NJ Waitress Receives Anti-Gay Note in...

NJ Waitress Receives Anti-Gay Note in Lieu of Tip

There are 403 comments on the EDGE story from Nov 14, 2013, titled NJ Waitress Receives Anti-Gay Note in Lieu of Tip. In it, EDGE reports that:

A waitress working in a New Jersey restaurant says a family left her an anti-gay note, condemning her "gay lifestyle," on the bill for their meal in lieu of a tip Gay Star News reports.

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david traversa

Buenos Aires, Argentina

#1 Nov 14, 2013
Copy-cats .. The minute some moron does something nasty there 'll surely be others of the same low condition to copy him or her .. I bet they felt very superior and " christian " while doing it too .. But it just shows how much in need of a valid mental occupation so many people are .
Cordwainer Trout

Elk Horn, KY

#2 Nov 14, 2013
Why is it necessary for gay people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways as to make families uncomfortable? It is because they are fundamentally insane and probably on drugs.
Chad

Ilford, UK

#3 Nov 14, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
Why is it necessary for gay people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways as to make families uncomfortable? It is because they are fundamentally insane and probably on drugs.
This.

How wold they possibly have known the waitress was a dyke unless she was obvious or flaunted it in some way?
Chad

Ilford, UK

#4 Nov 14, 2013
I don't blame the parents. Obviously they were upset that this he/she dyke freak scared and confused their two young children.

“ WOOF ! ”

Since: Nov 12

Coolidge, AZ

#5 Nov 14, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
Why is it necessary for gay people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways as to make families uncomfortable? It is because they are fundamentally insane and probably on drugs.
Why is it necessary for str8 people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways ??? Why can't they just keep it behind closed doors where nobody can see it ?
Cordwainer Trout

Elk Horn, KY

#6 Nov 14, 2013
Fa-Foxy wrote:
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Why is it necessary for str8 people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways ??? Why can't they just keep it behind closed doors where nobody can see it ?
You're an ass. The family went to a restaurant to have a meal. The waitress chose to make an issue of her sexuality in a way that was intentionally invasive to others peace and tranquility. That is not part of being a waitress.

Queers are really asking for it. They will be forced into mental hospitals before this is over.

“ WOOF ! ”

Since: Nov 12

Coolidge, AZ

#7 Nov 14, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
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You're an ass. The family went to a restaurant to have a meal. The waitress chose to make an issue of her sexuality in a way that was intentionally invasive to others peace and tranquility. That is not part of being a waitress.
Queers are really asking for it. They will be forced into mental hospitals before this is over.
If you're str8 (which I'm beginning to doubt), why do you spend most of your free time posting on a Gay & Lesbian forum ? You frustrated because you got nobody to boink ???

“Equality marches on! ”

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#8 Nov 14, 2013
Chad wrote:
I don't blame the parents. Obviously they were upset that this he/she dyke freak scared and confused their two young children.
So is that a problem over there in the UK? Hey, what time is it over there, by the way?
Sir Andrew

Honolulu, HI

#9 Nov 14, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
Why is it necessary for gay people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways as to make families uncomfortable? It is because they are fundamentally insane and probably on drugs.
Why is it necessary for morons to flaunt their stupidity in public in such egregious ways as to make those of us with functioning IQs uncomfortable? Huh, fish boy? Why aren't you sitting in your closet twirling your thumbs and wondering why they keep going around like that?

DNF

“Judge less, Love more”

Since: Apr 07

Born in Newark Ohio

#10 Nov 14, 2013
Fa-Foxy wrote:
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Why is it necessary for str8 people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways ??? Why can't they just keep it behind closed doors where nobody can see it ?
Yes. Why were the parents parading their sex lives in a public place by bringing children?

DNF

“Judge less, Love more”

Since: Apr 07

Born in Newark Ohio

#11 Nov 14, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
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You're an ass. The family went to a restaurant to have a meal. The waitress chose to make an issue of her sexuality in a way that was intentionally invasive to others peace and tranquility. That is not part of being a waitress.
Queers are really asking for it. They will be forced into mental hospitals before this is over.
She had short hair. I guess in your world every bald woman battling cancer is a dyke too?

DNF

“Judge less, Love more”

Since: Apr 07

Born in Newark Ohio

#12 Nov 14, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
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You're an ass. The family went to a restaurant to have a meal. The waitress chose to make an issue of her sexuality in a way that was intentionally invasive to others peace and tranquility. That is not part of being a waitress.
Queers are really asking for it. They will be forced into mental hospitals before this is over.
She is a former Marine. Hence short hair.

