Straight Dope: Should I Let My (Maybe) Gay Teenage Son Have Sleepovers With Boys?

Feb 13, 2013 | Posted by: roboblogger | Full story: City Paper

I'm a 37-year-old single father with a 14-year-old son. I've raised him on my own basically since birth, with help from some good friends and nearby family.

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WeTheSheeple wrote:
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Hmmmmmm, funny how that "right" to a mother & father doesn't show up anywhere in the constitution.
I guess we'll just keep having kids while you keep whining about it.
Ask him if he can provide a link that shows a child who was born without a mother or father.

Unless it's a clone, it's biologically impossible.

And even in cloning there is still a "parent" involved.

This is just another catch-phrase that makes no sense but gets a lot of traction because too many people don't think it through. It's the same as "alternate lifestyle" and "re-defining marriage".

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The only fact is we'll keep having kids and you'll keep whining about it.
You left out a very important point:

"We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity,..."

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DNF wrote:
<quoted text>Ask him if he can provide a link that shows a child who was born without a mother or father.
Unless it's a clone, it's biologically impossible.
And even in cloning there is still a "parent" involved.
This is just another catch-phrase that makes no sense but gets a lot of traction because too many people don't think it through. It's the same as "alternate lifestyle" and "re-defining marriage".
I agree. It's an example of the "BIG LIE" technique.

It's like when Democrats always say: "I'm from the government and here to help you.:)"
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If your not a troll, which strongly suspect, the point is 14 year old's dont have "sleepovers". If they are, and you suspect he is gay, then his friend is gay. And if they are gay, then they are already having sex, sleepover or not. so what would you prefer, they sneak around in deserted public places and have sex, have sex when your not home, or have sex on sleepovers. Hey at least they are safe, and who knows, maybe in love, and just want to cudle after sex. Buy him a box of condoms, some Astroglide, and let him have his friend over.

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I agree. It's an example of the "BIG LIE" technique.
It's like when Democrats always say: "I'm from the government and here to help you.:)"
I've decided it's time to start asking people to add you to the David Moore Honest AbeL list.

I don't judge all Republicans based on the legacy of Bush/Cheney. Nor do I judge all Democrats based on the actions of guys like DuBurns from Maryland.

I know it makes your world much simpler when you create some boogy man to blame everything on. IMHO you are as bad as the people who demonize all gays based on what a small segment of our community (drag queens for example or gays like you).

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If your not a troll, which strongly suspect, the point is 14 year old's dont have "sleepovers". If they are, and you suspect he is gay, then his friend is gay. And if they are gay, then they are already having sex, sleepover or not. so what would you prefer, they sneak around in deserted public places and have sex, have sex when your not home, or have sex on sleepovers. Hey at least they are safe, and who knows, maybe in love, and just want to cudle after sex. Buy him a box of condoms, some Astroglide, and let him have his friend over.
I'm curious about who you are addressing.

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DNF wrote:
<quoted text>I've decided it's time to start asking people to add you to the David Moore Honest AbeL list.
I don't judge all Republicans based on the legacy of Bush/Cheney. Nor do I judge all Democrats based on the actions of guys like DuBurns from Maryland.
I know it makes your world much simpler when you create some boogy man to blame everything on. IMHO you are as bad as the people who demonize all gays based on what a small segment of our community (drag queens for example or gays like you).
i LOVE drag queens. My first LTR was with a drag queen, and I ran with taht crowd, although I've never done drag. And it was teh drag queens that finally fought back at Stonewall. So you're just as bad as other anti-gay bigots.

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I'm sort of shocked at the double standard I'm seeing from some other gays on here.

We all go on and on about equality, but in this case it appears a lot of gays on this thread want to apply special exemptions for gay teen boys to the rules that would normally apply to straight children of the same age group.

I'm not going to endorse that double standard and then claim I want "equal rights".

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i LOVE drag queens. My first LTR was with a drag queen, and I ran with taht crowd, although I've never done drag. And it was teh drag queens that finally fought back at Stonewall. So you're just as bad as other anti-gay bigots.
Yes I know. Funny that you don't think that dead Republican committeeman who spawned you isn't spinning in his grave over you chasing chicks with dicks.

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<quoted text>Yes I know. Funny that you don't think that dead Republican committeeman who spawned you isn't spinning in his grave over you chasing chicks with dicks.
My parents, my siblings, my aunts, my uncles, and my cousins, ALL treated her as family and treated her better than her own flesh and blood did.

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Tyler wrote:
If your not a troll, which strongly suspect, the point is 14 year old's dont have "sleepovers". If they are, and you suspect he is gay, then his friend is gay. And if they are gay, then they are already having sex, sleepover or not. so what would you prefer, they sneak around in deserted public places and have sex, have sex when your not home, or have sex on sleepovers. Hey at least they are safe, and who knows, maybe in love, and just want to cudle after sex. Buy him a box of condoms, some Astroglide, and let him have his friend over.
I agree with most of what you say. I was also going to suggest his father put a tube of lube under his pillow along with some condoms.

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DNF wrote:
I'm sort of shocked at the double standard I'm seeing from some other gays on here.
We all go on and on about equality, but in this case it appears a lot of gays on this thread want to apply special exemptions for gay teen boys to the rules that would normally apply to straight children of the same age group.
I'm not going to endorse that double standard and then claim I want "equal rights".
BINGO!

A gay kid needs to learn self-discipline and how to wait till they're older just like hetero kids. It's part of character development. We have entirely too many people deficient in positive character qualities in this world.

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Lady Evil wrote:
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I'm speaking of the natural order of the family structure. Male and female. Something gays 'forfeited' entirely yet wish to redefine.
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The natural order of family structure is male/male or Female/female for some of the population. Not a difficult concept.

No one is redefining a thing, since this simple fact has no bearing on any straight person's family structure.

Who in their right mind spends time worrying about other people's families? Wouldn't it make more sense to work to strengthen your own?
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The natural order of family structure is male/male or Female/female for some of the population. Not a difficult concept.
No one is redefining a thing, since this simple fact has no bearing on any straight person's family structure.
Who in their right mind spends time worrying about other people's families? Wouldn't it make more sense to work to strengthen your own?
yes! I definitely agree!

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BINGO!
A gay kid needs to learn self-discipline and how to wait till they're older just like hetero kids. It's part of character development. We have entirely too many people deficient in positive character qualities in this world.
Big Red Heart.

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I love boy can help for ur son ?

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