Seattle's single moms find strength in one another

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Randi Anderson knew she was on her own the day her son was born 22 months ago when she drove herself to the hospital.

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Jun 23, 2007
 

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So what about us single dads? Where's our support groups? Or is it because we're men we're supposed to be able to handle it "better" than a single mom? We have all the same problems that a single mother does, but we don't have the support system a single mother has.

When is it my turn to get some help?
Ian Johnson

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#47
Jul 25, 2007
 
Just check out what's happening to Boise State runningback Ian Johnson, for proof on all of this.
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You are a silly silly man..Black purple red orange...it doesn't matter....she is a single Mom and it is hard...that is the story not some big ego issue about black and white.
You are a silly silly man...
I think that this is a up lifting story I love it.
David Walker wrote:
I am an African-American man. I am VERY offended by this article, more specifically, the pictures. Not hard to figure out, I depise seeing anything showing a white woman with a black man, and especially the offspring. That's because it only spurrs even more hatred. Have you ever noticed that while you see light-skinned black children on pictures of products all the time (let's face it, they're often more physically attractive), you RARELY see the mother. In fact, there was one where a beautiful light-skinned little black girl was sitting on the lap of a DARK-skinned black mother (if that was indeed her mother). Why is that ok? Because nobody is against it. It doesn't matter whether my friends are white, black, Mexican, Arab, or Chinese. I asked them over the years, what honestly do they stereotype about black men who have kids with non-black women, and they agree that it is the most hated.
Will black men ever stop having children with non-black women? Of course not. But, this is something that needs to be KEPT QUIET and not put the spotlight on. I know that picture offends many black women.
Furthermore, mention of her film school boyfriend who was gone when the son was born just once again feeds the stereotype of black men: Get the white woman pregnant, and disappear from her and the child's life, and contribute nothing.
And, the skin color of either Randy Anderson or the father of her child has NO bearing on the story. So, you should have just shown a picture of the son. Leave it to the readers to guess what race either parent was, but picturing the mother just takes EVERYBODY'S concentration off the issue at hand (single mothering), and you KNOW that readers are half thinking about "black man/white woman/illegitimate child."
If this were an artical SPECIFICALLY about biracial children, then fine, show the pictures. You may THINK that showing just how much these exist breeds more acceptance, but all it does is breed more hate. Believe me, I know. One such example is whenever a black man has a job interview, he's asked to bring a picture of his family. Why? It's obvious. If his wife is white or Mexican or Arab or Chinese, he gets rejected for the job.
If I sound angry, it's because I am. PLEASE DO NOT (or at least minimize) showing pictures of children of black fathers and non-black mothers. I know that you mean well, but this was very hurtful for me, as well as many black men to see. It reinforces ALL stereotypes that society has about black-American men.
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#56
Feb 22, 2014
 
I have nothing to hide. This is so stupid. Release whatever, I have proof of the situation. As always, I would. Be happy to. Take it to court. Stop stalking me. Grow up and get yourself help. You are pathetic.
RANDI IS A HAG

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#58
Feb 22, 2014
 
ABORTION, SHE SAID SHE PLANNED THIS AND DIDN"T CARE WHO WAS INVOLVED,she begged god to give her a victim she even told me her plan, WE BOTH SAW U WALK THE DOG EVERY MORNING TO RUN INTO THIS DUDE< you are truly pathetic , YOU ARE A DISGUSTING FRAUD, YOUR ARE EVEN UGLIER INSIDER THAN YOUR TWISTED, PALE, FAT, UGLY, WHITE DEVIL FAT MUSHY ASS, YOU ARE SO UGLY YOU CAN'T GET A MAN........IF YOU LIKE THE TRUTH WILL COME EVEN MORE OUT, BITCH
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#59
Feb 22, 2014
 
Hahaha. Seriously, you need to get help. That's so rediculous, you are cracking me up with your mess. Perhaps you should get off the drugs. Really, it's not helping you. See your psychologist. You are really a sad case. It must be difficult to look yourself in the mirror. You need help. Get it.
Randi

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#61
Feb 22, 2014
 
Ha ha ha. You are disturbed. But, your delusions are hilarious. My child even finds your putdowns rediculous. I just don't need to defend myself from such stupidity. You have big big problems. Anyone who knows me or sees me knows better. You are just a sad mess. I feel sorry for you. It's just sad. I'm sad that you make such disturbed choices: leaving multiple children, lies, stealing, abusing, sexual assualt, drug abuse... You are just a sad excuse. You should stop. I am not your enemy, you are your enemy. :-/
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#63
Feb 22, 2014
 
My dad is dead. I was not molested. I have not defrauded anyone. Take it to court. Investigate it all. Feel free. I have nothing to hide. I don't even know half the things you are saying- seriously, get yourself some help.
Feel sorry for Randi

