doesn't need to be embarrassed by her snap-on panties being seen under her dress.
ddog

Long Beach, CA

#51 Feb 12, 2009
my mom puts me in a triple layer diaper for church all the time and a short dress. it is so cute i love it. i have to waer a diaper to parites and to school some times and i have to be changed by the nurseit is so fun.
ddog

Long Beach, CA

#52 Feb 12, 2009
i think snap-ons r so fun to wear i waer diapers all the time im in one right now i like it.
Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#53 Feb 12, 2009
ddog, what age are you? What length dresses does your Mom want? Are they mid-thigh, or shorter? Does you Mom put you in fancy rubber panties for dress-up, or does she insist on snap-on rubber panties? You seem to enjoy having to wear diapers and rubber baby panties under your dresses. Like many girls your age, I think you need to feel the love and security of your Mom dressing you like a little girl. Is this true?
tiffany

Minneapolis, MN

#54 Feb 13, 2009
jean ,look on line for communion dresses,there are lots of sites yhat sell them .what brand of plastic pants does your daughter wear?are you familiar with the comco brand?they arew what i wore as did other girls in my class.they make pull on and snap on they look just like baby p[ants only in teen and adult sizes.
Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#55 Feb 13, 2009
Tiffany, I have some many rubber panties for her from different brands. There are some from comco, but also from llmedico, and some made of very thick rubber which my daughter will wear under her thinner panty with the frills on the back. She won't like being put into the thick panty because they're noisy but she will wet during church, so she needs to have them on. I do hope she won't fuss about it and do as she's told.
tiffany

Minneapolis, MN

#56 Feb 13, 2009
ddog,i take it you have bladder trouble also like jeans daughter.you had to wear the diaper and plastic pants under your communion dress because you wet and not because your parrish required them?did any of the girls in your class wear a diaper and plastic pants under their dresses? in a previous post i said my 13 year old cousin is being baptized at easter vigil on easter sunday.there parrish baptizes girls up to age 17 as regilar infants.they all wear the white infant style gowns,bonnets,lace socks and booties.under their gowns they wear the cloth diaper,plastic pants and a tee shirt.the girls are considered babies for the day.my cousin will wear my communion diaper and plastic pants under her gown.they told me she will have a pacifier,baby blanket and a teddy bear.all of the girls are picked up and held like regular babies to get the water on their heads.my mom and i are going to help dress her.she will be given a bath,then carried into her room and laid on her bed,powered and the diaper and rubberpants put on her with the tee shirt.after her party they will put her easter dress on her.
Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#57 Feb 13, 2009
Tiffany, will your little cousin be kept in her diaper and rubber panty under her easter dress, and if so, does she realize that she will eventually need to wet? Will she be changed when that happens? This is quite embarrassing for a girl who is usually dry. Why doesn't your mother put you into your special occasion diapers and rubber panty so your cousin doesn't feel all alone?
Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#58 Feb 13, 2009
Tiffany, so far I have not found a communion dress that's anywhere near short enough for my daughter to wear for Easter. Those I have seen would need to be shortened far too much. The pink organza dress I have for her is very short (14" from waist to hem)and when put on over her crinoline will ensure frilly rubber panty is showing. My daughter has actually been dry for the past 4 nights, so she thinks she should be allowed white tights. This will not happen. I will pin double diapers on her, then rubber snap-on panty, then frilly rubber panty over. Then I will put fancy white socks on her to match her baby panty. She will protest, but those are my rules.
tiffany

Minneapolis, MN

#59 Feb 14, 2009
jean no my cousin will not wet in her diaper.my cousin is going to wear my communion diaper and rubber pants.does your daughter like wearing short dresses like that? i could never wear a dress that short.isnt she embarrassed wearing that short of dress with her diapers under it.does she wet on purpose or does she have bladder trouble?she must be an awesome girl to wear short dresses.please dont take offense but i feel you are taking advantage of her because of her wetting problem.
tiffany

Minneapolis, MN

#60 Feb 14, 2009
jean,if you are going to do an easter bonnet on her,there are websites that sell them for girls.what is your daughters name?i would like to see a photo or two of her in her short dress with her frilly rubber panty on under it.
Jean

Vancouver, Canada

#61 Feb 14, 2009
Tiffany, no offense taken. In fact I think it is beneficial for her, she woke up dry again!
tiffany

Minneapolis, MN

#62 Feb 14, 2009
hi jean,i am glad to hear she woke up dry again.have you thought about using velcro on her diapers? if she stays dry you can have her wear just the rubberpants.have you ever heard of teen girls having a diaper slumber party?a friend of mine whose 17 told me she went to a diaper slumber party two years ago.all the girls brought either disposable or cloth diapers and rubber pants and put them on with tee shirts and slippers and had bottles and pacifiers.she said they had a blast.they chased each other around with baby powder and played games.they all slept in their diapers and had a contest for the best looking baby.she told me the girl who won the contest had a bonnet,pink t shirt,cloth diapers adult rubberpants and booties.i dont know if i could go to a party like that!

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