SELDEN: Girl says she was 12 when molested

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A teenage girl testified yesterday that a Selden man charged with molesting five children sexually assaulted her when she was 12 and that she was sometimes afraid of staying with him, despite their close ... Read more
YOU ALREADY KNOW BM

Haledon, NJ

#337 Jun 3, 2009
JAS wrote:
Regardless.... The parents maybe should not have let their kids sleep at this mans house but he would have found a way to molest this little girl or any others. As a parent myself it is easier to say "that a man looks like someone who would be a predator" or whatever but looking at someone you will never know their true intensions. I am 25 mother of 2 (boy and girl) and I was molested for several years starting at the age of 5. My mother never knew anything was wrong until I was 15 years old. My mom always had the "talks" with me that no one should touch your privates, dont even leave with stranger and everything else a Parent "should" do. Unfortunatly that did NOT stop anything. My MOLESTER WAS MY UNCLE. When you are young you can be told anything by your parents but just as the predator can tell you anything as well. I was told that my mom wouldnt believe me and not to tell because he would get in trouble. I trusted him, he was older than me, why would he try to hurt me? He made me feel everything was ok. I didnt know until I was about 12 that it was wrong. At the age of 13 was the last time I would allow myself to be his victim anymore. I made myself stay away. Still I couldnt tell anyone cause I still didnt think that anyone would believe me. It is the worse most hurtful and horrible thing to have to live with everyday. I was able to pull it together and tell my mom 10 years after the first time. My mom was devestated and i believe she still is, she just thinks what could she have done different, NOTHING she did or didnt do made this happen. I fought the charges the whole way and this "monster" was sentenced to 7 years in one county and 8 in another to be served concurently. I came to find out that 2 of my cousins and my sister were all molested by the same man and none of us knew the other was going through the same thing. Now that I am a mother of a daughter this type of thing scares the hell out of me. I dont trust ANYONE and thats so sad because I know that just cause it happend to me doesnt mean that it will happen to my kids but I will do EVERYTHING in my power to prevent it from happening. So before you judge the parents or whoever else, you really never know who the sexual molestors are around you. These little girls will have to deal with this the rest of their lives and honestly it has been effecting me more as an adult then it did when it was happening. My prayers go out to these girls!
Its great that you shared your story because i feel the same way, Its messing me up since im older and going through the courts and everything. I use too relive it everyday till i started going too theorpy and working on myself. I just look at it whatever doesn't kill you, can only make you stronger. And thats right you cant trust anybody expecially with childern. And it is true you can hide it well when your a kid.
i know

Dumont, NJ

#338 Jun 3, 2009
YOU ALREADY KNOW BM wrote:
<quoted text>
ha yea okay, if you only knew.
oh i know
thetruthwiillbet old

Randolph, NJ

#339 Jun 3, 2009
i know wrote:
<quoted text>you dont want me to tell you who else should have there head to bed for lieing, do you and wont you be shocked when he comes out inocent and youare going to have to say goodbye to your little angel baby barbara get ready for it because its coming but dont worry shell be better off there and detox from all of her drugs too besides the world will be a better place with her off the streets
your so funny inocent what alaugh
Curious

New York, NY

#340 Jun 9, 2009
The man was convicted almost a year ago. If he was innocent wouldn't he be free already?
Did they end up putting him away for the max?
thetruthwillsety oufree

Randolph, NJ

#341 Jun 9, 2009
Curious wrote:
The man was convicted almost a year ago. If he was innocent wouldn't he be free already?
Did they end up putting him away for the max?
no he didnt get sentced yet.he fired his attorney and hired a new one. he thinks he is going to get out hahahahahahahaha.thats what him and and stupid family thinks,he should be hung
UNKNOWED

Ayer, MA

#342 Jun 23, 2009
These girls neeed some serious help. i am not a realive or a friend i am out sider that has bein founding th is stroy that the girls are just lieing.. they need to come and tell the truth if they dont they will see what comes t o them GOD only knows and u girls weil be punshed whe ur tiem coems.
POSTED 320

Rockville Centre, NY

#343 Jun 30, 2009
THIS IS FOR thetruthwillsety oufree
YOU SHOULD BE HUNG
UR PROBLY ONE OF THE NASTY LYING GIRLS. N I HOPE THAT THAT MAN GETS FREE N LAUGHS IN UR FACES BEC IV BEEN LOOKING ON THIS CASE N U GUYS MESSED UP ON LYING SO MUCH YOU SHOULD BE IN JAIL..
WHY SHOULD THE MAN BE HUNG... WHEN UR THE ONES WHO ARE LYING
friend of barb taryn s k

