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Teens having sex at home: Are you OK with it?

There are 38 comments on the KXTV story from Jun 18, 2012, titled Teens having sex at home: Are you OK with it?. In it, KXTV reports that:

That's why she told her 18-year-old son that if he wants to have sex, she's not only okay with him having sex in the home, she'd prefer it.

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Since: Sep 10

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#22 Oct 3, 2012
It was going to happen whether I liked it or not. Kids have sex at home. I couldn't control it, only hope it is safe sex.
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#23 Oct 3, 2012
ShawnC222 wrote:
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That is understandable from watching my younger girl. She has the advantage of learning from her older sister and being comfortable with her sexuality even earlier while having to just imagine what it will be like for quite a while. When they finally get to become sexually active they are really ready and really wanting it.
Will be interesting when she finally does start sleeping with boys but hopefully it will still be at least another year before she starts doing it.
Well, its going to get a lot more interesting with our 15 year old. She's going out on a date with the new guy tomorrow night. Since its a school night, she has to be home early, so there probably won't be any sex, at least on the first date.
sally

Greenford, UK

#24 Oct 3, 2012
i give my oldest girl the ok she is 17 and he is 18 everythink was ok until about two weeks ago every time i go up staires she is sucking him off with the door open i think there doing for me to look its not very nice to see
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#25 Oct 3, 2012
sally wrote:
i give my oldest girl the ok she is 17 and he is 18 everythink was ok until about two weeks ago every time i go up staires she is sucking him off with the door open i think there doing for me to look its not very nice to see
Well if she charges for it, she could save up enough for college....
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#26 Oct 5, 2012
So our 15 year old comes home from her date last night and introduces her new guy to us. Then she says "we're going to my room for a few minutes, is that ok" so I said yes, but reminded her that it was a school night. So they go back to her room and they're in there for 15 or 20 minutes. After they came out the boy chatted with us for a few minutes and then left. Our daughter kept glancing at us nervously. She probably gave him oral. They have another date Saturday night.
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#27 Oct 5, 2012
Katie78 wrote:
It was going to happen whether I liked it or not. Kids have sex at home. I couldn't control it, only hope it is safe sex.
safest with their bro, nobody need know.
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#28 Oct 5, 2012
Waiting up for our 15 and 17 year olds to get home. They're out with their boyfriends and its a given that they'll be bringing them back to spend the night.

Earlier, I took them to the football game. Our school was playing a predominately black school and my two girls were giggling about how "hot" and "cute" the black football players were. They also speculated about just how well hung the black boys were. Things are getting even more interesting.
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#29 Oct 7, 2012
Our girls had a good night last night. Our 15 year old went out with her new guy and brought him home last night. Our 17 year old also brought home a new guy. Her bedroom is right below ours, so we heard a lot of noise during the night and early morning. Both boys just left about an hour ago.

When our girls showed up for brunch this morning, our 15 year old had a huge hickey on her neck. I asked her "what's that silly thing?" and she pointed at her sister and said that she has hickies too. I said I didn't see any, and our 17 year old blushed beet red and said she couldn't show us her hickies!
Proud Dad

Evansville, IN

#30 Oct 8, 2012
We let our two daughters have sex at home and they're both pretty much sluts. The older one is 19 and she cheated on every boyfriend she ever had. We lost count of how many guys she brought home with her, but there were at least 20. She's away at college now and screwing everything with a d*ck. The younger one is 17, still lives with us, and she's only slept with 5 or 6 guys, but she's given head to dozens of guys, because she's says its not really sex. For her 16th birthday we let her get her tongue pierced, even though we knew she wanted the piercing so she'd give better head. Last week my wife came home from work and saw 3 boys leaving the house and one of them was zipping up his pants.
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#31 Oct 9, 2012
Proud Dad wrote:
We let our two daughters have sex at home and they're both pretty much sluts. The older one is 19 and she cheated on every boyfriend she ever had. We lost count of how many guys she brought home with her, but there were at least 20. She's away at college now and screwing everything with a d*ck. The younger one is 17, still lives with us, and she's only slept with 5 or 6 guys, but she's given head to dozens of guys, because she's says its not really sex. For her 16th birthday we let her get her tongue pierced, even though we knew she wanted the piercing so she'd give better head. Last week my wife came home from work and saw 3 boys leaving the house and one of them was zipping up his pants.
Wonderful. You need to get them both some counseling... how to determine market pricing for sex related services and how to save and invest all the money they are going to make.... Do it right and they can even pay for their own college, as well as support you for the rest of your life... Its truly wonderful to see such entrepreneurial efforts in our young people..... instead of expecting some government hand outs...
Dad

