what to do when your mom hates you
trace

Orange Springs, FL

#82 Apr 3, 2013
I hate my life!:-(
olivia

UK

#83 Apr 4, 2013
sam wrote:
sara listen yeahh, my mum hates me too, she's always shouting at me for no reason and turning my brother and dad against me, she even hits me and i get so angry i start to break things and hurt myself, im 15 years old and im gonna get the hell out of here as soon as im 18 or if i cant take it then im running away....
how old are you?
Don't worry my mum was always shouting at me
And I am 18 now and we are like best friends we do everything together it turned out my mums brother had cancer xxxxx
jayla

Memphis, TN

#85 Apr 4, 2013
Same thing. My mom sometimes hit me with brooms or punch me. I really sick of it I wanna run away so bad but I love her with all my heart. She drinks and when I try and ask her could she spend time with me her response is... I see you 365 days.. So im still thinking of what to say . I hope your mom trys to change.
hshmsysgksubgdgd

United States

#86 Apr 20, 2013
My mom once wipe me becuz I called my sister a heifer n she came up in my room m beat me with the belt for like 35 min in I ran n she chased me n when she caught me I was shaking n she beat me with he belt buckle n I cryed u called me Dada n went to his house but then I went to my granny's n she found me n took me home n still today she slaps me n wipe me for.musing he bus In I think about.it at night n lay n my.bed in cey
hi xD

Las Cruces, NM

#87 Apr 20, 2013
arianna wrote:
She doesnt even like me to hug her
mine too
A sad girl

Parramatta, Australia

#88 Apr 30, 2013
In a foster child getting adopted and I'm not sure if my foster mum likes me. When ever my older foster brother hurts her feelings she gets cranky at me and yells at me. She never hugs or kisses me and never says " I love you " all I want is her love I love her so much, but I'm pretty sure she hates me. What should I do?
Fake Name

Gilbert, AZ

#89 May 6, 2013
My mom hates me, I try to be nice and stuff and I love her, but one little slip and she snaps. Just today I accidentally deleted one of the pictures from her phone while looking at them(it was a picture of the side of my face; nothing special) She starts yelling at me calling me son of a (well, you can figure out the rest) and she makes me cry and is still yelling, then she asks me (calmly) about one of the pictures she had(I am still crying)and she gets mad because I did not respond. And just the night before, I was putting my home work away(I am 11)and I bump a cup and it spills into my backpack and she starts yelling at me. I start crying and she gets more mad.
Fake Name

Gilbert, AZ

#90 May 6, 2013
I love my mom but for some reason she doesn't love me back. I get to the point where I think she loves me, then some thing happens and then BOOM! I realize she never did, this keeps happening and one time I did start to run away but my brothers followed me and i couldn't. I get so sad and want to die, then I think of all the people who actually care for me and I think, I could never do that to them.(I am same as above; Fake Name, but there was a typo, I am 12) I try to do things to try to impress her but it doesn't work. I SKIPPED TWO GRADES!!! I AM IN 3 HONOR CLASSES!!! I GOT A POEM PUBLISHED!!!! I ALWAYS get AT LEAST a B or higher on ALL my report cards!!! Nothing seems to work. I still love her and she says she loves me but, I think it is a bunch of bull!!
The Kid

Ridgewood, NY

#92 May 20, 2013
My mom really hates me. I get a bad grade at a subject she saw me study hard on, i get punished.She always yells at me and i cant f**kin take it. Im sorry for cursing but it gets me really mad. Right now she was yelling at me how im not smart and im fat. She should look at herself. She always compares me to my two older brothers who are in collage and highschool. She says look how smart they are. Also that even though im not in honors she said im never even gonna handle it. She says im stupid and sh*t. Im tired of it. She says i cant talk back to her but my older brothers do. They even curse but she only yells and hits me. She once pulled me by the ears in public because my brother hit me. IM SICK OF HER. I always feel like crying. I tell her my brother ruined my homework. She tells him you crazy then she stopped. If that was me she would be you stupid then yell at me. She never believes me when my brothers hit me. If she does i get in trouble for just doing nothing.I know you guys say to go to a social worker but i dont want to cause then if i went to my school they would probably contact my mom. She just pulled my hair and then it felt like she almost dislocated my shoulder. Im only in 6th grade. I wanna leave though. When i do though i wont be able to forget about her because i have to look similar to that Bastard. Again sorry. Someone help me
The Kid

Ridgewood, NY

#93 May 20, 2013
I always feel like running away. But i dont know where. When and if i become an author or artist or olympic swimmer i wont even try to mention her. Maybe only when i felt happy with her
The Kid

Ridgewood, NY

#94 May 20, 2013
P.S im a girl. I look like my mother. We both have brown hair except she died it to brown yellow and cut it. I have long hair. Brownish hazelish eyes and she has brown. Anyone who can help me solve please do. Also i dnt live in Corona i live in Queens.
The Kid

