Scared of dying

[Matter]

Hi guys just wondered if anybody else as a massive fear of dying I'm only 21 a am perfectly healthy I just needed some advice on how to deal with this
I would appreciate any genuine answers but realise I will get some idiotic ones
Thanks

[alkemp]

If you have'nt already you need to talk to your GP. It's sounds like a bad phobia. he might suggest councelling, I don't think medication would help but perhaps talking about it may. good luck

Matter wrote:

Hi guys just wondered if anybody else as a massive fear of dying I'm only 21 a am perfectly healthy I just needed some advice on how to deal with this
I would appreciate any genuine answers but realise I will get some idiotic ones
Thanks

[BatmanAndRobin]

Matter wrote:

Hi guys just wondered if anybody else as a massive fear of dying I'm only 21 a am perfectly healthy I just needed some advice on how to deal with this
I would appreciate any genuine answers but realise I will get some idiotic ones
Thanks

You Sir are a fookin big girls blouse, i suggest you be an hero and get it out of the way sooner rather than later.

I recommend the "Japanese detergent method" quick and painless.

[BrainOfMorbius]

“We are going to die, and that makes us the lucky ones. Most people are never going to die because they are never going to be born. The potential people who could have been here in my place but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumber the sand grains of Arabia. Certainly those unborn ghosts include greater poets than Keats, scientists greater than Newton. We know this because the set of possible people allowed by our DNA so massively exceeds the set of actual people. In the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I, in our ordinariness, that are here.”

― Richard Dawkins

[Eve and the Serpents]

We die, then we die. It's inevitable, you can't stop it.
Everything happens for a reason.
Talk it out, you'll feel better.

Dying is just another chapter.
Hope you manage to deal with your worries :-)

[Man in GAs mums bed]

Eve and the Serpents wrote:

We die, then we die. It's inevitable, you can't stop it.
Everything happens for a reason.
Talk it out, you'll feel better.
Dying is just another chapter.
Hope you manage to deal with your worries :-)

oh so we die twice then?? great that should help him.

[Matter]

I have spoke to a gp and goin for cbt I have work in health care for a while and never before really been bothered about it I understand it's inevitable and I have many goals I want to achieve I just thought it would be good to see different peoples views on it
I appreciate the comments guys

And the one about the Japanese detergent I will pass thanks :)

[Eve and the Serpents]

You know that's not what I mean, just that it is what it is, you know?

Jesus, why am I typing in riddles...

[TAXI FOR BENNY]

Eve and the Serpents wrote:

We die, then we die. It's inevitable, you can't stop it.
Everything happens for a reason.
Talk it out, you'll feel better.
Dying is just another chapter.
Hope you manage to deal with your worries :-)

sorry eve,,need to stop you right there..did you know that we only die the 1 time,,just look at your statement above?...

[fairy skruff]

Cbt works for some ppl.
I have horrific panic attacks where im running and screaming and can't controll the fear that's with me all the time. I smoked brown to make it go away but that just ruined my life. Downers work.
weed makes me have panic attacks increase for weeks after
So does pills etc
IF U have a good 2cb experience it can stop for ages, U can leave drugs on a bad experience and keep getting fearfull flashbacks...
Ice had fear since v v early age. Doubting religious answers and was screaming since I was v young.
Got diagnosis of transgender issues, abuse etc which id rwpressed and was making me miserable.
Being unhappy with ur life makes U focus on it
I always wished I could if given birth to a child but as a boy and never with a girl who wanted to start a family it took till inwas 30. Love, being in love and children are the only forces stronger. If U have no faith in religion. I have found comfort in buddism and eastern religions. I didn't find Thailand spirtual really and am planning to see a guru in India one day aoon

[billi]

Matter wrote:

Hi guys just wondered if anybody else as a massive fear of dying I'm only 21 a am perfectly healthy I just needed some advice on how to deal with this
I would appreciate any genuine answers but realise I will get some idiotic ones
Thanks

its a phobia m8 see a psyco therapist they have the tools to deal with you
is it pain of dying or after life worries you
enjoy like your only 21
my cousin 45 just died so sad words are fruitless to explain the feelings

[xXx]

THIS SONG MIGHT HELP you understand :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch...

[billi]

fairy skruff wrote:

Cbt works for some ppl.
I have horrific panic attacks where im running and screaming and can't controll the fear that's with me all the time. I smoked brown to make it go away but that just ruined my life. Downers work.
weed makes me have panic attacks increase for weeks after
So does pills etc
IF U have a good 2cb experience it can stop for ages, U can leave drugs on a bad experience and keep getting fearfull flashbacks...
Ice had fear since v v early age. Doubting religious answers and was screaming since I was v young.
Got diagnosis of transgender issues, abuse etc which id rwpressed and was making me miserable.
Being unhappy with ur life makes U focus on it
I always wished I could if given birth to a child but as a boy and never with a girl who wanted to start a family it took till inwas 30. Love, being in love and children are the only forces stronger. If U have no faith in religion. I have found comfort in buddism and eastern religions. I didn't find Thailand spirtual really and am planning to see a guru in India one day aoon

my cousin traveled the world met the holy dahlai lama , leaders of plo traveled tibet , gurus in india , but budism and hindism are great , when you die i believe plant a tree over your grave
nothing realy dies like in india everyone goes back to mother gangess river
its a nice taught

[billi]

find comfort it some thing and live not wait to die

[Knock Knock]

Matter wrote:

Hi guys just wondered if anybody else as a massive fear of dying I'm only 21 a am perfectly healthy I just needed some advice on how to deal with this
I would appreciate any genuine answers but realise I will get some idiotic ones
Thanks

I had a chest x-ray 2 weeks ago. 4 days after a get a call from the doctors receptionist telling me the doctor wants to see me asap! Now after 35 years of smoking and chest pains THAT is the phone call to make one "Man Up" but quickly. I took the call whilst driving and had to pull over to compose my self. I'd already half convinced myself that my card waz marked anyway. I'm not out of the woods yet. You're young and healthy..get a grip if'n you can.

[Matter]

billi wrote:

<quoted text>its a phobia m8 see a psyco therapist they have the tools to deal with you
is it pain of dying or after life worries you
enjoy like your only 21
my cousin 45 just died so sad words are fruitless to explain the feelings

I would say the pai I suppose but have been around a lot Patients who were terminal and none of them were in pain and one even sang before she died(she had resp failure)
I know I'm 21 fit healthy etc
One person in there 80's told me I'm lookIng at it through the eyes of a 20 year old in the ways that I have done things I really want to yet

[Airhead]

Eve and the Serpents wrote:

You know that's not what I mean, just that it is what it is, you know?
Jesus, why am I typing in riddles...

You don't HAVE to comment on every bastod thread,if you ain't got fek all worthwhile ta' say then "say fek all"

[shivawia]

But darling, death is beautiful, death is a new chapter, a new beginning. It certainly is not the end. Oh why death fascinates so much..

[Matter]

I suppose I'm just been pessimistic and should just enjoy life and what I have I'm not one of these people that fear it will come anytime soon or worry it might happen soon

[PowerRush]

shivawia wrote:

But darling, death is beautiful, death is a new chapter, a new beginning. It certainly is not the end. Oh why death fascinates so much..

Haha. Pretentious cliches. Brilliant.

No. Death means you're dead. That's the END. It's when you die. You are getting death mixed up with birth. Or something else.