3 year old boyfriend! help she is 4 a...

3 year old boyfriend! help she is 4 and all GA-ga for him

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#1 Feb 21, 2013
My little girl who is 4, will be five in 2 months. Has a HUGE crush on a boy of 3 next week 4.

They hold hands and call each other pet names.

They started kissing and hugging two days ago.

At first we we're all like "uh how cute" now we are trying to put out the fire! After we found them changing each others underpants. They know each other forever. Took baths together, play together, even slept together for a few years..

He has an older sister that regularly bathes with him and my kids had

United States

#2 Feb 21, 2013
I'm hoping they kind of just pretend, but it got a bit weird after she just stripped for him right in front of us. She was asking him if she is cute. And she was all possibly trying to sexualize him or something.
We we're too stunned to stop it. HELP!!!!! US!!!!

Since: Jan 13

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#3 Mar 2, 2013
oh wow haha, i have to admit it sounds cute though :)

United States

#4 Mar 4, 2013
Update: we are shrinking the time they spend time together. Which is hard becouse i babysit him everyday. By seporating the baths and to never leave them alone.
Gear Gives Advice

Huntsville, AL

#5 Mar 4, 2013
I must say maybe your over "racking" (pun) because yes they might do this but they will probably grow out of it but one thing that you do need to stop is the losing of virginity and when they get older lose the grip because to strong of a grip and they will do what they want to less and they wont you see?
Gear Gives Advice

Huntsville, AL

#6 Mar 4, 2013
Btw also give them the "talk"

Since: Jan 13

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#7 Mar 7, 2013
why did someone say I was nuts, its not that bad christ

United States

#8 Mar 10, 2013
Ok new update: so now that his older sister 8 year old has a rash that needs treated every 3 hours. And the parents trust me. My "little girlfriend " has company during baths. the girls get a good scrub, then boys get in my 8 year old the little "boyfriend "and my baby boy 2. They used to share the bath for many years. And wine that it's not fair to split them.

We will keep this up till they get too old

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