I caught my brother masturbating, was...

I caught my brother masturbating, was my reaction wrong?

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Since: Mar 13

Grand Prairie, TX

#1 Mar 15, 2013
Ok So at the time my brother was around 14, and I was 17. One day I caught him watching and masturbating to,(of all the things) Naruto Hentai on our computer. Bwhahahahaha.
I'm done laughing now. So I asked him, "hey, what are you doing" and he just freaked out and shut down the whole computer.

We're raised in a religious conservative household, and being the older sister who has been there and done that, I really didn't give a ****. But... instead of just walking away, I went downstairs told him either we can make a deal, or I'll tell mom. He would always tell on me and get me in trouble for stupid things, so I blackmailed him with this. Every time he pissed me off I would bring that up. "let me watch tv or i'll tell mom." One day I really wanted him to do something for me, so I swore that I would never blackmail him again with that, and that's how that ended.

Sometime later now that I reflect back upon that... I feel guilty for blackmailing him. I think that was a really nasty tool to use. The same thing happened to me with my sister, she caught me watching girls gone wild once before,(lol I swear it just came on) but she never blackmailed me with it. I feel like a horrible sister to my brother now, and I do things to make up for it. I don't even think he realizes or cares about what happened, but it's really starting to eat up at my conscience. Has anything like this happened to you before? if so, how did you handle it, or get over it. Thanks.
Anonymous

Pompton Lakes, NJ

#3 Jul 4, 2013
No, I think your reaction was horrible! You are his brother, Not his parents. You obviously know nothing about how the male sex system works which is surprising because you are a male! You need to give him some time and space of his own. It is perfectly normal to do that at his age. You have just embarrassed your brother. Obviously the answer to your question is get over it! Come on kiddo, Look at your question. "How do I handle it?" Really? There is nothing to be "handled". It is his body, Not yours. If God didn't want us to explore ourselves, He wouldn't have created sperm and orgasms. He's not supposed to care about what happened. You shouldn't be barging in his room without knocking. I always knock before I enter my brother's room. It's just common etiquette. Your saying you never jerked off in your life? I don't think there is a male out there that hasn't masturbated. You should feel shitty about blackmailing him. Even you said yourself you were watching girls. If he was watching males it's a different story but as long as it is girls, It's good. You do not need to intervene in his personal privacy.
Imbo

Bussum, Netherlands

#4 Sep 17, 2013
Its a girl dumbass
Jessica

Brisbane, Australia

#5 Sep 26, 2013
She's a girl.
Duck

Miami, FL

#6 Sep 27, 2013
Lol your dumb
anonomusss who cant spell

Middletown, OH

#7 Oct 22, 2013
I do this all the time I blackmail my siblings my telling them that im gonna tell mom and dad what you did if you tell on me or don't let me do this or whatever.... well I used to but I realized that this was really bad and I stopped now so coming from a guilty conscience also, I think you should toooo :)
Maya

Newark, DE

#9 Dec 28, 2013
Well this happened two hours ago. I'm 17 and my brother's 15. I was in my room until 2 am i decided to go downstairs to do the dishes since my sister was down there and cuz my mom told me that she didn't want to find the dishes there in the morning. I thought everybody were asleep but my sister and I. I was sleepy so I rushed in the kitchen and found my brother laying on the couch masturbating.(by the way my brother and I don't really get along well. He's the most annoying kid I know) and im the quietest person in my family. So once he saw me he covered himself with a blanket, and looked at me saying "wat wat wat" in a way to end his shame. He started doing random stupid shit,like singing, talking,(i don't even know what he was saying) and i didn't know what to do.... Now what should i do? Should i tell someone? Who ? And how ?
Lizard13

Colorado Springs, CO

#12 Mar 19, 2014
Um I think blackmail is the right way to go girl!:) it always works huh? Those bothers don't know nothing!
James

Austin, TX

#13 Mar 20, 2014
Maya wrote:
Well this happened two hours ago. I'm 17 and my brother's 15. I was in my room until 2 am i decided to go downstairs to do the dishes since my sister was down there and cuz my mom told me that she didn't want to find the dishes there in the morning. I thought everybody were asleep but my sister and I. I was sleepy so I rushed in the kitchen and found my brother laying on the couch masturbating.(by the way my brother and I don't really get along well. He's the most annoying kid I know) and im the quietest person in my family. So once he saw me he covered himself with a blanket, and looked at me saying "wat wat wat" in a way to end his shame. He started doing random stupid shit,like singing, talking,(i don't even know what he was saying) and i didn't know what to do.... Now what should i do? Should i tell someone? Who ? And how ?
No, don't tell anyone Maya. It's normal for teenage boys to masturbate. And normal for most people, including girls. Everyone does it at some point. The same thing has probably happened to some of your girl friends who have brothers. Those girl friends would be the only people you could talk to about it. Other than that, I wouldn't say anything about it. How would you feel if your brother had caught you masturbating and blabbed it to all of his friends?
AAA