Chicago, IL

#38 Feb 9, 2013
My wife and I discovered recently that our twin sons 17 were having sex together. It was shocking from the stand point that the boys had steady girl friends.
We sat down with our boys and explained the dangers of incest. They countered by pointing out that they were both males and by nature could not become pregnant. They also love each other like man and wife, never having sex with anyone else. They have separate bedrooms but sneak into one or the other after we go to bed.
After talking it over for a few days, my wife and I decided to let the boys do what they want. Standing nude and hard in front of us, they swore that they were never touch sexually by any other male or female. They are sorry that we will never become grand parents.

Since: Nov 12

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#39 Feb 9, 2013
I have allowed my boys to have sex at home. We spoke and decided that iI would rather have them at home safe than to be in a bad area trying to get nasty where they could get hurt. I have taught them about sex and they know if they do it they are responsible for making sure they are protected. NO UNWANTED BABY'S wanted here.
My oldest son has his girlfriend over all week end and several times during the week. I know they are active and as long as they are safe and not in the streets I am fine with it.More parents need to wake up and see that they are going to di it and better safe at home than sneaking around in unsafe areas.
topicksss

Chesapeake, VA

#41 Feb 9, 2013
Hey, "Doctor Fill", I found your reply to be interesting:

Can you tell me more about what
you mean for us to get by this?

"Consider these following as demonstrating that
this is an issue that we have to contend with:

https://www.facebook.com/LetMeHaveSexAtHome

https://plus.google.com/u/0/10312029724061467...

That first link above, is to Facebook,
and the second link is to Google Plus."

I mean, I can tell they are links, and all,
but why post them here? Tell us what they
are and why they are of value for us to go
and see whatever the sites in question are.

Since: Feb 13

Chicago, IL

#42 Mar 6, 2013
Dad wrote:
My wife and I discovered recently that our twin sons 17 were having sex together. It was shocking from the stand point that the boys had steady girl friends.
We sat down with our boys and explained the dangers of incest. They countered by pointing out that they were both males and by nature could not become pregnant. They also love each other like man and wife, never having sex with anyone else. They have separate bedrooms but sneak into one or the other after we go to bed.
After talking it over for a few days, my wife and I decided to let the boys do what they want. Standing nude and hard in front of us, they swore that they were never touch sexually by any other male or female. They are sorry that we will never become grand parents.
SOunds like you have them on the path to pleasing the men of town...all of them. How do I get in line to rate the head the daughters give?
Arwin

Australia

#43 Mar 7, 2013
that is the best way to trade with the teens as i am a teenager i can say that the perents should take it easy on their children... thank you for ur good beheaviour...
anyoneelse

Houston, TX

#45 Jul 20, 2013
ShawnC222 wrote:
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That is understandable from watching my younger girl. She has the advantage of learning from her older sister and being comfortable with her sexuality even earlier while having to just imagine what it will be like for quite a while. When they finally get to become sexually active they are really ready and really wanting it.
Will be interesting when she finally does start sleeping with boys but hopefully it will still be at least another year before she starts doing it.
hey its Summer2013. how about an update. any wonderful summer activities happening at your home, family, daughters and boyfriends?
Ocean56

AOL

#46 Jul 27, 2013
Nursingmommys5 wrote:
I have allowed my boys to have sex at home. We spoke and decided that iI would rather have them at home safe than to be in a bad area trying to get nasty where they could get hurt. I have taught them about sex and they know if they do it they are responsible for making sure they are protected. NO UNWANTED BABY'S wanted here.
I'm just wondering; what WOULD you do if one of your sons manages to get a girl pregnant? Yes, I know; you've "taught them about sex, and they know if they do it they're responsible for making sure they're protected." But here's the thing; condoms DO break occasionally, and birth control pills DO fail sometimes, which means an unwanted pregnancy CAN happen.

So, if a pregnancy DOES occur in spite of everything, would you insist that he step up to the plate and help the girl out if she decides to keep and raise the baby? Or would you contribute to the cost of an abortion if she does not?

Since: Jun 13

United States

#47 Jul 27, 2013
My 12 yr old is sexually active. As a single dad I worried a lot when she told me she was active. Feel much better now that she's bringing her lovers to the house; she has 6 boys she sleeps with on a regular basis but uses both condoms and the pill
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