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cjrian

United States

#21 Dec 10, 2010
Let's look at this from another perspective:
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
Characteristics of Offenders Who Violate and Assault Children
According to the Survey of Inmates of State Correctional Facilities by the U.S. Department of Justice Bureau of Justice Statistics, the following statistics have been recorded concerning the characteristics of offenders who violate and assault children.

* Those inmates who were convicted of committing violent acts against children were more like to have been white, a percentage of nearly 70%, than any other race.
Considering that whites make up 75% of the population, wouldn't this indicate that whites are ever so slightly LESS of a risk?
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
* White inmates were nearly three times more likely to have victimized a child than black inmates.
Again, Whites, 75% of the population, blacks, 13% of the population. If this stat were truly proportional, instead of 3x the rate, that would be over 5.75x (75 / 13).
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
* About one in every seven Hispanic convicts had been convicted for a crime against a child.
As a standalone stat, this is virtually irrelevant. What are the proportions for others?
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
* Nearly two-thirds of convicted child molesters and/or offenders were or had been married.
Which is about the marriage rate rate for the population, in general.
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
* Child molesters and offenders were more likely to have grown up in a two parent home and were more likely to have been molested as a child.
60% of children are raised in two parent homes. Where is the proportion? There are not even any relevant stats. I would hazard to assert that when taken IN context, that proportionally, single parent households produce more violators than two parent households. This holds true for every other crime stat, and should do so here also.

The second "bullet" is addressed by the next stat and is misplaced.
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
* Approximately 22% of child offenders reported having been sexually abused as a child.
Which is very close to the rate of child abuse in the general population. Relevance?

If any lesson can be taken from this is that there are few "markers" available to be used in profiling child sexual abusers. What is of greater relevance than any of the above is that the great majority of abusers are other family members or have close familial contacts (friends, neighbors). Most child sexual abusers often exhibit abnormal behavior around children prior to apprehension that are dismissed as quirks, such as excessive "closeness" to children; "accidental" inappropriateness that borders, but does not "cross the line"; sharing "secrets", etc.

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#22 Dec 10, 2010
Johnny Rotten wrote:
<quoted text>I'm sure this is just a case of racism. More white molesters are caught due to racism on the police force. It's similar to what I keep hearing from various black leaders who say the prison system is racist because there are far for black inmates than white. It has nothing to do with who actually commits the crimes, but rather, who they choose to punish. ;)
Oh yes because the white police are discrimination against whites and getting sperm inside they with the perpetrators DNA. The kids are lying on you white people.
A serial killer is typically defined as a person who murders three or more people[1][2] over a period of more than 30 days, with a "cooling off" period between each murder, and whose motivation for killing is largely based on psychological gratification.[3][4] Other sources define the term as "a series of two or more murders, committed as separate events, usually, but not always, by one offender acting alone" or, including the vital characteristics, a minimum of at least two murders.[4][5] Often, a sexual element is involved with the killings, but the FBI states that motives for serial murder include "anger, thrill, financial gain, and attention seeking."[5] The murders may have been attempted or completed in a similar fashion and the victims may have had something in common; for example, occupation, race, appearance, sex, or age group.

Serial killers are not the same as mass murderers, who commit multiple murders at one time; nor are they spree killers, who commit murders in two or more locations with virtually no break in between. Coinage of the English term serial killer is commonly attributed to former FBI Special Agent Robert Ressler in the 1970s.[6][7] The concept had been described earlier, e.g. by German police inspector Ernst Gennat coining the same term in 1930.[8] Author Ann Rule postulates in her 2004 book Kiss Me, Kill Me that the English-language credit for coining the term "serial killer" goes to LAPD detective Pierce Brooks, mastermind of the ViCAP system.
Characteristics

Serial killers in the United States tend to share the following general characteristics, but this is not always the case:[9]

* They are predominately white males.[10][11]
* They are often intelligent, with IQs in the "bright normal" range.[11]
* Often they have trouble staying employed. Usually they have menial jobs as well.[11]
* They tend to come from unstable families.[11]
* As children, they are often abandoned by their fathers and raised by domineering mothers.[11]
* Their families often have criminal, psychiatric and alcoholic histories.[11]
* They were often abused — emotionally, physically and/or sexually — by a family member.[11]
* They have high rates of suicide attempts.[11]
* From an early age, many are intensely interested in voyeurism, fetishism, and sadomasochistic pornography.[11]
* More than 60 percent wet their beds beyond the age of 12.[11]
* Many are fascinated with fire starting.[11]
* They are involved in sadistic activity or torturing animals.[11]
* They were frequently bullied as children.[11]
* Some were involved in petty crimes, such as theft