Sri Lanka

#14 Apr 22, 2014
Yes it's bad and terrible how would you feel if your brother caught you and start blackmailing you and then start gossiping what you have done with his friends? you sound so sexist, mean and disgusting person. poor guy
Rachel122

Carlow, Ireland

#15 Apr 30, 2014
So I was in my room touching myself and my brother opened the door and he saw me and i got the biggest fright of my life,,,Wtf do i do know? He's gone now but it was very very embaressing, I had to cover it up and say i was scratching my tummy and i thought u were dad ,,,:O heeelp!!!!!!
lolilop

Philippines

#16 May 2, 2014
It was fine to blackmail him but it could have been better if you offeref to to use your hands to pleasure him so he would be sexually satisfied
wtf is this site

Bay City, TX

#18 Oct 22, 2014
Next time you ask him to do something for you say "I'll tell mom if you dont" just like you use to. Im sure he'll instantly know what you're referring to. Then say something like " Nah Im kidding. It was kinda mean when I did that."
wtf is this site

Bay City, TX

#19 Oct 22, 2014
Maya wrote:
Well this happened two hours ago. I'm 17 and my brother's 15. I was in my room until 2 am i decided to go downstairs to do the dishes since my sister was down there and cuz my mom told me that she didn't want to find the dishes there in the morning. I thought everybody were asleep but my sister and I. I was sleepy so I rushed in the kitchen and found my brother laying on the couch masturbating.(by the way my brother and I don't really get along well. He's the most annoying kid I know) and im the quietest person in my family. So once he saw me he covered himself with a blanket, and looked at me saying "wat wat wat" in a way to end his shame. He started doing random stupid shit,like singing, talking,(i don't even know what he was saying) and i didn't know what to do.... Now what should i do? Should i tell someone? Who ? And how ?
Ignore it. Act like it never happened. Maybe he will respect you a little more for not telling.
ggfjb

United States

#20 Dec 22, 2014
Anonymous wrote:
No, I think your reaction was horrible! You are his brother, Not his parents. You obviously know nothing about how the male sex system works which is surprising because you are a male! You need to give him some time and space of his own. It is perfectly normal to do that at his age. You have just embarrassed your brother. Obviously the answer to your question is get over it! Come on kiddo, Look at your question. "How do I handle it?" Really? There is nothing to be "handled". It is his body, Not yours. If God didn't want us to explore ourselves, He wouldn't have created sperm and orgasms. He's not supposed to care about what happened. You shouldn't be barging in his room without knocking. I always knock before I enter my brother's room. It's just common etiquette. Your saying you never jerked off in your life? I don't think there is a male out there that hasn't masturbated. You should feel shitty about blackmailing him. Even you said yourself you were watching girls. If he was watching males it's a different story but as long as it is girls, It's good. You do not need to intervene in his personal privacy.
I'm late in this conversation, but if u switch their genders and the brother caught the sister and blackmailed her u probably would've thought of it as okay. Just because he's a boy doesn't mean u have to go overboard on defending him. Okay, so he was embarrassed. He'll probably still turned out just fine. Girls like masturbation just as much as guys, but the way society sees it boys progress sexually faster than girls. That is very wrong. Girls think about sex constantly too, but for us it's just easier to hide and it's frowned upon.
ukranian93k

Keller, TX

#21 Dec 22, 2014
Not wrong I like girls who join me when I do it and they suck it
Joanne

Wellingborough, UK

#22 Mar 17, 2015
Maya wrote:
Well this happened two hours ago. I'm 17 and my brother's 15. I was in my room until 2 am i decided to go downstairs to do the dishes since my sister was down there and cuz my mom told me that she didn't want to find the dishes there in the morning. I thought everybody were asleep but my sister and I. I was sleepy so I rushed in the kitchen and found my brother laying on the couch masturbating.(by the way my brother and I don't really get along well. He's the most annoying kid I know) and im the quietest person in my family. So once he saw me he covered himself with a blanket, and looked at me saying "wat wat wat" in a way to end his shame. He started doing random stupid shit,like singing, talking,(i don't even know what he was saying) and i didn't know what to do.... Now what should i do? Should i tell someone? Who ? And how ?
no just enjoy it and let him do it to you i'm going slightly hard throbbing c*** inside you and see how good it is tala hard penis inside you let me know how you get on i know you play
rajesh

Hyderabad, India

#23 Apr 23, 2015
Hello one of my friend recently told me that when he was 18 he masturbated watching his sister changing dress through door gap.later he realized that's not right and stoped doin that.he even confessed it to her.she in replay said that it's very common at that age and almost many teenager do that.But he is depressed about it now it's almost 10 years from now.
Nice Big Brother

Defuniak Springs, FL

#25 May 1, 2015
I saw my sister playing with herself and thought it was cute. She was watching Magic Mike and wearing a hat like his while she was doing it. I wouldn't tell on her because she doesn't deserve that
Good story

Defuniak Springs, FL

#26 May 13, 2015
His kind of porn has probably changed by now. He probably thinks about you! You're both human and its in the past. Love your brother and be nice

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