Bronx, NY

#344 Jun 30, 2009
Ive been friends with taryn for a long time and ive also been friends with stephanie and barbara and kerry. i dont know gina very well but i do know taryn does not do drugs. ive been to a party with her and yes she does drink but shes of age so i dont see the problem with that but as far as drugs she doesnt even take asprin and i recall her telling me she had to leave her friends the other day because they went to do pills and drugs with barbara monaco her boyfriend danny and a few other of my friends i will not name. you all lie about a respectable family. look at kerris brother who cheats on his girlfriend and had sex with barbara. or look at kerri the follower. or stephanie the other druggie. they all do pills now because they need drugs and pills leave your system. i have known barbara for a long time and i didnt know about any of this stuff going on but when i found out i had to set this all strait. taryn is a good girl yes she drinks but thats legal as far as barbara i know she does many drugs and i know shes a liar. her family is even messed up and half of kerris family is drug dealers and her aunt is crazy. and barbara hahah she is a freakin lying bitch whos been in so many fights in school because of her lying she probarbly lives with her counclor in school and her mom looks like a crack head holy crap. so before you go believe all these girls take a look at who you are believing. and their history.
me personally after reading all this stuff and knowing whats going on now i dont think i can be friends with barbara anymore because now she is getting out of control and someone who lies at this level should be shot.
tehe

Watertown, CT

#345 Jun 30, 2009
thetruthwillsetyoufree wrote:
<quoted text>know sweetie you need to get get a life your f-cked in the head loooooooooser
why don't you learn how to spell barb, and congrats on the baby! is it gonna be a pill head just like you and the father? or are you not sure of who the father is? cause i did hear you worked at a strip club so i don't think you really know who it is. anyway hunny, you should get YOUR facts straight, because i'm pretty sure gina doesn't get fed pills from her daddy, you might be mistaken that for yourself, cause you know, your mom is like a crack fein, so anyway, i recommend you get tested cause you're a nasty STD bitch, and a compulsive liar.
NONYA

Watertown, CT

#346 Jun 30, 2009
Oh, and Barbara, you're deffinently not clean if you fein for oxycottons. And the reason you were taken out of newfield was because your mother felt there was too many drugs there? HAHAHA, you're a drug addict, and so is your crack head mother, holy sh!t she looks like she belongs in a whore house or something, foreal. How dare you say gina's a pill head and a pot head. How the fck would you even know? Are you and your little dirt bag boyfriend who's going to be arrested soon stalking her? I think you should focus on not fcking so many people, and not taking every drug in the book before you fcking point a finger at her you peice of sh!t. HAHA and another thing, I heard Danny wants to bust in you, so have fun with that, he can't even take care of his son, let alone himself, so have fun living in his dirty truck, it won't be long until the truth comes out you lying gunt rag :)
YOU ALREADY KNOW ITS BM

Torrington, CT

#347 Jul 3, 2009
friend of barb taryn s k wrote:
Ive been friends with taryn for a long time and ive also been friends with stephanie and barbara and kerry. i dont know gina very well but i do know taryn does not do drugs. ive been to a party with her and yes she does drink but shes of age so i dont see the problem with that but as far as drugs she doesnt even take asprin and i recall her telling me she had to leave her friends the other day because they went to do pills and drugs with barbara monaco her boyfriend danny and a few other of my friends i will not name. you all lie about a respectable family. look at kerris brother who cheats on his girlfriend and had sex with barbara. or look at kerri the follower. or stephanie the other druggie. they all do pills now because they need drugs and pills leave your system. i have known barbara for a long time and i didnt know about any of this stuff going on but when i found out i had to set this all strait. taryn is a good girl yes she drinks but thats legal as far as barbara i know she does many drugs and i know shes a liar. her family is even messed up and half of kerris family is drug dealers and her aunt is crazy. and barbara hahah she is a freakin lying bitch whos been in so many fights in school because of her lying she probarbly lives with her counclor in school and her mom looks like a crack head holy crap. so before you go believe all these girls take a look at who you are believing. and their history.
me personally after reading all this stuff and knowing whats going on now i dont think i can be friends with barbara anymore because now she is getting out of control and someone who lies at this level should be shot.
Okay listen sweetie, Obviously you dont know SQAT bout me or my family or Friends. Ya i was doing Drugs but give me a drug test sweetie ill pass that shit with flying colors :] My mother looks like a crackhead? really your mature .. have you ever seen Toms family? His daughter looks like a man.. And as for the drug issuse i know for a fact Gina does PLENTY of Drugs, because ive Witness her trying too buy xangx perks, vikes, hm what a pill head. lol You people try and put all this crap about me up on this Blog and its all good because i dont have too prove myself too anybody. But thanks for going out of Your way since you obviously have No life what so ever to find out whats going on in my life. Reailty needs too hit YOU and his Family HARD! Wish some people werent scaried of there family and jus come forward instead of sticking up for a child molester, but i guess not all of us can be strong.
you already know BM

