People get looked at badly all of the time... True.Smitten,
To be honest, I don't care if your Gay or whatever, but in truth no matter what or who you are, no one owes you anything and no one owes me anything, fat people get looked at badly, ugly people get looked at badly, everyone gets looked at badly by someone, so you have to be an adult and grow up and understand that it's none of your business what people think of you as long as they don't harm you, destroy your property,, or discriminate against you by refusing you employment and services such as selling to you.
As someone that has a few Gay male friends, I have found the people that hate Lesbians the most are Gay Men, why ?, because as they always tell me " In the natural world you see male animals having sex all the time, but not females", of course I disagree with that, but thats how most I know feel. Hetrosexual males, at least 99% of us have secret sexual fantasys about Lesbian and are turned on by you, unless your ugly.
But I can't believe that you are excusing the behavior of those trashy people! When did it become okay to insult people you don't even know right in front of them, thus making them feel uncomfortable and threatened in a place that should be a neutral, shared space?! It is completely uncouth and rude!! Are you kidding me?! Were you raised by cave people?