Child saw sex... now what?

Child saw sex... now what?

There are 17 comments on the CNN story from Apr 24, 2013, titled Child saw sex... now what?. In it, CNN reports that:

If your child walks in on you during an intimate moment, you need to tailor your response to the child's age, experts say.

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Thomas J Ruthaford Jr III

Heraklion, Greece

#2 Apr 24, 2013
Talk to them about it. They will ask their friends if you don't. Beter swallow your pride, man/woman up, put your big girl panties on, and have that talk that every parent dreads.
My kids have walked in on us a few times. We try to keep the covers on during sex. Besides that, I like to pull off my wifes dirty nylon panties that she has worn all day and made all stinky for me, and slide into them before I pound away on her. I like to fall sleep in them when we are done.


#3 Apr 24, 2013
i want a boyfriend, i want some sex, mmm i want somebody to pound on me, i want my panties all wet ,and a cock in my holes, i want to moan in pleasure, i can do that if i find boyfriend.

Schondorf, Germany

#5 Apr 24, 2013
get adding ! im bi boys or girls ! swap pics wiv me baby if a teen !29FFD2EA
PDX Dave

Portland, OR

#6 Apr 24, 2013
Oh yes I remember it well, I was 9 and when I walked in on them mom was going cowgirl and the door into their bedroom was at the foot of the bed so I got both eyes full of the entire scene! I evidently came in just as she was starting a climax, and although it seemed like an eternity I was standing there watching it not knowing what it was it was probably only 10 or 12 seconds or so, until she finished her 'gasm and turned around and saw me. I thought I was in trouble, but her face softened and smiled and she beckoned me over by the side of the bed. She explained to me that "mommy and daddy were making love because we love each other so much" and that it's something grown-ups do, and then once I was satisfied that neither she nor my dad worked being heard she told me to just go back to my room and should be in later to talk to me and that I was not in trouble. It was maybe an hour later she came in and we talked about what I'd seen, answered some questions and gave me some basic information. Wasn't traumatic at all to me, and I definitely liked what I had seen once I understood it! I was wanted to see it again, and well both parents never bothered to hide their nudity from me nor required me to hide mine from them, they never put on a show for me (though I certainly would've liked it)

Panchkula, India

#10 May 3, 2013
It is funny. I saw my unmarried aunt having sex with her boyfriend when I was about 9 or so. They were uncovered. She was lying under, legs up in the air. Later she called me and explained that she was in love and that is what people do when in love. I just knew that I should not talk of it anywhere. A few years later, just a few days before her marriage, she asked me to do it to her. I did it. The next few years I simply was too busy studying to even think of sex or girls. Then a girl friend acquired me :) Sex with her happened after many months, at her initiative. In the meanwhile I seemed to have forgotten all about the experiences in childhood. Looking at her unclothed was as new for me as if I had never seen a woman before. Am not sure whether having walked into my aunt having sex or later having sex with her made any impression other than that I recalled the details many years later when I was in my 40s.


#13 May 6, 2013
I'm impressed! One actual, legitimate response was posted before the thread went off the rails. A topix record, perhaps?

United States

#14 May 6, 2013
I used to stand just outside their door and jerk it while listening to them the door was usually cracked and if it wasn't I would crack it and sometimes got it open far enough to watch them
Open minded dad

United States

#15 May 8, 2013
hunnybum wrote:
It depends on the age of the kid and how open the family. About 2 years ago, I was on top of my husband with my back to him and legs spread. Our daughter walked in and we neither one noticed until I leaned forward to change position and saw her staring at my p***y and hubby's hard c**k as it started to slide out. She simply walked up and sat at the foot of our bed staring and asking questions. While I was trying to talk to her my husband kept pumping till kid left.
That is so hot! Did she ever ask to join in?

Fairfield, Australia

#16 May 8, 2013
olwyn wrote:
i want a boyfriend, i want some sex, mmm i want somebody to pound on me, i want my panties all wet ,and a cock in my holes, i want to moan in pleasure, i can do that if i find boyfriend.
sounds good "olwyn":) how about i buy you adrink first as an ice-breaker before heading back to my place where i can seduce and take full advantage of you sexually???

Saint Michael, MN

#21 May 8, 2013
hunnybum wrote:
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I;m glad you enjoyed it, I like sharing stories of family fun and developement
did your daughter watch you alot did she ever want to join in
Bald bull

Boise, ID

#23 May 8, 2013
Sounds awful hot hunnybum

Saint Michael, MN

#25 May 8, 2013
hunnybum wrote:
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She doesn't really watch alot and she still kinda young to really join, she has touched both me and her father, even a few times while we playing.
how long are you going to let her watch you when she gets older will you let her join in
West Coast Dave

Portland, OR

#27 May 8, 2013
Rhonafount wrote:
Our parents did it openly all over the house whenever and wherever the urge came upon them. Even if we went to the parental bed on weekend mornings for cuddles or to lark about they'd often do it. I can't remember an age at which I didn't see it. To us kids it was just a normal part of everyday life at home. All three of us kids were prematurely sexualized as a result, of course, but there was no trauma and no problem for us, either at the time or later in life. It was all explained to us and we had a phenomenal level of sex and relationships education too. It was an environment which wouldn't have suited every child, but it worked very well for us.
That's how we handled it with our three kids, eventually left the bedroom door open called them in so they could stand against the wall by the side of the bed and watch as long as they wanted to it was only a few minutes when they all had their curiosity answered and left to go in the other room and watch cartoons.

Laurel, MT

#37 Jun 27, 2013
hunnybum wrote:
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No kid didn't freaky out, and still watches and plays with me, hubby, and brothers. She enjoys it. She loves showing what god gave her, and see what he gave others.
How does she play with everyone? Can you say more about kids seeing you.

“Open & Honest”

Since: Mar 12

Somewhere in Central Arizona

#40 Jun 27, 2013
Kids don't freak out unless mom and dad freak out. If mom and dad treat it like a normal life occurrence, the kids will see it as such. It's really not a big deal unless you make it a big deal.

Tucker, GA

#41 Jun 27, 2013
Ki k daddy bwest123

“Open & Honest”

Since: Mar 12

Somewhere in Central Arizona

#44 Jun 27, 2013
hunnybum wrote:
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I agree. If my kids walk in we don't even stop.
There's no reason to stop. If you make it out to be evil or naughty then that's the attitude they will develop. It just like nudity, if you freak out about the naked body, they will develop phobia's about being seen naked. Who cares.

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