'I had a baby - now there's no sex'

'I had a baby - now there's no sex'

There are 2 comments on the Iol.co.za story from Aug 26, 2013, titled 'I had a baby - now there's no sex'. In it, Iol.co.za reports that:

Almost every mother knows the instinctive, overwhelming passion you feel for a new baby and how easy it is to escape to an exclusive cocoon of love.

Join the discussion below, or Read more at Iol.co.za.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#1 Aug 27, 2013
If I was advising the woman who wrote the letter, I would suggest she start small .. give him hand jobs and if she likes doing it, BJs so that he, at least, does not feel completely ignored in terms of his sexual needs and need for intimate attention from his wife. somewhere along the way she can then start looking at receiving something for herself ... she can "work herself" up to full intercourse by receving handjobs and oral from him, finger penetration can be a preluede to penile penetration once her mind gets comfortable with the fingers.

Many women seem to think that sex has to be about intercourse, but the fact is that couples can do without that for a while IF sexual needs are met in some other way in the meantime ...

Since: May 11

Location hidden

#2 Aug 27, 2013
franko wrote:
If I was advising the woman who wrote the letter
RE letter - Iíve shared a bed with my son, and without my spouse, since the birth 14 months ago.

This is absolute nonsense and she is lucky that he is not getting a bit on the side.

A child in the parents' bed is always a recipe for disaster and, even if a shrink can persuade her to see sense, she faces a major battle in getting the kid out and comfortable on its own.

Tell me when this thread is updated:

Subscribe Now Add to my Tracker

Add your comments below

Characters left: 4000

Please note by submitting this form you acknowledge that you have read the Terms of Service and the comment you are posting is in compliance with such terms. Be polite. Inappropriate posts may be removed by the moderator. Send us your feedback.

Parenting Discussions

Title Updated Last By Comments
News Man ordered to pay $62,000 child support (Sep '11) Mar 26 Sierra_Girl 4
News Viral video shows stereotypes about Asian women... Mar 16 pride66 3
News Baltimore author behind 'Scary Mommy' parenting... Mar 14 noobieR 1
News Jenelle Evans Fires Back at Fans Over Negligent... Mar 13 ugh 1
Should I Spank my sons over the Pants, over the... (Apr '14) Mar 9 Chris 18
News A Proven Solution to Prevent Infant Abuse and S... (Apr '09) Mar 6 Lauren 2
News Kids Who Exhibit Self-Control May Have a Lower ... (Aug '12) Mar 3 Bum Massage Inside 3
More from around the web