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#23 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
Let's look at this from another perspective:
<quoted text>
Considering that whites make up 75% of the population, wouldn't this indicate that whites are ever so slightly LESS of a risk?
<quoted text>
Again, Whites, 75% of the population, blacks, 13% of the population. If this stat were truly proportional, instead of 3x the rate, that would be over 5.75x (75 / 13).
<quoted text>
As a standalone stat, this is virtually irrelevant. What are the proportions for others?
<quoted text>
Which is about the marriage rate rate for the population, in general.
<quoted text>
60% of children are raised in two parent homes. Where is the proportion? There are not even any relevant stats. I would hazard to assert that when taken IN context, that proportionally, single parent households produce more violators than two parent households. This holds true for every other crime stat, and should do so here also.
The second "bullet" is addressed by the next stat and is misplaced.
<quoted text>
Which is very close to the rate of child abuse in the general population. Relevance?
If any lesson can be taken from this is that there are few "markers" available to be used in profiling child sexual abusers. What is of greater relevance than any of the above is that the great majority of abusers are other family members or have close familial contacts (friends, neighbors). Most child sexual abusers often exhibit abnormal behavior around children prior to apprehension that are dismissed as quirks, such as excessive "closeness" to children; "accidental" inappropriateness that borders, but does not "cross the line"; sharing "secrets", etc.
Characteristics of Offenders Who Violate and Assault Children

According to the Survey of Inmates of State Correctional Facilities by the U.S. Department of Justice Bureau of Justice Statistics, the following statistics have been recorded concerning the characteristics of offenders who violate and assault children.

* Those inmates who were convicted of committing violent acts against children were more like to have been white, a percentage of nearly 70%, than any other race.
* White inmates were nearly three times more likely to have victimized a child than black inmates.
* About one in every seven Hispanic convicts had been convicted for a crime against a child.
* Nearly two-thirds of convicted child molesters and/or offenders were or had been married.
* Child molesters and offenders were more likely to have grown up in a two parent home and were more likely to have been molested as a child.
* Approximately 22% of child offenders reported having been sexually abused as a child.
http://childprotection.lifetips.com/tip/11723...
For several years numerous charges of child molestation and other allegations of sexual abuse or improprieties were levied against members of the Roman Catholic clergy. These cases had been in various stages for some time, but since the late 1990s the scope of the problem became more widely known. By 2003, it was common to regularly hear a report of a priest resigning or being defrocked or censured by his bishop. These scandals originated in the United States, but spread to many other countries around the world.
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Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#24 Dec 10, 2010
Johnny Rotten wrote:
<quoted text>I'm sure this is just a case of racism. More white molesters are caught due to racism on the police force. It's similar to what I keep hearing from various black leaders who say the prison system is racist because there are far for black inmates than white. It has nothing to do with who actually commits the crimes, but rather, who they choose to punish. ;)
The Boston case opened the floodgates to hundreds of similar cases in a dozen states. Upon inquiry, similar stories of child molestation or other sexual abuse and financial cover-ups have drained the financial resources of many parishes. Already, the church has set aside $30 million just for victims of John Geoghan. In Texas, the Dallas diocese paid out $31 million to 11 plaintiffs after a Dallas priest, Rudolph Kos, was convicted on seven counts. In New Mexico, the Santa Fe diocese paid $50 million to victims of 20 priests. In Bridgeport, Connecticut, the diocese settled a multimillion dollar civil case against six priests. And in Santa Rosa, California, four plaintiffs alleging sexual abuse by clergy were awarded $1.6 million. In most of the cases that have resulted in large awards, the Catholic Church itself has been implicated, accused of shielding priests it knew were molesting children.
While these revelations of priests molesting children have focused attention on the issue, the breadth of child sexual abuse reaches beyond the Catholic Church. Society is just beginning to understand its many dimensions and the legal line is being more firmly drawn to protect the rights of children.
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This man raped and burned his ten year old step-daughter. His name is Chris Newbury, and he is from Wichita, KS. He was caught in 2009
This next image is of a father who raped his daughters and made them bear his children, and killed his children who were also his grandchildren. 47-year-old Daniel Rinehart faces charges of murder, statutory rape and incest, after admitting to investigators that he is the father of at least two of his daughter's four children. The bodies of two of the children were found earlier this month in coolers on the property. Investigators say one of the other daughters tipped them off about the alleged incest.
a father who raped and videotaped the rape of his daughter, and posted it online. He is also accused of having sexually abused other girls. His name is Kenneth John Freeman (ironically) and he is a former Washington State Sheriff’s Deputy. He was arrested and jailed in Hong Kong on Wednesday. Freeman is wanted for multiple counts of child rape and for videotaping and photographing these assaults. In plain English, he raped his daughter several times and then posted video and pictures of it online. He posted $50,000 bond and fled. This is what he looks like:
The following photo is of Jonathan Goodrum, a 19 year-old man who has pleaded guilty of raping his 1-day-old daughter.
1-day-old and still in the hospital, after a routine examination,

