Ambien Sex

[Dave]

My Wife takes ambein and I tell you she is wonderful when she is on it!! But i do feel guilty for taking advantage of her and she doesn't seem to be plowed when she is on it so sometimes I dont know until the oral sex comes out and all a can say is WOW!!!

[Vincent]

Both my Sister and I have shared similiar stories about Ambien blackouts and use and all are EXTREMELY scary. First of all, I am an OCD type, very clean, hygenic with a roomate. I had not taken Ambien as recommended and after a night of drinking, I took a pill and blacked out. Apparently, while in a sedated state, I started taking more pills and consumed about 80 milligrams. My roomate said he caught me pacing around my apartment and apparently went in the bathroom, took poo out of the toilet and started throwing it. I have never been to a brothel, but apparently I texted a friend that I wanted to "go out and buy whores". My sister called me because apparently she called our mother while in her Ambien state and said "Mom hey, I just had my husband f- me with in the a-s with a dildo, and now Im eating cookies in bed". I laughed in part, because this is the sister that studied to be a nun and almost entered the convent. CRAZY! We have both stopped taking it...my wish is for this harmful drug to be better controlled or taken off themarket.

[Is this real]

Barbie wrote:

thoughtbubble That is a load of CRAP!!!! Oh yeah I want person(A) to be confused,sad,maybe worried & forgets better sex. What the hell?

You need to stop acting so prudish and get laid for cryin out loud!

[becky]

Um, am I the only one who seems to be feeling a decrease in my libido? Not sure if it is related to the Ambien, I am in a long distance relationship and I do not have too many opportunities to have sex but I feel completely asexual. Any feedback?

[Barbie]

You need to stop acting so prudish and get laid for cryin out loud!
Acting prudish, you don't know me f--- yourself! It's not wrong to repect your mate. Who the hell are you? Post your story/comment. I've done nothing or post anything towards you. Go take an ambien & get laid.

[Barbie]

Sorry folks!! I thought a person could post ideas & information not be attacked.

My last post was for "Is this real".

[Is this real]

Barbie - All you've done is post ridiculous rants towards husbands who have had relations with their wives. I don't know where you're from, but if the worse thing that happens is that a married couple has sex consentually, then please explain who's the victim? Let me go further:

There was another post (on a different string) I read from a guy that was very accurate. His point was,(1) If husbands ignored their wives and had no sexual content with them, some women would be the first to run to your girlfriends and bitch about that. Yet, when the wife takes Ambien and has what is obviously mind blowing sex with their MARRIED PARTNER, someone like YOU pipes up and bitches about that! I've read your posts and I'd bet YOU'RE that type of person. That's why I called you prudish....(2) If the wife fully knows the side effects involves the potential for sex and no memory, yet continues to take it, then a certain amount of that responsibility rests on her shoulders too. THERE ARE OTHER OPTIONS FOR SLEEP AIDS.

So, Barbie, this is not about disrespecting your mate. I think you're uptight and got your panties in a wad over nothing. Therefore, when I see bullshit, I call it bullshit. So what you need to do is understand that relationships involve communication from BOTH sides. If both sides understand and accept the potential for this sexual situation to occur, then ALL of your points about respecting your mate and your ridiculous points about Spouse Rape blah blah blah, couldn't be more wrong and out of line.

So, if you're one of those women/wives taking Ambien and you don't want your husband touching you - then obviously you have some other deep seated issues to deal with. But, more importantly, STOP TAKING IT!

[Liz]

I love taking my ambien. I actually take zolpidem for my insomnia, but I don't know that there is any real difference between the two. I am completely uninhibited, but I don't do things I wouldn't normally enjoy. And though my memory may be a bit foggy the next day, telling me about what we did together brings nearly everything back!
I have pelvic pain problems caused by endometriosis, so sex can be very painful for me, but when I take my ambien, it isn't that way at all. I am very into what we are doing, I don't feel pain (though the next day I can be crampy) and my husband gets the best sex from me (and me from him). It's like we are on our honeymoon all over again. I don't feel out of control, I am very much in control of myself, I am just uninhibited.
I have been taking this drug for years. I don't abuse it, I can sleep without it though it is poor sleep (tossing and turning and waking up repeatedly). When I first started taking it, I would have wonderful sex and remember nothing. Over the years that has become a non-issue, and I don't feel that my husband is taking advantage of me because I know that I am very sexual when I take this drug. I say bottoms up (sometimes literally)!

[Barbie]

Ok "Is this real" I think this has gotten out of hand.I think you can read I'm from Nebraska. I'm sorry that my 4 post upset you. I was just agreeing with "Appalled" cuz it seemed some of the men where getting the nasty dishonestly. You didn't attack "Appalled". If any women wants to take Ambien & have sex OK. I thought the one poster
who wanted to put it in his GF drink was wrong. I'm
coming from a totaly different place. I was raped by a past boyfriend that put something in my drink
(not Ambien). It was alittle hard to read. Sorry I upset you so bad that you needed to let me have it. I hope you feel better.I'm also sorry I wrote the things I did.I shouldn't have done that low.
I'm happy you have an open communication with your parnter, some don't. Really, my so called rant was really meant towards men/parnters who are using Ambien to be dishonest in their intent.
Peace

[Vero]

ok so I love the affects of ambien, I love letting go of it all and giving my husband crazy wild sex with no boundaries. I usually remember bits and pieces of the night before when I wake up naked, or wake up with my clothes inside out. My husband does not really like the idea of me taking anything, but I know he enjoys it when my inhibitions go out the window. The downside of ambien though is that I text, call and email things I do not remember, I devour food, I cant remember eating, I sometimes try and take more ambien too. It is kind of scary of what we are capable of doing while not really awake.

