My step son has been trying to see me...

My step son has been trying to see me naked

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Erin

Chicago, IL

#1 Mar 6, 2011
I married a man with 2 kids. We moved into a little house. I started using the downstairs shower stall at night because I like extra hot water and it's better there. We have also been very open, and the kids talk to us at all times at home because we both work.
My 11 year old step son has been coming in alot to chat with me when I'm in the shower, which doesn't bother me at all because I get along with him great.
But I recently discovered that at night when the light above the shower is on it makes the shower door like a window, and he has been able to see me naked the whole time, which I now think was the reason he was picking that time to talk.
Should I talk to his dad about this or just laugh it off as a boys will be boys thing?
Esp since i am new to parenting I am looking for opinions
Mary

West Hartford, CT

#2 Mar 14, 2011
"Should I talk to his dad about this or just laugh it off as a boys will be boys thing?"

Erin, you ought to do both things. Your husband, boy's father has to know about it, without doubt. He must decide how speak with son and how to punish him.
CaDad

Rocklin, CA

#3 Mar 14, 2011
Mary wrote:
"Should I talk to his dad about this or just laugh it off as a boys will be boys thing?"
Erin, you ought to do both things. Your husband, boy's father has to know about it, without doubt. He must decide how speak with son and how to punish him.
And why not, you bath him as you stated on another post, see what happens? abuse and molesting turns ugly doesn't it. Two nails in the coffin
CaDad

Rocklin, CA

#4 Mar 14, 2011
I want you to know Mary-all child abuse is investigated, and they are actually quite good at it! so even if your a guy screwing around with a fake post, its way to late for that. Its like crying fire or wolf, against the law and there are repercussions.
Dad

Chicago, IL

#5 Apr 26, 2011
Erin wrote:
I married a man with 2 kids. We moved into a little house. I started using the downstairs shower stall at night because I like extra hot water and it's better there. We have also been very open, and the kids talk to us at all times at home because we both work.
My 11 year old step son has been coming in alot to chat with me when I'm in the shower, which doesn't bother me at all because I get along with him great.
But I recently discovered that at night when the light above the shower is on it makes the shower door like a window, and he has been able to see me naked the whole time, which I now think was the reason he was picking that time to talk.
Should I talk to his dad about this or just laugh it off as a boys will be boys thing?
Esp since i am new to parenting I am looking for opinions
Your step son probably curious about the adult male anatomy.
Elijah Mayfield

Lohman, MO

#6 Jun 26, 2014
That so stupid of a step son looking at his step dad naked in the shower so what should that dad do he needs to tell his dad about that

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