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#25 Dec 10, 2010
vaginal tears were found on the infant. Police are only saying the tears were made with an “unknown object”. He may only serve 11 months in jail, and while he won't be able to have access to his infant daughter, he may be able to have access to his one year old daughter. This is what he looks like. I am not sure where he lives.
A more specific profile of a serial killer has been presented by Apsche (1993) stating that most are white males in their twenties or thirties, who target strangers near their homes or places of work. "According to criminologist Eric Hickey, who has assembled the most extensive database on demography of serial murder states that, 88% of serial killers are male, 85% are Caucasian, and the average age when they claim their first victim is usually around 28.5. In terms of victim selection, 62% of the killers target strangers exclusively, and another 22% kill at least one stranger. Finally, 71% of the killers operate in a specific location or area, rather than traveling

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#26 Dec 10, 2010
fraud, vandalism, dishonesty or similar offences.

There are exceptions to these criteria, however. For example, Harold Shipman was a successful professional (a General Practitioner working for the NHS). He was considered a pillar of the local community, even winning a professional award for a children's Asthma clinic and was interviewed by Granada Television's World in Action.[12] Dennis Nilsen was an ex-soldier turned civil servant and trade unionist who had no previous criminal record when arrested. Neither were known to have exhibited many of these signs.[13] Vlado Taneski was a career journalist who was caught after a series of articles he wrote gave clues that he had murdered people. Ironically, he was a crime reporter.[14] Colonel Russell Williams was a successful and respected career Royal Canadian Air Force Officer who was convicted of the murder of two women, along with fetish burglaries and rapes.

Psychosis is rarely noted among serial killers. The predominant psychiatric diagnosis noted in the group tends toward the psychopathic, meaning they suffer from traits within a specific cluster of dysfunctional personality characteristics, those most commonly associated with antisocial personality disorder or dissocial personality disorder.[15][16] Psychopaths lack empathy and guilt, are egocentric and impulsive, and do not conform to social, moral and legal norms. Instead, psychopaths often follow a distinct set of rules which they have created for themselves. They may appear to be normal and often quite charming, a state of adaptation that psychiatrist Hervey Cleckley called the "mask of sanity".[17] Although psychopathy is not an official term in the DSM-IV, it is a disorder that involves traits that are both antisocial as well as narcissistic. Robert Hare created a checklist to differentiate psychopathy from antisocial personality disorder (ASPD), known as the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL-R).[18] The questionnaire scores people based on the presence of antisocial and narcissistic traits. His test found that while 50–80 percent of criminals were diagnosed with ASPD, only 15–30 percent scored as primary psychopaths on the PCL-R test.