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#65
Feb 24, 2014
 
Shut your floppy chops you scum, No one is talking to you! This is to let society know Randi is a LIAR who plotted, stalked, and forced her fat pathetic ass on a victim!! She stalked the victim for a month, there are multiple eyewitnesses including the bitch who's let you stay in that apartment, & you cooked in their kitchen, drugged his food and force fed him alcohol even though he doesn't drink! The only way RANDI COULD GET A MAN< WAS THRU RAPE!(who rapes men, only this ho), Randi can't deny any of this as it is all truth! This is why she is Old,Ugly inside and out, Alone, & her seed has no father because she planned an assault to get pregnant as no one would touch her, and still wont. Her son has no biological father,After the RAPW Randi used her buddies in DSHS to DEFRAUD THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT, with claims and public assistance,it is scum like Randi who Rapes men by force & totes her product of rape around like a badge of honor, Ho never had a boyfriend, she has no problem raping the system like she did to even get man to touch her. She also tried to pay ***** for sex to get pregnant, and said all she wanted was to get knocked up after her abortion. Everyone knows Randi is a horrible slime who plotted this sexual assault & has not denied it. Proof! This is a public service announcement, CPS & DSHS already are aware of the fraud and are catching up with the case load, you will be served.
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#66
Feb 24, 2014
 
Yes. Please take it to court. This is so rediculous. Again, no need to 'defend' myself from pure stupidity. I will see you in court and will be pressing charges if your slander does not stop. You don't even have the guts to put your real name. Sad. Just sad.
Randi

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#67
Feb 24, 2014
 
http://dw.courts.wa.gov/index.cfm...
You may find the records from Skagit Superior of particular interest.
Randi

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#68
Feb 24, 2014
 
You may also want to contact the woman he was with when he got the drug charges in Bothel/Lynnwood. Find out why she lost her 3 kids when she was with him. Seems we have a great case in court. Bring it.
Randi

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#69
Feb 24, 2014
 
Or, you should talk with the other moms of his kids (at least 2 others) and see what their thoughts are on his great 'parenting' style.
Randi

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#70
Feb 24, 2014
 
Perhaps you should do your homework before making such horrible claims against the person who stepped up and took responsibility.
Randi

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Feb 24, 2014
 
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#72
Feb 24, 2014
 
Now, if you will excuse me, I need to take MY beautiful son (who I have taken great care of for the last nearly 10 years) to the dentist.:-) Have a great day swallowing that pill!
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#73
Feb 25, 2014
 
Slander is what you have portrayed for the last years, chick. no one cares, you have happily slandered innocent people and spend your spinster life making up shit and gossiping like a bunch of old hags. No one cares, this is boring, everyone knows you plotted a rape, this is not slander, it is fact, you had nonconsensual sex as a result of the drugging of your victim, That's all true, now go away, thank you for defining slander, which is what you have been doing all these years, no one slandered you, you just reacted when the real truth about you was portrayed in a less than favorable life and contradicts the "image" you have created. Get help for your "no daddy at home issues" you need to get of drugs, food, maybe you could lose a good 100 pounds and get a man so you can leave people alone
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Feb 26, 2014
 
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Edmonds, WA

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#75
Feb 27, 2014
 
Randi wants the truth out, Randi Drugged a man after staling him for months, the victim awoke to her TUB o LARD on top he freaked out and shoved her off, it was humiliating & that's why the sexual assault Randi did was not reported. SLANDER THIS RANDI< HOW CAN YOU SAY THE TRUE FACTS are slander? What is not fact about the lie you created, what is not true about you stalking the victim? What is not true about you begging the victim to have dinner, you drugged him & forced yourself upon an incapacitated person, who woke up & pushed you away and "Bitch GET THE FUCK OFF ME" was what he said? What isn't true about you lying to the media and making up a story about having a boyfriend? You do not have a daddy for your seed because you don't know who he is? You know nothing about your victim, you are the reason your son will never have a father, you are the reason you give single mothers a bad name, YOU are a LIAR, you forced nonconsensual sex upon a stranger TRUE, you never had a boyfriend to leave you, TRUE. when your seed grows up and wonders why he doesn't have a daddy, tell him how you plotted, how you stalked this victim every day, having to drug him incapacitated to even get near him TRUE, Randi's spawn is A PRODUCT OF RAPE, TRUE, the victim does not know who you are & only recalls you as being hideously ugly and was "creepy the way she followed me around". TRUE, all the things you don't have, someone else has a daddy who love their kids & takes kids to games & more,all the things you will never have.TRUE Enjoy menopause, TRUE
Randi

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#76
Feb 27, 2014
 
Hahaha. I have tapes, records, DNA, writting... plenty of proof of the situation. You look so crazy. Keep talking and taking drugs. Take it to court. I'm so not worried. You see his record, right? He uses women. I hope you realize before it is too late. You are a seriously sad mess. I will pray for you. Good luck!

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