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jakey

Chicago, IL

#21 Apr 10, 2013
mom wrote:
I give good spankings !
i would like one.
jakey

Chicago, IL

#22 Apr 10, 2013
amy19013 wrote:
unfortunately I'm the meanie and do it the most
oh, do me.
Largelanguage

Wrexham, UK

#24 Apr 19, 2013
Dan wrote:
I think ,mom should spank the boys, & dad the girls !
Why? So a mother can get sexual thrills out of spanking her son on the bottom? Completely sick!
Largelanguage

Wrexham, UK

#25 Apr 19, 2013
mom wrote:
I give good spankings !
If you spank your children, especially willfully attempting to make it hard, and joking that you hurt your children a lot when you spank as "giving good spankings", then you shouldn't be a mother.
Largelanguage

Wrexham, UK

#26 Apr 19, 2013
Jerry wrote:
Mom usually spanks with her hand to my (clothed) bottom,But...for serious offences she uses the cane........When she grabs my arm & leads me to the desk ,all she has to say is 'pants down'! All I need to do is: undo my pants & drop then over the desk to get 3 strokes . If I disobey & SHE needs to take down the pants then I get 16 (my age)!!
Well, your mother doesn't deserve to be your parent if she does this. If what you say is true, then your mother is sick in the head, especially to pull your trousers down! She ought to be locked up and raped behind bars!
Largelanguage

Wrexham, UK

#27 Apr 19, 2013
amy19013 wrote:
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Listen to her then Jerry! I also give the number of spanks according to my girl's age like your mom does lol
Well that is just pointless, let alone spanking should not be done and is child abuse.
Largelanguage

Wrexham, UK

#28 Apr 19, 2013
venese wrote:
Every naughty boy need to be disciplined ! And Yes ! over moms knees ! & pants down to your ankles !
Oh look, another sick mother!
Largelanguage

Wrexham, UK

#29 Apr 19, 2013
Jerry wrote:
Mom usually spanks with her hand to my (clothed) bottom,But...for serious offences she uses the cane........When she grabs my arm & leads me to the desk ,all she has to say is 'pants down'! All I need to do is: undo my pants & drop then over the desk to get 3 strokes . If I disobey & SHE needs to take down the pants then I get 16 (my age)!!
Ring the police! You ought to report your mother!
Largelanguage

Wrexham, UK

#30 Apr 19, 2013
jessica17 wrote:
I think that the father should do the spanking. my father is the head of the house and makes sure everyone that needs to be disciplined is disciplined
Spanking is just wrong! Yet again, you ought to reporting your father!
StrictStepMom

United States

#31 Apr 10, 2014
My husband is a long haul truck driver and as such can be away from the home for weeks at a time. It Is just not practical that James my 14 year old stepson not be spanked until his father is home. I do not hesitate spanking James whenever I feel it's warranted!
EXplain

Egg Harbor City, NJ

#32 Apr 10, 2014
strict step mom , do you do it over the pants or on the bare tush ?
StrictStepMom

United States

#33 Apr 21, 2014
I have four children, my daughter 12, my twin stepdaughters also 12, and James my 14 year old stepson. My husband is a long-haul trucker so is away for weeks at a time. There can be no wait tell your father gets home threats in this house the spanking is up to me!
NJ Fire

Edison, NJ

#34 Aug 16, 2014
mom wrote:
I give good spankings !
I could use one one maam. What do you spank with? I live close by.
paul

Andover, UK

#35 Sep 4, 2014
hi amy only just found this page hope you still look as see it was 2013 you posted i think you sound the best here tell please do you still spank and is it with a cane when did you last use on how many kids and how many stripes each

“Family Vacations”

Since: Sep 10

Salt Lake City

#36 Sep 8, 2014
katie wrote:
???
I don't think it matter which parent but if you are going to spank doing it the right way is what's really important:
et, how does one spank properly?

Never, ever spank in anger. If you feel like you're about ready to lose it, step back! Spanking in anger will do nothing to teach the child, but instead it creates a sense of dread in her/him that has nothing to do with training.

Never, ever slap her/him in the face. What some call euphemistically a "slip of the hand" is actually a form of child abuse and has no place in a Christian household.

Never, ever shake your infant. Infants are not candidates for spankings or similar modes of discipline. Shaking an infant may actually kill her/him. A child under the age of 15 months should never be disciplined by a spanking.

Never, ever pull on your child's arm, or jerk her/his shoulder. Nowhere in the Bible does it discuss this kind of discipline, and the hospital emergency rooms are full of children with broken bones, dislocated shoulders, and ashamed parents.

If you spank, do so only to the buttocks, and only use one or two swats.

If you spank, do it only as a last resort for the major infractions.
Never, ever spank for the little follies a child engages in, the mistakes s/he makes, the errors in judgment s/he confesses, and/or the accidents that happen in the course of being a child. A broken vase is no reason to spank your toddler. Instead, it may be a good time to reevaluate your decorating sense around a small child.

If you spank, do not spank with your hand. Instead, use a small instrument such as a small wooden spoon. You do not need a big instrument of punishment to get the point across.

If you spank, you are the one who is to perform this task. Do not delegate it to a friend, relative, church member, etc. In the same vein, if you do not spank, do not allow a friend, relative, or church member to do so when the child is in her/his care. You are the parent, the buck stops with you.
Never, ever spank a child who suffers from attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). A spanking has a totally different effect on her/him than it would on a child who does not suffer from this illness.

Never, ever spank a child who has been physically/sexually abused. The potential for (psychological) harm far outweighs the benefit of deterring an inappropriate behavior in this way.
If you spank, be consistent. If little Tom knows that his chances of getting a spanking for deliberately spilling the soup on his mother at home are great, but in a restaurant are non-existent, he will begin playing the odds. Either be consistent, or find alternate methods of discipline that you are more likely to use inside the home and out.

If you spank, recognize that it is not a cure-all. The actual discipline is affected in the aftermath of a spanking, and prior to its occurrence, when the child is brought to the understanding of the wrongdoing. The actual infliction of physical pain is a reminder of the lesson learned, not the lesson in itself.

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Since: Jan 13

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#37 Sep 9, 2014
paul wrote:
hi amy only just found this page hope you still look as see it was 2013 you posted i think you sound the best here tell please do you still spank and is it with a cane when did you last use on how many kids and how many stripes each
Hi Paul, yes I still do but I only use my hand. I have 2 kids and usually spank them 1 time for each year old they are.
paul

Andover, UK

#38 Sep 9, 2014
thanks for your reply 1 slap for each year of there age so how old are they ? have you every tried the cane ? when did you last spank ?

Since: Jan 13

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#39 Sep 11, 2014
paul wrote:
thanks for your reply 1 slap for each year of there age so how old are they ? have you every tried the cane ? when did you last spank ?
They are 5 and 3. I never tried anything but my hand, I dont want to injure them. The last one was my oldest a few weeks ago.

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