Annie's mailbox: Husband's attitude towards sex needs work

Dear Annie: My husband and I have been married for 16 years. We have two children, one with Asperger syndrome.

[barefoot n it]

Wish I could invent a pill to cure the female/male sexual relationship. I'd be filthy rich!

[barefoot n it]

Rambees wrote:

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id be happy to just be filthy ;)

Good one....LMAO

[Anonymous]

You don't need a pill, just someone who truely wants what you want

[barefoot n it]

Love to give lovin wrote:

You don't need a pill, just someone who truely wants what you want

I agree somewhat but children, work, school, cooking and cleaning unfortunately can derail a marital sex life.

Are you married?

[Anonymous]

No I'm not married, Divorce

[barefoot n it]

Rambees wrote:

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They all do.but... To be honest, found a far more exciting and uninhibited sex life outside of my marriage and I find it complementary. It works for me. I do things with these others that m wife would never have contemplated.

How can you be so sure your wife wouldn't consider?

[barefoot n it]

Love to give lovin wrote:

No I'm not married, Divorce

And did daily life derail the sex?

[madam sin]

Rambees wrote:

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id be happy to just be filthy ;)

Practise makes perfect.

[madam sin]

What did your wife say no to, Rambees?

[madam sin]

Rambees wrote:

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Everything interesting!

Now I'm interested.

[STEPHMAR]

This is the 21st century. If a woman wants to have sex,in my opinion,just go for it. I never did agree that the man must make the first move. As far as her libido goes,I think that it will increase as she increases her sex. Start masturbating is a good way to begin.

[madam sin]

Totally agree StephMar, she needs a bit of excitement to pep her up

[STEPHMAR]

madam sin wrote:

Totally agree StephMar, she needs a bit of excitement to pep her up

Many women simply fail to realize that the best way to increase libido is to increase sex. Orgasm releases powerful sex hormones. It is true "if you don't use it;you will lose it."

[Fa-Foxy]

Rambees wrote:

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id be happy to just be filthy ;)

LOL

[Johnny45]

barefoot n it wrote:

Wish I could invent a pill to cure the female/male sexual relationship. I'd be filthy rich!

Women need to smell cleaner down there !

[Fa-Foxy]

barefoot n it wrote:

Wish I could invent a pill to cure the female/male sexual relationship. I'd be filthy rich!

Easier and more fun just to turn gay !

:)

[Fa-Foxy]

Johnny45 wrote:

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Women need to smell cleaner down there !

When I was a kid, we lived very close to the Fulton Fish Market. One summer day, the smell got particularly bad, so my father called the New York City Hotline number to complain. They told him they would send an inspector down.

Two weeks later, my father got a letter from the city informing him that the smell wasn't from the Fulton Fish Market, but in fact a new lesbian bar opened 2 blocks away.(We moved to Suffolk County soon after that).

[madam sin]

Johnny45 wrote:

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Women need to smell cleaner down there !

Cleaner than what, pray tell?

[barefoot n it]

Rambees wrote:

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Er because I tried and she said no. Also, I find I like the illicitness. Adds to the excitement.

Who doesn't like excitement?

[barefoot n it]

Johnny45 wrote:

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Women need to smell cleaner down there !

Change your hunting land or bathe together.