Teens having sex at home: Are you OK with it?

Jun 18, 2012 Full story: KXTV 38

That's why she told her 18-year-old son that if he wants to have sex, she's not only okay with him having sex in the home, she'd prefer it.

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Big Man Ham

Clifton, NJ

#1 Jun 19, 2012
Only if I get to watch!
ItsSafe

Oak Harbor, WA

#2 Jun 19, 2012
When I found out my daughter was having sex I freeked at first. I didn't confront her at first because I wanted to think it thru. I knew in m mind you can't stop them once they did it. I talked to her and gave her condoms, that opened the door to conversation. I was raising my 14yr old daughter alone and didn't have any help. I told her if she was going to have sex do it at home. She opened up talking about her sex life to me and promised not to fuck some guy in the back seat of his car on a dirt road. Big man I agree lol
Carpe Diem

United States

#3 Jun 19, 2012
I take the same don't ask, don't tell approach with my teens that my parents took with me.
Brenda

Bellefontaine, OH

#4 Jun 19, 2012
my parents allowed me to have sex in my room at 15. When I tied a scarf on the doorknob they knew not to come in.

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Since: Jul 11

Brady, Texas

#5 Jun 19, 2012
My wife had two girls from her first marriage and we had two girls from our marriage. We had the same deal with all of them: If you want to have sex. we want you to do it in a safe place; bring him home and take him to your room. One of our daughters took us up on the deal and had her high school boy friend (they both were 17) in her room on several occasions (and they were quite loud).

If the girls were going to experiment with sex, I want them safe. We made condoms available without question.

Since: Sep 12

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#7 Oct 1, 2012
wiser_dude wrote:
My wife had two girls from her first marriage and we had two girls from our marriage. We had the same deal with all of them: If you want to have sex. we want you to do it in a safe place; bring him home and take him to your room. One of our daughters took us up on the deal and had her high school boy friend (they both were 17) in her room on several occasions (and they were quite loud).
If the girls were going to experiment with sex, I want them safe. We made condoms available without question.
Totally agree we have done the same with our daughter but I admit I wish they were a little quieter.
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#8 Oct 1, 2012
We have three daughters. Our two oldest are sexually active, and we let them do their thing in our house in a safe environment. Our 17 year old has already slept with 10 guys and our 15 year old with 2. We're going to let our youngest start dating when she turns 14 in March, and we'll let her do what she needs to do at home, just like her sisters.

Since: Sep 12

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#9 Oct 1, 2012
been there done that wrote:
We have three daughters. Our two oldest are sexually active, and we let them do their thing in our house in a safe environment. Our 17 year old has already slept with 10 guys and our 15 year old with 2. We're going to let our youngest start dating when she turns 14 in March, and we'll let her do what she needs to do at home, just like her sisters.
Its great your girls are able to enjoy themselves in a safe environment. Our youngest is 12 and hasn't started dating yet. Older daughter is 15 and is very open with her mom and pretty much with me about sex. She loves doing it and we wouldn't be able to stop her even if we wanted to. She has been sexually active for about a year and tells us she is so grateful we understand and is a respectful and responsible teen. We couldn't be more proud of her.
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been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#10 Oct 1, 2012
ShawnC222 wrote:
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Its great your girls are able to enjoy themselves in a safe environment. Our youngest is 12 and hasn't started dating yet. Older daughter is 15 and is very open with her mom and pretty much with me about sex. She loves doing it and we wouldn't be able to stop her even if we wanted to. She has been sexually active for about a year and tells us she is so grateful we understand and is a respectful and responsible teen. We couldn't be more proud of her.
It's the only way to go. And its crucial to make sure they're on birth control. Like I mentioned on the other thread, our 15 year old is now probably going to hook up with her third guy. Has your daughter been with more than one?

Since: Sep 12

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#11 Oct 1, 2012
been there done that wrote:
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It's the only way to go. And its crucial to make sure they're on birth control. Like I mentioned on the other thread, our 15 year old is now probably going to hook up with her third guy. Has your daughter been with more than one?
Absolutely right about birth control. My wife got her started as soon as she mentioned she was thinking about having sex and we encourage her to use condoms but she has told her mom she doesn't always use one. She only slept with her first boyfriend a few times and has been going with her second for about 6 months. Another really close friend comes over and she has done it with him a few times.
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#12 Oct 1, 2012
Eh?
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#13 Oct 1, 2012
ShawnC222 wrote:
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Absolutely right about birth control. My wife got her started as soon as she mentioned she was thinking about having sex and we encourage her to use condoms but she has told her mom she doesn't always use one. She only slept with her first boyfriend a few times and has been going with her second for about 6 months. Another really close friend comes over and she has done it with him a few times.
Sounds like she's having fun, and that's what matters. Its also good that she's been with several guys. At that age, she's too young to get emotionally wrapped up in someone.

Our 15 year old is juggling two boyfriends right now, and she's probably just looking for some short term fun with this new guy. Our 17 year old is starting to sleep around quite a bit. She's done two new guys since school started.