[Is this real]

Ok Barbie - I'm glad you got the point. I don't condone Men abusing women nor do I agree with "secretly" drugging them either. I agree with you that there are some INSECURE men who feel the need to do this because they have no confidence in themselves. Those men are truly the sick ones.

I recognize that your point of view was that of a sexual victim and I'm sorry to hear that. I am sensitive to that situation 100%.

My beef was simply to point out that with all the divorce, spouse abuse, marital murder/suicides, etc - that consenting married people rejuvenating their sex lives (even if it is drug induced) is a welcomed change to those trends and I simply could not allow you or anyone to diminish it.

My message was kinda harsh cause you pushed the right buttons and I apologize for the tone.

[Mee]

Sex on ambien is great, if you can remember it. If you are a guy, be careful because ambien in higher dosage also has a muscle relaxant effect, so it might affect you...

[Ski Junkie]

My wife started taking Ambien a couple of months ago. Our sex life was nearly non-existent over the last year and a half (menopause) though she wants to try and please me. Since starting the ambien, she will let me have my way with her and gets totally relaxed. I won't do anything to hurt her but the sex is amazing for me. I don't consider this rape and neither does she. She gives me consent to play with her as long as I don't do anything to cause her injury. I am very careful and gentle with her and if anything we have grown closer than we have been in years.

[Ski Junkie]

Liz wrote:

I love taking my ambien. I actually take zolpidem for my insomnia, but I don't know that there is any real difference between the two. I am completely uninhibited, but I don't do things I wouldn't normally enjoy. And though my memory may be a bit foggy the next day, telling me about what we did together brings nearly everything back!
I have pelvic pain problems caused by endometriosis, so sex can be very painful for me, but when I take my ambien, it isn't that way at all. I am very into what we are doing, I don't feel pain (though the next day I can be crampy) and my husband gets the best sex from me (and me from him). It's like we are on our honeymoon all over again. I don't feel out of control, I am very much in control of myself, I am just uninhibited.
I have been taking this drug for years. I don't abuse it, I can sleep without it though it is poor sleep (tossing and turning and waking up repeatedly). When I first started taking it, I would have wonderful sex and remember nothing. Over the years that has become a non-issue, and I don't feel that my husband is taking advantage of me because I know that I am very sexual when I take this drug. I say bottoms up (sometimes literally)!

Bottoms Up! and this coming from a wife! Hooray!

[Ski Junkie]

Appalled wrote:

Rape is defined as having sex with someone without their consent. An individual who is mentally impaired (by drugs or alcohol) or who is underage, may not legally give consent.
Rape is possible within marriage (since the 1980s, following a particularly brutal case in Connecticut).
IT seems to me that many of you ecstatic men have been committing marital rape. Are you proud of this? You disgust me.
I'm disgusted by the idea of someone taking liberties with MY body when I am unable to give consent. If I wouldn't do it sober, don't do it to me when I'm drugged. For decency's sake, reject your partner's advances when you KNOW he or she is unable to give consent. Otherwise, its rape.

Okay, so if I am up front with my long-term partner about sexual activity before she takes the ambien, how is that rape?

What if the woman is unable to have normal intercourse but wants to please her man, and her taking ambien facilitates her man's satisfying his needs, if it is understood in advance what type of activities will occur. Nobody should get injured, even if it doesn't hurt at the time.

On the "drug and alcohol impairment" statement, does that mean if a couple shares a bottle of wine over dinner with a date (or spouse), there can be no consent, any sex is rape? If you drugged someone without their knowledge, that's totally different, is rape.

I think every situation presented is different. For my wife and I it has helped our sex life tremendously and if anything made us communicate better and be more sensitive to each others needs in all aspects. The ambien use will end at some point, but she may consider keeping it to use once or twice per week for me ;)

[LGK]

I'm so glad I read this! I thought it was just me. My husband and I joke about "wild ambien sex" nights but it really can be quite extreme. and yes I often barely remember any of it. Such an odd side effect that is clearly not an isolated situation. I'm hapy to find out that this is normal

[kate]

I LOVE IT.
AND I ACTUALLY JUST TOOK ,IVE DONE PRETTY STRANGE THINGS ON OTHER DRUGS.
LIKE CO PROXIMAL AND ZOLPIDMEN TOGETHER I SHAVED HALF MY HAIR OFF AFTER DRINKING A SHOT OF SCOTCH.
I find it makes me feel really pleasant and even happy,i completely change my behaviour as im usally very withdrawn and untalkative but then on zolpidem i lose those cautious quite behaviour i wish there was a antideprressant that gave that feling because i am a better person when taking zolpidem

[gary]

wife wanted a devoice after not getting sex because she could not have sex with two men.

[chris]

My wife actually requested anal sex while on ambien! I love this stuff!

[Martin]

My wife just got Ambien but has not used it yet.

Does she have to go to sleep before the sexual effects take place or will they start if she fights sleep?

How long do these sexual effects last where there is no memory? hours? all night?

If she takes Ambien a few nights a week and it boosts our sex life, will she continue to be more aroused after she stops taking it due to the "hypnotic" effect? Will it work kind of like when a person sees a hypnotist to stop smoking? In other words, will our sex life benefit even after she stops taking it?

Just curious...