Are you suggesting all marines are Dykes?

“ WOOF ! ”

Since: Nov 12

Coolidge, AZ

#13 Nov 14, 2013
DNF wrote:
<quoted text>She is a former Marine. Hence short hair.
Are you suggesting all marines are Dykes?
A "former Marine" always has short hair ?!
Chance

Grove City, PA

#14 Nov 14, 2013
Another story that just doesn't hold water. They left that at the end of the meal (allegedly), and she refrained from spitting in their food. How noble of her not to spit in food they had finished eating. How did they know she's gay? Did she make a pass at the woman? Also,$93 for a meal for four people? Oh, wait. It was New Jersey. Even so, I believe this whole thing was made up. It got that gay guy a lot. Guess she thought she'd give it a whirl, too.
david traversa

Buenos Aires, Argentina

#15 Nov 14, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
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You're an ass. The family went to a restaurant to have a meal. The waitress chose to make an issue of her sexuality in a way that was intentionally invasive to others peace and tranquility. That is not part of being a waitress.
Queers are really asking for it. They will be forced into mental hospitals before this is over.
So far they haven't been "forced into mental hospitals".. But we know somebody who should have been in one long ago, don't we ? People like you are so obviously bitter and frustrated since your particular brand of hate is being ignored by the sane of this world .. But you can always count on freaks like Pat Robertson and Co.

“A JOURNEY OF A THOUSAND MILES”

Since: Aug 08

MUST BEGIN WITH A SINGLE STEP!

#16 Nov 15, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
Why is it necessary for gay people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways as to make families uncomfortable? It is because they are fundamentally insane and probably on drugs.
Where in the article did it EVER say the Waitress was a Lesbian? The article states that the waitress had short hair basically because she was a Marine and likes her hair short......however this mother was INCREDIBLY judgmental simply because the woman had short hair......and then ASSumed something NOT in evidence based strictly on her short hair!!!

This waitress served her Country.....and she deserves your respect, she has protected your rights to say the crap you do.....and she'd probably k!ck your azz if you were to say to her face what you posted here about her!!!

“ WOOF ! ”

Since: Nov 12

Coolidge, AZ

#17 Nov 15, 2013
NorCal Native wrote:
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Where in the article did it EVER say the Waitress was a Lesbian? The article states that the waitress had short hair basically because she was a Marine and likes her hair short......however this mother was INCREDIBLY judgmental simply because the woman had short hair......and then ASSumed something NOT in evidence based strictly on her short hair!!!
This waitress served her Country.....and she deserves your respect, she has protected your rights to say the crap you do.....and she'd probably k!ck your azz if you were to say to her face what you posted here about her!!!
I remember a case a few years ago when I lived in New York, reading an article in the newspaper about 2 tourists who were walking hand in hand on a sidewalk in the West Village. This "gay couple" was suddenly attacked by some men who leaped from a car and began beating them, and hurling gay slurs at them. The "gay couple" needed to be hospitalized, and witnesses copied down the license plate number of the car, and the attackers were arrested and charged.

Soon after, the attackers learned that the "gay couple" were actually a str8 married couple. The woman had short hair, and the attackers just assumed she was a feminine gay male.

“RAINBOW POWER!”

Since: Oct 08

I Am What I Am.

#18 Nov 15, 2013
Cordwainer Trout wrote:
Why is it necessary for gay people to flaunt their choices in public in such egregious ways as to make families uncomfortable?
She wasn't "flaunting" anything. The customer just noticed her short hair and assumed she was gay. What if she had been a straight woman with short hair and the same thing happened? I bet your response would be totally different.

Since: Mar 09

Location hidden

#19 Nov 15, 2013
Here's the link to the ORIGINAL article:

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/family-ref...

Some posters should at least read it the way it was before "EDGE" pissed in it.
Gay-American Rainbow Kid

Alpharetta, GA

#20 Nov 15, 2013
Chance wrote:
Another story that just doesn't hold water. They left that at the end of the meal (allegedly), and she refrained from spitting in their food. How noble of her not to spit in food they had finished eating. How did they know she's gay? Did she make a pass at the woman? Also,$93 for a meal for four people? Oh, wait. It was New Jersey. Even so, I believe this whole thing was made up. It got that gay guy a lot. Guess she thought she'd give it a whirl, too.
The machine-printed credit card receipt shows how the snarling religious cheapskate robbed the waitress using religion instead of a gun
http://www.topix.com/bigpic/mini-740c6c06d759...
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There ought to be a law

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