Would You Let Your Teen Have Sex at H...

Would You Let Your Teen Have Sex at Home?

There are 43 comments on the KVOR-AM Colorado Springs story from Jun 22, 2011, titled Would You Let Your Teen Have Sex at Home?. In it, KVOR-AM Colorado Springs reports that:

Patty Skudlarek strives to be a responsible parent. That's why she says she told her 18-year-old son that if he wants to have sex, not only is she okay with it, but she'd prefer that he do it in the family home.

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Since: Jul 09

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#2 Jun 22, 2011
tommy12 wrote:
I think patty is being a very responsible parent.
Doing it at home is a very safe place. doing it in a car can get you arrested. a back alley invites an attack.
And at home might make condoms easier to find.
i totally agree
she is going to do it anyway id rather know she is safe
Fritz

UK

#4 Jun 22, 2011
Entirely agree, that's exactly the attitude I'm taking right now. Nothing anyone can do will stop them (they couldn't stop me from 15 onwards), so the important thing is to manage it sensibly and in an adult way. My girls can talk to me about absolutely anything and that's the way they are safest :-)
Erika V

Rockland, WI

#5 Jun 22, 2011
tommy12 wrote:
I think patty is being a very responsible parent.
Doing it at home is a very safe place. doing it in a car can get you arrested. a back alley invites an attack.
And at home might make condoms easier to find.
I agree, the question is moot so they say. I'm not sure they want me to watch but lets just say its much more natural to me to just take the hard line off sex for the ones that have reached puberty. Safe sex only. NO sperm in the love canal. If you think there is a better place for your child to learn, lets hear where that might be.
cuninglingwist

United States

#6 Jun 22, 2011
Im with Erica V on this, perfect answer.

“Horny guy talking about sex!”

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#7 Jun 22, 2011
I have to reluctantly agree. If my kid is having sex, why not do so in the comfort of your own home? That way,
like she said - you've got all your condoms and whatnot - and IF something goes wrong, they can come to you for help/advice instead of risking being given wrong info by friends/peers.

I DO draw the line at "seeing" it. I don't want to see my teenage daughter with her legs spread wife open and some
boy pumping himself into her. Keep it private. That's all.

Simba
The Flash

Parry Sound, Canada

#8 Jun 22, 2011
Listen you STUPID DUMBELLS!!!! GET MARRIED FIRST and you can have all the sex you want. It's no wonder morals in this generation has dropped into a pile of garbage.

All because of sTuPId igNoRanT parents like u.

WAKE UP U STUPID DUMBELLS!!
ChuckB

Owings Mills, MD

#9 Jun 22, 2011
As a former driving instructor, I once went to pick up a girl at home for her first lesson. No one answered the door at first knock, and after the second knock, the girl opened the door, dressed, but somewhat disheveled. The house was a split level, and through the open door to a bedroom downstairs, I saw a guy putting on his skivees. The bed was all rumpled up. The girl asked for a short delay to finish combing her air, etc. Her mother and young sister sat in the living room, up a half floor. As I waited by the open door, the mother asked some of the usual questions about the lesson, and the guy finished dressing. It was all matter of fact, and we went on to have three lessons - six hours - she didn't really need, because her mom had already taught her pretty well. We never talked about the incident, and I guess the guy was her bf, Only later I wondered if it might have been her brother. I wasn't introduced.
Another time I had a 16 yr old girl who was living in a cheap apt. with her bf and working after school to support them. He wasn't.
There were a few other incidents as well.
Lonewolf

Leesville, SC

#10 Jun 23, 2011
That's as stupid as letting your teen drink alcohol in your house. Parents need to be parents instead of trying to be a cool friend.This generation of teens are going to be the most entitled snots ever.Mostly because parents can't stand up and do their job, they're so afraid of offending their bratty offspring.Just because you can breed doesn't mean you should.
long

Mountain Home, AR

#11 Jun 23, 2011
tommy12 wrote:
I think patty is being a very responsible parent.
Doing it at home is a very safe place. doing it in a car can get you arrested. a back alley invites an attack.
And at home might make condoms easier to find.
Are you going to stand over them and show them how to do it?? Maybe slide it in for him. Come to think of that it may be fun. Be sure you help him put on his rubber so he doesn't get it on in side out. Yep this may be fun...
The Flash

Parry Sound, Canada

#12 Jun 23, 2011
And what's next??? oh yeah! ABORTION!!! real responsible!

Since: Jul 10

United States

#14 Jun 23, 2011
what teens do in their home is their own business.
Parent

Mooresville, IN

#15 Jun 23, 2011
simba9inch wrote:
I have to reluctantly agree. If my kid is having sex, why not do so in the comfort of your own home? That way,
like she said - you've got all your condoms and whatnot - and IF something goes wrong, they can come to you for help/advice instead of risking being given wrong info by friends/peers.
I DO draw the line at "seeing" it. I don't want to see my teenage daughter with her legs spread wife open and some
boy pumping himself into her. Keep it private. That's all.
Simba
I have to disagree. I think it is really important that parents actually watch when their kids are doing it. It gives them the opportunity to make sure that the boy puts a condom on, even with oral. AIDS is something that you really don't want your kids to get.
thomas

