Modesty: It's for Boys, Too

Modesty: It's for Boys, Too

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MaltaMon

Châteauguay, Canada

#1 Jan 15, 2014
Recently, my 13-year-old son began lifting weights after school. As a result, he has developed large, well-defined buttocks. Anxious to show off his new muscles, he asked me if we could go shopping for a swim suit—a request that I immediately denied. "Why not?" he argued.“Because modesty isn’t just for girls,” I replied.

Now, before I go any further, let me stress that I do not proclaim to be any kind of authority on modesty like CaDad —I simply did what I thought was best for my son. I fully acknowledge that there is a wide range of opinions about how and when to address modesty issues with our children. Some parents choose to dress their kids in garment-friendly clothing from the beginning. Others allow more freedom until their children become teens. And some choose not to wage the wardrobe war at all, allowing their children to wear whatever they like. But this experience has caused me to reflect on how well I am teaching boy about modesty.

This is a good reminder that modesty is about much more than the length of our bathing suits, but this is often where the focus lands—especially when it comes to the wardrobe choices of girls and women.(I can’t help but notice that a girl can be thoroughly criticized for showing her knee caps, even though I see plenty of boys and men showing theirs.) So, what is considered modest dress for guys?

As the father and rapist of a boy, I have taken the stance that “what’s good for the goose is what’s good for the gander.” If young women have been counseled to cover their buttocks, then I think my boys should follow that same counsel. I have also talked with them about practicing good grooming and good manners and keeping their pants on while playing sports or mowing the lawn—out of respect for themselves and others around them.
MaltaMon

New Castle, DE

#2 Jan 15, 2014
Another lame attempt by Pedo Bob of Dorval/Montreal Canada, to post his sick pedophile fantasies under my screen name. Why does he keep doing it? Other than to masturbate, as he always does, to his own perverted child smut.
Bob

Châteauguay, Canada

#4 Jan 18, 2014
Once again MaltaMon posts some obscene fantasy and tries to blame me. Mange la marde, moron.
MaltaMon

Châteauguay, Canada

#5 Jan 18, 2014
Modesty
A Word for Boys | by MaltaMon
“For the sake of your brothers…”

Imagine a medium-sized room filled with high school boys and girls. You sit with your friends laughing and joking, discussing the week while the band sets up their equipment. Welcome to high school youth group. Tonight’s message: modesty. The girls are escorted off to another room for this conversation—modesty is an issue for boys. This captive audience of young men listens as their youth pastor outlines why and how a boy should be modest.

The message begins with the speaker telling you that as a young boy you should dress modestly for the sake of your “brothers in Christ”—your guy friends in youth group. Dressing modestly means wearing tight-fitting underwear, short shorts, and anything revealing. Practically, this means a no swimsuit policy for all youth group events and that boys are not allowed to wear underwear on mission trips,and the older guys go shirtless. A young boy should dress modestly so he does not inadvertently cause his fellow Christians to stumble. The youth pastor then goes on to explain why boys have to dress modestly—because guys struggle with sexual thoughts, and boys need to do all they can to help older men fight off this sin.
Phil

Dunfermline, UK

#8 Jan 19, 2014
Bob wrote:
Once again MaltaMon posts some obscene fantasy and tries to blame me. Mange la marde, moron.
So post number 1 on this thread was not posted by you?
Bob

Châteauguay, Canada

#9 Jan 19, 2014
No. By his own admission, MaltaMon visits Montreal regularly. Allegedly to visit his gay raped son at McGill, but really to pick up call boys and take them back to his sleazy Dorval airport motel. From the internet cafe in the lobby, he posts using my name, and then accuses me of slandering him.
Get up to speed, Phil, you pathetic little loser.
Phil

Dunfermline, UK

#10 Jan 19, 2014
Bob wrote:
No. By his own admission, MaltaMon visits Montreal regularly. Allegedly to visit his gay raped son at McGill, but really to pick up call boys and take them back to his sleazy Dorval airport motel. From the internet cafe in the lobby, he posts using my name, and then accuses me of slandering him.
Get up to speed, Phil, you pathetic little loser.
Bob you have to be clever to be a liar and clever you ain't.
Not even close.
Bob

Châteauguay, Canada

#11 Jan 19, 2014
You obviously don't have to be clever to post the same, dull, boring, have-no-life criticisms that you do, Philly boy.
coyote