Ridgewood, NY

#95 May 20, 2013
hshmsysgksubgdgd wrote:
My mom once wipe me becuz I called my sister a heifer n she came up in my room m beat me with the belt for like 35 min in I ran n she chased me n when she caught me I was shaking n she beat me with he belt buckle n I cryed u called me Dada n went to his house but then I went to my granny's n she found me n took me home n still today she slaps me n wipe me for.musing he bus In I think about.it at night n lay n my.bed in cey

I know how you feel. I hate it. I always cry at night. My mother hurts me and today i feel like she almost dislocated my shoulder. I feel like im adopted but i guess im not because i saw my birth certificate. Sometimes i wish i can run forever. I wanna marry my crush and run away somewhere where i dont have to see her. But thats a long way. Im 11 too. Im turning 12 soon in August. I really feel left out of my family. Each night i pray to God and Jesus for a somewhat better life. I wonder if it will happen.
Ihatemymumsometi mes

Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

#96 May 23, 2013
My mum always blames me for stuff my mum and dad split up when I was 2 but I still have a relationship with my dad. I am the oldest an have 2 younger brothers one 6 turning 7 and one that's 7 turning 8 they have a diferent dad then me and they live with him and me and Ma mum.
Anyway in the morning I HAVE to wake up and the boys get to lie in.
Whenever my mum says something horrible about me I say something back and I get shouted at for it but that never happens to my bros
This morning my mum shouted really loud STOP F***KING RUNNING UP YOUR MOUTH!! Stormed into my room and I whimpered and covered myself on the bed she jumped on me with her knees repeatedly slapped and punched me in the head and then squeezed my cheeks hard and shouted STOP IT STOP ANSWERING BACK!! I had 2 red marks on my cheeks and had 2 go to school.
My brothers get to sit in her room watch movies and eat popcorn but if I ask she says no! And I say why and she says because she said so.
I know how you feel :(
I'm 11 and a girl btw
Ihatemymumsometi mes

Newcastle Upon Tyne, UK

#97 May 23, 2013
Fake Name wrote:
My mom hates me, I try to be nice and stuff and I love her, but one little slip and she snaps. Just today I accidentally deleted one of the pictures from her phone while looking at them(it was a picture of the side of my face; nothing special) She starts yelling at me calling me son of a (well, you can figure out the rest) and she makes me cry and is still yelling, then she asks me (calmly) about one of the pictures she had(I am still crying)and she gets mad because I did not respond. And just the night before, I was putting my home work away(I am 11)and I bump a cup and it spills into my backpack and she starts yelling at me. I start crying and she gets more mad.
I known what you mean it happens to me
Fhsjajakakskskdb xx

Maidenhead, UK

#98 May 24, 2013
Look NONE of your parents hate you you're all over reacting or just can't see through it that properly. Unless your parents abuse or actually tell you that they hate you, they don't. They all love you of course becasue you are their children! I am 12 and I sometimes think everyone hates me and all this but at the end of the day it's just when you get in a mood with someone and you ignore everything and pretend the whole world is against you. Little kids, life can be unfair but your parents are probably stressed out so the best you can do is help them out instead of going online to complain to some other kids how "unfair" your parents are.
Fhsjajakakskskdb xx

Maidenhead, UK

#99 May 24, 2013
Oh yeah if ur parents beat you up that's a different story you should tell someone but don't let it get too serious so your parents don't find out and beat you up or something. But my last comment was just about if its like your mum won't buy you a toy or your mum is annoyed and shouted at you then just know she's probably stressed and the best you can do then is help or just give her space.
Anonymously

Brighton, UK

#100 May 25, 2013
I am having shower mum thinks I'm so skinny ! Which btw I am sooooooo not! Now she hates my guts and will not talk to me no matter what !
haana

Slough, UK

#101 May 29, 2013
My f****ing mum dosnt meen a lot to me all I do is hate her I wanted to watch da things I wanted to watch and she said no so I told my grandma and my mum told my grandma she was going to beat me up she always dose dis when my dad gose to work or out iK she sed she hates me and I hate her more dan hell she a b****
She says she wish I was never born
SO WHY DID SHE FLIPIN BORN ME she's always nice 2 ma bro n sisters Btw I'm 13 and hate ma stupied life and one think I'm NOT scared of that bitch
haana

Slough, UK

#102 May 29, 2013
The Kid wrote:
P.S im a girl. I look like my mother. We both have brown hair except she died it to brown yellow and cut it. I have long hair. Brownish hazelish eyes and she has brown. Anyone who can help me solve please do. Also i dnt live in Corona i live in Queens.
I feel the same it happends to me 2 I'm a girl who 13 but I'm goin to tell my teacher cuz. They can do somthing about it I hate my mum dat b****
haana

Slough, UK

#103 May 29, 2013
All I do is try to be nice and she end up sayin rude things

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