Engaged: Wilson-Allen

Engaged: Wilson-Allen

There are 9 comments on the Farmington Daily Times story from Jan 10, 2009, titled Engaged: Wilson-Allen. In it, Farmington Daily Times reports that:

George Wilson and Alberta Thomas, of Farmington, announce the engagement of their daughter, Georgette Wilson to Greg Allen, both of Farmington.

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Disgusted in SJC

Los Lunas, NM

#1 Jan 12, 2009
Many of us are blown away by the presumptive “engagement announcement” between Greg Allen and Georgette Wilson. This engagement announcement is presumptive because “Greg”, as many of us know, is still married. Not only is this unethical, but this is a very accurate reflection of exactly who he is.
His job as a police officer is to uphold the laws of New Mexico, isn't this sad.
Finally, to announce an engagement while still married, is sickening and disrespectful when you think of the impact of this announcement on his current wife and children as they see it in the local paper. As for the roses,(YUCK) they more correctly should have had the letter "M" for "MARRIED". CONGRATS! I GUESS!
KELLY

Los Lunas, NM

#2 Jan 12, 2009
WOW...I was wondering if someone was going to say something! LMAO! I feel sorry for his wife, she's a really nice person. What a jerk.
Shutyerass

Boulder, CO

#3 Jan 12, 2009
Hey maybe they had a sham marriage anyways. Lots of people do and if he is finally happy in some wierd way then we can be happy that his kids won't have to put up with their parents fighting all the time anymore
Shame Shame Shame

Los Lunas, NM

#4 Jan 12, 2009
You took the words right out of my mouth! As a citizen of the area I am also disgusted at the way this couple has managed to flaunt their unlawful, unethical, relationship in this community. Do they have no respect for themselves? It is apparrent that they have no respect for the others involved.
Mr. Allen should be ashamed of himself, he is a married man and an officer of the Farmington Police Department, both of which is an embarrassment!
Happy Couples Friend

Rio Rancho, NM

#5 Jun 13, 2009
You people have no right passing judgement on others! Shame on you all! You have no idea what went on behind closed doors between the two of them. I've known Greg for years and he is a good man. His EX-WIFE is a bitter, abusive bitch! Yes, abusive...and if I was married to her I would have left, too! I feel sorry for the two children that she trapped him with so that she would have a meal ticket! Shame on her for being the pathetic woman that she is! P.S. Hey Greg, your new wife is rockin hot!!!
Greg Allen

Rio Rancho, NM

#6 Jun 13, 2009
Disgusted in SJC wrote:
Many of us are blown away by the presumptive “engagement announcement” between Greg Allen and Georgette Wilson. This engagement announcement is presumptive because “Greg”, as many of us know, is still married. Not only is this unethical, but this is a very accurate reflection of exactly who he is.
His job as a police officer is to uphold the laws of New Mexico, isn't this sad.
Finally, to announce an engagement while still married, is sickening and disrespectful when you think of the impact of this announcement on his current wife and children as they see it in the local paper. As for the roses,(YUCK) they more correctly should have had the letter "M" for "MARRIED". CONGRATS! I GUESS!
Dear Disgusted in SJC,

Im so glad that you can speak so wisely for the many of us in San Juan County. Its so nice to see so many knowledgeable people like yourself blogging in reference to the Daily Times. Thank you so much for feeling so strong about my marriage to Georgette Wilson-Allen and my presumptive engagement. I suggest in the future you either use a dictionary or thesaurus when you pen your next blog. I think you meant to say presumptuous or audacious. My presumptive engagement would be based on probability.

Since your blog is based on fact you must know that Andrea told me she wanted a divorce in May of 2007 when she provided me with a letter telling me about all of the things I needed to fix about myself. She often provided me with lists of tasks to have completed upon her return home from work.

Continued..........
Greg Allen

Rio Rancho, NM

#7 Jun 13, 2009
Disgusted in SJC wrote:
Many of us are blown away by the presumptive “engagement announcement” between Greg Allen and Georgette Wilson. This engagement announcement is presumptive because “Greg”, as many of us know, is still married. Not only is this unethical, but this is a very accurate reflection of exactly who he is.
His job as a police officer is to uphold the laws of New Mexico, isn't this sad.
Finally, to announce an engagement while still married, is sickening and disrespectful when you think of the impact of this announcement on his current wife and children as they see it in the local paper. As for the roses,(YUCK) they more correctly should have had the letter "M" for "MARRIED". CONGRATS! I GUESS!
.....Continued

You would also know that I tried to force a failing marriage for 14 years. I believe I tried my hardest but I could only do so much. She hated me for all 14 of those years which led to two separations, infidelity by both parties, and many threats of divorce. You must also know that she knew of the impending divorce and stopped taking her birth control pills so she could get pregnant and trap me for another 18 years. You must have been there when I came home one day to her crying. I asked her what was wrong and she would not tell me because she was afraid I would get mad. She eventually told me she was pregnant after we had agreed years ago not have any more children.