AOL

#16 Jun 23, 2011
my granddaughter does it at home. her mom has let her bf sleep in the room with her when he visits. she told me that they had started doing sex things like hand jobs fingering and then oral but hadn't gone all the way. then one day i saw some condom wrappers between her bed and the wall, including one that was out of the package but not unrolled. I asked her about them and told her if she didnt want her mom to know she was "doing it" she better dispose of the evidence. she said she and her gf's had some and were playing with them. About a week later she told me she and the bf were going all the way. She said they were using condoms every time. I didnt ask her if those other ones were used with him or not, but im sure they were. I told her to be careful and if they had an accident to let me know and we could do the Plan B. Mom still doesnt know it but unless she is stupid she should expect it. Im not telling but im trying to make sure they are protected.
Parent

East Saint Louis, IL

#17 Jun 23, 2011
thomas wrote:
my granddaughter does it at home. her mom has let her bf sleep in the room with her when he visits. she told me that they had started doing sex things like hand jobs fingering and then oral but hadn't gone all the way. then one day i saw some condom wrappers between her bed and the wall, including one that was out of the package but not unrolled. I asked her about them and told her if she didnt want her mom to know she was "doing it" she better dispose of the evidence. she said she and her gf's had some and were playing with them. About a week later she told me she and the bf were going all the way. She said they were using condoms every time. I didnt ask her if those other ones were used with him or not, but im sure they were. I told her to be careful and if they had an accident to let me know and we could do the Plan B. Mom still doesnt know it but unless she is stupid she should expect it. Im not telling but im trying to make sure they are protected.
The reality is that you can never be sure unless you watch them going at it with your own 2 eyes! This is why it is good to let them have sex at home, so you can supervise everything.
Dad

Oak Harbor, WA

#18 Jun 23, 2011
Parent wrote:
<quoted text> The reality is that you can never be sure unless you watch them going at it with your own 2 eyes! This is why it is good to let them have sex at home, so you can supervise everything.
My daughter was almost 13 when I came home to see she was on all fours with her boyfriend riing her. I watched for awhile and left the room later I told her mom what I had seen. She kept asking me questions about what I had seen I just told her I could barly see the guy I just see his cock sliding in and out and my daughters tits waving around. I figured her mom would have gotten made and talked to her. So I asked are you going to have a talk with her about it. She looked puzzeled and said your the one who seen it you talk to her. I was fusrated and left the room my wife came up to me later and said you was just like her at that age and so was I. She suggested we talk to her about birth control and give her more insite about sex. Cofronting her was more akward for me than it was for them my wife seemed more interest in finding out how she enjoyed it. My daughter admitted that she did and he wasn't her first. As the conversation went on I found myself setteling down. My wife brought up the subject of not having sex in an alley and getting her throat slit by a stranger. We talked about AIDES and other STD's she could get from a encounter. We got her on birth control the next week and allowed her to have sex in her room.
Dad

Oak Harbor, WA

#19 Jun 23, 2011
One thing you might remember if you let you kids have sex at home you will catch doing so. So dont be surprised to catch them going at it. I dont know about actually watching them have sex like a training session would work out. But I know my daughter can handel a DONG pretty dam well. sneeking a peek when the guy doesn't know happened a few times lol. You might be surprised how well these girls do on their own. Mine I know watch some prons to learn techniques.
Parent

East Saint Louis, IL

#21 Jun 23, 2011
Dad wrote:
One thing you might remember if you let you kids have sex at home you will catch doing so. So dont be surprised to catch them going at it. I dont know about actually watching them have sex like a training session would work out. But I know my daughter can handel a DONG pretty dam well. sneeking a peek when the guy doesn't know happened a few times lol. You might be surprised how well these girls do on their own. Mine I know watch some prons to learn techniques.
I think it is really important that the parents actually watch. It is the only way to be sure that the boy is wearing a condom during sex and oral. You can hide a camera in their bedroom if you don't want to sit right next to them whenever they are going at it.

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#26 Jun 24, 2011
my username is taken wrote:
<quoted text>i totally agree
she is going to do it anyway id rather know she is safe
well i knew this thread would take a bad turn eventually
it didnt even make it off the first page my o my

“Horny guy talking about sex!”

Since: May 10

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#27 Jun 24, 2011
Dad wrote:
<quoted text> My daughter was almost 13 when I came home to see she was on all fours with her boyfriend riing her. I watched for awhile and left the room later I told her mom what I had seen. She kept asking me questions about what I had seen I just told her I could barly see the guy I just see his cock sliding in and out and my daughters tits waving around. I figured her mom would have gotten made and talked to her. So I asked are you going to have a talk with her about it. She looked puzzeled and said your the one who seen it you talk to her. I was fusrated and left the room my wife came up to me later and said you was just like her at that age and so was I. She suggested we talk to her about birth control and give her more insite about sex. Cofronting her was more akward for me than it was for them my wife seemed more interest in finding out how she enjoyed it. My daughter admitted that she did and he wasn't her first. As the conversation went on I found myself setteling down. My wife brought up the subject of not having sex in an alley and getting her throat slit by a stranger. We talked about AIDES and other STD's she could get from a encounter. We got her on birth control the next week and allowed her to have sex in her room.
Well....

So are you teaching her the value of not having too many partners at such a young age? Is she allowed to bring home different boys all the time? What if she wants to have sex with many boys at the same time, is she allowed to do that?

Simba
Anybody

Pine Bush, NY

#28 Jun 24, 2011
My gf allows her 13yo daughter to have sex at home.
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