Torrington, CT

#348 Jul 3, 2009
NONYA wrote:
Oh, and Barbara, you're deffinently not clean if you fein for oxycottons. And the reason you were taken out of newfield was because your mother felt there was too many drugs there? HAHAHA, you're a drug addict, and so is your crack head mother, holy sh!t she looks like she belongs in a whore house or something, foreal. How dare you say gina's a pill head and a pot head. How the fck would you even know? Are you and your little dirt bag boyfriend who's going to be arrested soon stalking her? I think you should focus on not fcking so many people, and not taking every drug in the book before you fcking point a finger at her you peice of sh!t. HAHA and another thing, I heard Danny wants to bust in you, so have fun with that, he can't even take care of his son, let alone himself, so have fun living in his dirty truck, it won't be long until the truth comes out you lying gunt rag :)
my Boyfriend stalked Gina? Ha! thats a joke, the only reason he chilled with her was because she was always around bc of marrissa and danny use to chill wid the snitch.
you already know BM

Torrington, CT

#349 Jul 3, 2009
tehe wrote:
<quoted text>
why don't you learn how to spell barb, and congrats on the baby! is it gonna be a pill head just like you and the father? or are you not sure of who the father is? cause i did hear you worked at a strip club so i don't think you really know who it is. anyway hunny, you should get YOUR facts straight, because i'm pretty sure gina doesn't get fed pills from her daddy, you might be mistaken that for yourself, cause you know, your mom is like a crack fein, so anyway, i recommend you get tested cause you're a nasty STD bitch, and a compulsive liar.
Just for everyone who wants too know every single detail in my life, I am NOT pregnant and im not a easy ho like Gina, Telling random dudes she wants too loose her Virginaty soon [ real great way too get a guy.] Call me Trash? Ha look at your own family! Don't Speak about others if you have your own issues and your own past. You learn from your mistakes, And mr.Green is learning a Great Deal of lessons, Don't touch Children you sick old perv.
friend of all the girls

Torrington, CT

#350 Jul 5, 2009
Ok i cnt take this no more THEYE ARE NOt LIEING !! I no it is the truth none of them would make up stuff like that even when it is so detailed aout every thing they had sead i am not saying this because i am close to all of them i am saying this because i look beyond there prob and see the truth none of them would lie about something like that and every one saying things about them and there fam get a life because u only no your facts from rumors and what u asume. karma is a bitch it came back a bit Tom Green in the ass. yes maybe some of the girls come from bad homes or relationships with there parents and yes some of them are happy but the last time i checked the way some lives dosent mean they lie. and because some people might do drugs and make stupid decishions in there life dsnt make some one a lier.. Tom Green got what he deserved believe it or not but grow up beause talking shit is not gonna get u no ware in life and or in this case!!
thetruthwillsety oufree

Randolph, NJ

#351 Jul 7, 2009
friend of barb taryn s k wrote:
Ive been friends with taryn for a long time and ive also been friends with stephanie and barbara and kerry. i dont know gina very well but i do know taryn does not do drugs. ive been to a party with her and yes she does drink but shes of age so i dont see the problem with that but as far as drugs she doesnt even take asprin and i recall her telling me she had to leave her friends the other day because they went to do pills and drugs with barbara monaco her boyfriend danny and a few other of my friends i will not name. you all lie about a respectable family. look at kerris brother who cheats on his girlfriend and had sex with barbara. or look at kerri the follower. or stephanie the other druggie. they all do pills now because they need drugs and pills leave your system. i have known barbara for a long time and i didnt know about any of this stuff going on but when i found out i had to set this all strait. taryn is a good girl yes she drinks but thats legal as far as barbara i know she does many drugs and i know shes a liar. her family is even messed up and half of kerris family is drug dealers and her aunt is crazy. and barbara hahah she is a freakin lying bitch whos been in so many fights in school because of her lying she probarbly lives with her counclor in school and her mom looks like a crack head holy crap. so before you go believe all these girls take a look at who you are believing. and their history.
me personally after reading all this stuff and knowing whats going on now i dont think i can be friends with barbara anymore because now she is getting out of control and someone who lies at this level should be shot.
i dont think so taryn is of age its clled 21 and over and you dont know any of the girls kerri doesnt do drugs or her family so just shut the f up and her brother doesnt sleep around and never cheated on his ex and was never with barbara,oh they kissed when they were 14 if you wanna call that sleeping with her.taryn is a slob dirty looking slut like her mother. the molester and son where big drug dealers and the son still is. will see ya next thursday hahahahaha
thetruthwillsety oufree