Since: Sep 12

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#14 Oct 1, 2012
been there done that wrote:
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Sounds like she's having fun, and that's what matters. Its also good that she's been with several guys. At that age, she's too young to get emotionally wrapped up in someone.
Our 15 year old is juggling two boyfriends right now, and she's probably just looking for some short term fun with this new guy. Our 17 year old is starting to sleep around quite a bit. She's done two new guys since school started.
As long as they are careful and that's why I think letting them do it at home is important,I want them to enjoy everything life has for them. Sounds like your older girl enjoys doing it as much as mine does and I am so happy for them even though it did take me a little while to get used to the idea after she started to bring boys home. She is with her boyfriend right now but it makes it easier to get her to get her homework done, that's required on school nights and she is good about it and gets great grades so we are happy and so is she.
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#15 Oct 1, 2012
ShawnC222 wrote:
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As long as they are careful and that's why I think letting them do it at home is important,I want them to enjoy everything life has for them. Sounds like your older girl enjoys doing it as much as mine does and I am so happy for them even though it did take me a little while to get used to the idea after she started to bring boys home. She is with her boyfriend right now but it makes it easier to get her to get her homework done, that's required on school nights and she is good about it and gets great grades so we are happy and so is she.
Yeah, our girls are very disciplined about their school work. Boys are only allowed to sleep over on weekends. It's actually going to be a relief when we let our youngest off the chain when she turns 14. She's very horny, just like her sisters, and we have to watch her like a hawk!

Since: Sep 12

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#16 Oct 1, 2012
been there done that wrote:
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Yeah, our girls are very disciplined about their school work. Boys are only allowed to sleep over on weekends. It's actually going to be a relief when we let our youngest off the chain when she turns 14. She's very horny, just like her sisters, and we have to watch her like a hawk!
I can imagine you really have to keep an eye on her at her age. Our youngest just started to masturbate a couple of months ago. Up until then she didn't have any interest in boys but I think that is changing. She and her sister talk about boys and sex and I don't think we will be able to hold her off until she is 14. I notice her going into the living room when her sister is with a boy in her room, you can hear quite a lot in the living room and she obviously likes to listen. We discourage it but still don't want her to think there is anything wrong with what her sister is doing with her friends.
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#17 Oct 1, 2012
ShawnC222 wrote:
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I can imagine you really have to keep an eye on her at her age. Our youngest just started to masturbate a couple of months ago. Up until then she didn't have any interest in boys but I think that is changing. She and her sister talk about boys and sex and I don't think we will be able to hold her off until she is 14. I notice her going into the living room when her sister is with a boy in her room, you can hear quite a lot in the living room and she obviously likes to listen. We discourage it but still don't want her to think there is anything wrong with what her sister is doing with her friends.
We didn't let our two older girls start dating until they were 15. With our youngest, we know that we can barely hold her back until she's 14, so we're just surrendering to the inevitable and letting her off the chain a year early. The three girls all have their bedrooms on the first floor, and we know that our youngest can hear all of the fun and games that her sisters are experiencing. Can't believe how horny she is! Tonight she was encoraging our 15 year old to hook up with this new guy that I mentioned earlier.

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#18 Oct 1, 2012
been there done that wrote:
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We didn't let our two older girls start dating until they were 15. With our youngest, we know that we can barely hold her back until she's 14, so we're just surrendering to the inevitable and letting her off the chain a year early. The three girls all have their bedrooms on the first floor, and we know that our youngest can hear all of the fun and games that her sisters are experiencing. Can't believe how horny she is! Tonight she was encoraging our 15 year old to hook up with this new guy that I mentioned earlier.
How funny, little sister encouraging her older sister to do it with the new guy. No it doesn't sound like you will be able to keep her on the leash much longer but as long as she is mature about it and you keep an eye one her it will work out fine.
been there done that

Nazareth, PA

#19 Oct 2, 2012
ShawnC222 wrote:
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How funny, little sister encouraging her older sister to do it with the new guy. No it doesn't sound like you will be able to keep her on the leash much longer but as long as she is mature about it and you keep an eye one her it will work out fine.
Somehow, I think our youngest is going to be the wildest one of the three. Right now, I think our 15 year old is really going to start ramping up her activity. Don't be too surprised if your daughter starts bringing new boys home with her. Its pretty much inevitable once they get started.
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#20 Oct 2, 2012
been there done that wrote:
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Somehow, I think our youngest is going to be the wildest one of the three. Right now, I think our 15 year old is really going to start ramping up her activity. Don't be too surprised if your daughter starts bringing new boys home with her. Its pretty much inevitable once they get started.
The youngest ones always are the wildest. Wait till she brings home four at once for a gang bang.... Or has cars waiting in line, all up and down the street....

Since: Sep 12

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#21 Oct 3, 2012
been there done that wrote:
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Somehow, I think our youngest is going to be the wildest one of the three. Right now, I think our 15 year old is really going to start ramping up her activity. Don't be too surprised if your daughter starts bringing new boys home with her. Its pretty much inevitable once they get started.
That is understandable from watching my younger girl. She has the advantage of learning from her older sister and being comfortable with her sexuality even earlier while having to just imagine what it will be like for quite a while. When they finally get to become sexually active they are really ready and really wanting it.
Will be interesting when she finally does start sleeping with boys but hopefully it will still be at least another year before she starts doing it.

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