Was I mad? Yes. Did I say anything? No. Because I felt I needed to be supportive. You must have been in the delivery room when she apologized to me for being a terrible wife and that she would focus on being more loving and affectionate. You must have also been there the many times her mother apologized to me for her daughters behavior and the way she treated me. You must also know about her having an affair with a local drug dealer. Im not going to say that I played no part in the bad marriage but Im sure she conveniently forgot to tell all of you about her past indiscretions so that she may continue to play the victim role.

Continued........
Greg Allen

Rio Rancho, NM

#8 Jun 13, 2009
Disgusted in SJC wrote:
Many of us are blown away by the presumptive “engagement announcement” between Greg Allen and Georgette Wilson. This engagement announcement is presumptive because “Greg”, as many of us know, is still married. Not only is this unethical, but this is a very accurate reflection of exactly who he is.
His job as a police officer is to uphold the laws of New Mexico, isn't this sad.
Finally, to announce an engagement while still married, is sickening and disrespectful when you think of the impact of this announcement on his current wife and children as they see it in the local paper. As for the roses,(YUCK) they more correctly should have had the letter "M" for "MARRIED". CONGRATS! I GUESS!
..... Continued

So please do not preach ethics to me. I am well versed. My divorce with Andrea has not affected my ethics nor has it interfered with my abilities to perform as a police officer. Just to let you know it is not illegal to be engaged while separated. But you would know that since you are so smart. Yes I still uphold the laws of the State of New Mexico. I just do it as a re-married man who is finally in love with someone who loves me back.

My divorce was signed by Judge John Davis on December 31, 2008 but San Juan County District Court lost the paper work and it was not filed until January 15, 2009. So I thought I was divorced on January 5th when we placed the engagement announcement in the paper. I learned of the missing paperwork after the fact. Funny how that happened since Andrea works at District Court. Funny how the only people that know that is Andrea and the people she works with at the Court.

So I could presume that you are one of her friends, family members or someone she works with. So how about you list your name on your blog instead of hiding behind your pen name. I have lived in San Juan County for a long time. I bet you have some skeletons in your closet that we could air out in a public forum.
Greg Allen

Rio Rancho, NM

#9 Jun 13, 2009
KELLY wrote:
WOW...I was wondering if someone was going to say something! LMAO! I feel sorry for his wife, she's a really nice person. What a jerk.
WOW Kelly. Im glad you had a chance to Laugh My A** Off as you so eloquently put it. Im certain you still have plenty left.

I feel sorry for her too. I dont know how she will ever make it. She always told me how she would ruin me financially if I ever left her. Well she is well versed in the arena of divorce. So I am sure the $1037 in child support per month along with 37% of my retirement well keep her afloat in these troubling times. This would be a retirement I had prior to meeting her and I didnt touch any of her retirement plans including the one I paid for. Im sure being debt free will help also since I incurred all of our community debt.

We would probably still be married if she had put as much effort into our marriage 14 years ago as she did in our divorce.

Keep in mind Kelly that you obviously do not know her. Try living with her for 14 years. I bet you couldnt get through year one. I highly suggest you speak with anyone she went to Kirtland High School with and see what they think. All the guys really liked her.

As for me being a jerk? I think I am a stand up guy. Im sure she didnt tell you that she had left me for some guy she met at the Top Deck just before she found herself pregnant in 1993. The guy was an alcoholic and abusive. She said he strangled her in the bar parking lot one night and that is when she realized I am truly a good guy.

She came to tell me she was pregnant after we had been broken up for months. Why didnt she tell him she was pregnant? Why did she come to me since I was such a jerk?

Im sure she never told you about her abortion from the first guy that impregnated her.

So if being a jerk means taking in a pregnant woman when youre not even sure the baby is yours then yeah I guess that makes me a member of the jerk club for men, perhaps even the President!

Im sure I appear to be a jerk for writing this but every story has two sides. Every one has already heard hers. Now its time for mine. You have judged me with out even knowing me since I dont know anyone named Kelly. So I hope you still have 20/20 vision if and when you judge her.

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