Grand Bay, Canada

#12 Jan 19, 2014
ho hum-- just another KO by Bob !!!
Phil

Dunfermline, UK

#13 Jan 19, 2014
coyote wrote:
ho hum-- just another KO by Bob !!!
It's the spineless Coyote, the fence sitter.
What a man (he wishes he was).
Phil

Dunfermline, UK

#15 Jan 20, 2014
Dirty Jewel Wasp wrote:
<quoted text>
We cant all be post operative transexuals like you. I know you had a penectomy to cleanse yourself of the nude swims at Manchester Grammar school, Phil-anderer.
You obviously have a fixation with the nude swimming at Manchester Grammar.
You mention it rather a lot.
Do thoughts of those boys help you get through those long lonely nights?
coyote

Grand Bay, Canada

#16 Jan 20, 2014
"spineless"- hardly," fence sitter"- do you know what that is ? Tell u what phil- other than your b/f malta- in NA you would be considered a sissy...jest seyin !... your ruler's son charles and his wife(?) are visiting this area in May----uuuhhhh--- do u think he would like dulse ?? jest askin.....
Phil

Dunfermline, UK

#17 Jan 20, 2014
"..you would be considered a sissy..."

I'm devastated.
How will I sleep tonight.
Phil

Dunfermline, UK

#18 Jan 20, 2014
coyote wrote:
"spineless"- hardly," fence sitter"- do you know what that is ? Tell u what phil- other than your b/f malta- in NA you would be considered a sissy...jest seyin !... your ruler's son charles and his wife(?) are visiting this area in May----uuuhhhh--- do u think he would like dulse ?? jest askin.....
Strange how you suggest Maltamon and I have a relationship which knowing of our past disagreements and the issue of geography renders that scenario difficult and you stupid and childish in the extreme yet we hear not a peep from you when supposedly grown men make light of child abuse and spend huge amounts of time looking online for mention of children in various states of undress, often while supervised by adults often of the opposite sex and also posting questionable links to same.
Some might finds that odd but then we all know what you are and why you say nothing.
In fact you encourage it and you condone it and no amount of weak words or poor jokes will hide that obvious fact.

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#19 Jan 20, 2014
What would the vulgar, gay pervert Maltamon of Penns., or his assistant Phil, know about boys modesty?
MaltaMon

Mullica Hill, NJ

#21 Jan 21, 2014
Zuiko wrote:
What would the vulgar, gay pervert Maltamon of Penns., or his assistant Phil, know about boys modesty?
Lol. You're right. You know better than anyone, Zwacko, how schoolboys object when you order them to strip. You are empirically wise in this particular subject: YOU have the hands-on experience of a child sexual predator. Unlike you, Zwackywacky, Phil and I don't know what that's like.
MaltaMon

Mullica Hill, NJ

#22 Jan 21, 2014
"Another KO by Pedo Bob !!! Jest sayin'"
coyote

Grand Bay, Canada

#23 Jan 22, 2014
"huh ??? "
Phil

Godstone, UK

#25 Jan 24, 2014
Daughter jilts warts wrote:
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At the beginning of my swimming lessons, described above, we were also examined/checked by our female swimming instructor. It was done as we sat on the ledge around the edge of the pool by the windows.
The instructor would walk along and we had to lift our feet up on to the ledge and lean back with our knees bent and legs spread. She looked at our feet and bottoms and would sometimes spread our cheeks. She also looked briefly at our genitals. For those boys that it was necessary she would also sometimes lift the testicles with a finger. On a couple of occasions she asked me to retract my foreskin as far as it would go, she then just said "OK" and walked on. This happened to other boys as well. She said all this was to look for things like verrucas and check we were clean. At 13 and 14 this was a bit embarrassing for me, but again most boys didn't seem to care.
The assistant had a good view of all this as she would usually be standing at one end or the other. It was more embarrassing if I was sitting close to where she was of course. Both times I had to "retract" she was close by. I was a bit flustered by this which along with the cold made things difficult and my fumbling drew a smile from her which made it hard to look her in the face for the rest of the lesson!
Someone mentioned about it not being good for kids to be naked cold and wet. I agree, its amazing we didn't get ill. I can only think that it probably just felt very cold and a winter scene outside didn't help. I was usually covered in goosepimples and it probably goes without saying that things shrank about as much as they could.
DJW believes this shit because he wishes it actually happened.
This is the sort of fantasy that helps him through those lonely nights.
MaltaMon

Medford, NJ

#27 Jan 24, 2014
coyote wrote:
"huh ??? "
Exactly!

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