Randolph, NJ

#352 Jul 7, 2009
friend of all the girls wrote:
Ok i cnt take this no more THEYE ARE NOt LIEING !! I no it is the truth none of them would make up stuff like that even when it is so detailed aout every thing they had sead i am not saying this because i am close to all of them i am saying this because i look beyond there prob and see the truth none of them would lie about something like that and every one saying things about them and there fam get a life because u only no your facts from rumors and what u asume. karma is a bitch it came back a bit Tom Green in the ass. yes maybe some of the girls come from bad homes or relationships with there parents and yes some of them are happy but the last time i checked the way some lives dosent mean they lie. and because some people might do drugs and make stupid decishions in there life dsnt make some one a lier.. Tom Green got what he deserved believe it or not but grow up beause talking shit is not gonna get u no ware in life and or in this case!!
nice saying people are so blind they cant face the truth like his family we will see next thursday the sentenceing day finnally closer for the girls maybe his family will wake up and face the truth
unknown

Randolph, NJ

#353 Jul 7, 2009
friend of barb taryn s k wrote:
Ive been friends with taryn for a long time and ive also been friends with stephanie and barbara and kerry. i dont know gina very well but i do know taryn does not do drugs. ive been to a party with her and yes she does drink but shes of age so i dont see the problem with that but as far as drugs she doesnt even take asprin and i recall her telling me she had to leave her friends the other day because they went to do pills and drugs with barbara monaco her boyfriend danny and a few other of my friends i will not name. you all lie about a respectable family. look at kerris brother who cheats on his girlfriend and had sex with barbara. or look at kerri the follower. or stephanie the other druggie. they all do pills now because they need drugs and pills leave your system. i have known barbara for a long time and i didnt know about any of this stuff going on but when i found out i had to set this all strait. taryn is a good girl yes she drinks but thats legal as far as barbara i know she does many drugs and i know shes a liar. her family is even messed up and half of kerris family is drug dealers and her aunt is crazy. and barbara hahah she is a freakin lying bitch whos been in so many fights in school because of her lying she probarbly lives with her counclor in school and her mom looks like a crack head holy crap. so before you go believe all these girls take a look at who you are believing. and their history.
me personally after reading all this stuff and knowing whats going on now i dont think i can be friends with barbara anymore because now she is getting out of control and someone who lies at this level should be shot.
if you were good friends with them you would not say things about them.she dont even take a asprin yeah ok. no she she only worked in a sex shop great job good future.maybe if you were such good friends with them you would know how to spell names
unknown

Randolph, NJ

#354 Jul 7, 2009
UNKNOWED wrote:
These girls neeed some serious help. i am not a realive or a friend i am out sider that has bein founding th is stroy that the girls are just lieing.. they need to come and tell the truth if they dont they will see what comes t o them GOD only knows and u girls weil be punshed whe ur tiem coems.
learn how to spell go back to school, if you live in ma you dont even know what you are talking about
one day

Rockville Centre, NY

#355 Jul 14, 2009
Gina this Gina that.. are u obssed with her? do u stalk her..? haha ginas a slut.. im sure.. ur the one who works at A TOPLESS STRIP BAR in FARMINGVILLE.. yeah taryn worked at a sex shop at least she aint takin her top off n showin her nasty streached shit to old men. if u were raped i think ud be afriad to show ur stuff to old men..? wouldnt that make sence..? oh n are u getting the attention u wanted from ur parents after lying about being raped..? does momy n steve who used to hit u love u now..? thats cute.. ur boyfiend danny is a felon for settting newfield track on fire... he sounds like a good boy.. he sounds like an even better boyfiend for letting u strip n keep ur csh flow come through to buy ur crack.! haha ur both losers.
just the truth

Watertown, CT

#358 Jul 16, 2009
http://www.courts.state.ny.us/courts/10jd/suf... go to this web site and put in daniel gennaro and look at his rap sheet,hes a good kid,weapons charge,drug charges,felony arson,the list goes on and on,really a good kid..

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