Should I Spank my sons over the Pants...

Should I Spank my sons over the Pants, over the briefs or on the Bare Tush ?

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strict disciplinarian

United States

#1 Apr 3, 2014
what do you think ?
StrictStepMom

United States

#2 Apr 10, 2014
I'm a stepmom of a 14 year old boy and My view is that any spanking should be bare bottom! There are two reasons for this, first is the added sting of a bare bottom spanking adds to its effectiveness. Second is when spanking my sons bare bottom I can better assure that i'm actually not spanking to severely causing bruising. I guess a third thing is that a little embarrassment for James is proven to be effective in itself leading to fewer spankings.
Danny

United States

#3 Apr 20, 2014
StrictStepMom wrote:
I'm a stepmom of a 14 year old boy and My view is that any spanking should be bare bottom! There are two reasons for this, first is the added sting of a bare bottom spanking adds to its effectiveness. Second is when spanking my sons bare bottom I can better assure that i'm actually not spanking to severely causing bruising. I guess a third thing is that a little embarrassment for James is proven to be effective in itself leading to fewer spankings.
do you take down the pants or order HIM to drop 'em ?
Jane

United States

#4 May 1, 2014
strict disciplinarian wrote:
what do you think ?
what do YOU think ?
Terri

United States

#5 May 12, 2014
My husband got it from his mom on his BARE Buttocks untill 20 . I guess he turned out pretty ok ! i think I'm goona start to give it to him that way too !
Terri

United States

#6 May 13, 2014
sure enough ! my hubby mouthed off today ! guess what !
Bobbi

Vincentown, NJ

#7 May 23, 2014
Terri wrote:
sure enough ! my hubby mouthed off today ! guess what !
I cant guess . can we have a hint ?
ABD

United States

#8 Jun 1, 2014
???
Zena

United States

#9 Jul 2, 2014
Spare the Rod,Spoil the child ! there should be no ifs or ands only BUTTS .
Heavy Heart

Beverly, MA

#10 Jul 17, 2014
Really? If your kid is stupid enough to not understand natural consequences, spanking only makes him think he is a victim.

Don't have anymore kids for starters.

Second, make the consequence natural and unpleasant and lasting.

If he throws a tantrum at the store, stop and go home right then.

If he wants lunch. Then give him his least favorite thing to eat and send him to bed. Tell him lunch would have been more fun if you could have finished shopping, but his tantrum made that impossible.

See where I am going?

Think ahead and plan before the problem starts.

Spanking just turns kids into monsters who will use physical violence on the next person or animal they see as smaller. They will think that physical violence is the only way to control others and get their way.

And when they spank your grandchild, you will all of a sudden see it in a different light.

Isn't the violence around the World enough?
Zyet

United States

#11 Jul 31, 2014
spanking ? spare the rod,spoil the child !!.But it should be administered in a wisely fashion.
in favor of spanking

Madison, NJ

#12 Sep 14, 2015
Always Bare and what age is he
grettavanhorne

Salt Lake City, UT

#13 Jun 13, 2016
I'd say spank him in his brand new jockey shorts or boxers. If your hand isn't adequate, than use a belt or paddle. It helps him preserve some modesty while he is getting whipped. Yet, being spanked in his underwear is plenty embarrassing. If you have other kids, it might be a teachable moment for them too. Let them watch him get his whooping right over your knee until he cries.

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