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#27 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
Let's look at this from another perspective:
<quoted text>
Considering that whites make up 75% of the population, wouldn't this indicate that whites are ever so slightly LESS of a risk?
<quoted text>
Again, Whites, 75% of the population, blacks, 13% of the population. If this stat were truly proportional, instead of 3x the rate, that would be over 5.75x (75 / 13).
<quoted text>
As a standalone stat, this is virtually irrelevant. What are the proportions for others?
<quoted text>
Which is about the marriage rate rate for the population, in general.
<quoted text>
60% of children are raised in two parent homes. Where is the proportion? There are not even any relevant stats. I would hazard to assert that when taken IN context, that proportionally, single parent households produce more violators than two parent households. This holds true for every other crime stat, and should do so here also.
The second "bullet" is addressed by the next stat and is misplaced.
<quoted text>
Which is very close to the rate of child abuse in the general population. Relevance?
If any lesson can be taken from this is that there are few "markers" available to be used in profiling child sexual abusers. What is of greater relevance than any of the above is that the great majority of abusers are other family members or have close familial contacts (friends, neighbors). Most child sexual abusers often exhibit abnormal behavior around children prior to apprehension that are dismissed as quirks, such as excessive "closeness" to children; "accidental" inappropriateness that borders, but does not "cross the line"; sharing "secrets", etc.
The Macdonald triad — animal cruelty, pyromania, and persistent bedwetting (also known as enuresis) past the age of five — is often exhibited by serial killers during their childhood.[19] Subsequent research, however, found that bedwetting is not related to psychopathy.[20]
It should be noted that during the 90s the FBI estimated the presence of 125 active serial killers in the USA. The existence of a cluster of personality traits known in incarcerated serial killers, when evident in a person, does not mean they are, or will become serial killers.
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Malay word for
- trannsexual
- shemale
- ladyboy
- he-she
- fifty-fifty
- chick with the stick
- cock in a frock
- ugly mo for(usually).
Trannsexual? Transgender? Cross Dressing. Girlfriend issue? Help?
I am a male and I came out to my girlfriend of 2 yearsabout me enjoying womens clothings a few months ago. We had a talk recently and I told her I would like to dress up for her and she said okay. So I did that and I liked it a lot and she made me feel comfortable. She is okay with having a discussion about that topic…but doesnt want it interfereing with our relationship…but the truthhh is i want to come out to her as the woman inside me and show her that i am truly a girl and live as one full timeeeeee. I tried to tell her and she was completely turned off by the situation and disgusted with me and told meee that i SHOULD BE A GUY…i told her i wont talk about it anymoreee but i dooo want to tell ehr and i wanttt her to accept me as a femaleeee and let me express myselfff. How can i get her to udnerstand what I am saying without being turned off??? She al ways said she likes girl and stuff and i asked her and she said "I dont mind having an open
cjrian

United States

#28 Dec 10, 2010
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
Characteristics of Offenders Who Violate and Assault Children
According to the Survey of Inmates of State Correctional Facilities by the U.S. Department of Justice Bureau of Justice Statistics, the following statistics have been recorded concerning the characteristics of offenders who violate and assault children.
* Those inmates who were convicted of committing violent acts against children were more like to have been white, a percentage of nearly 70%, than any other race.
* White inmates were nearly three times more likely to have victimized a child than black inmates.
* About one in every seven Hispanic convicts had been convicted for a crime against a child.
* Nearly two-thirds of convicted child molesters and/or offenders were or had been married.
* Child molesters and offenders were more likely to have grown up in a two parent home and were more likely to have been molested as a child.
* Approximately 22% of child offenders reported having been sexually abused as a child.
http://childprotection.lifetips.com/tip/11723...
For several years numerous charges of child molestation and other allegations of sexual abuse or improprieties were levied against members of the Roman Catholic clergy. These cases had been in various stages for some time, but since the late 1990s the scope of the problem became more widely known. By 2003, it was common to regularly hear a report of a priest resigning or being defrocked or censured by his bishop. These scandals originated in the United States, but spread to many other countries around the world.
Those "stats" are worse than useless, they deflect from the real problem areas.
And the last paragraph is nothing more than an anti-Catholic rant. Full disclosure - I am NOT Catholic. During the 90's quite a few old to VERY old cases surfaced. Also, during the 90's, many, many cases of "repressed memory" arose, which were little more than subject suggestion susceptibility. Some were "15 minutes of fame" - effectively false. In other words, many of these claims (even when true) were decades old, many were induced, and some were bull. At best, these cases diminished the immediate import of existing cases, and resolved little.
cjrian

United States

#29 Dec 10, 2010
AFORCEOFONE wrote:
The Macdonald triad — animal cruelty, pyromania, and persistent bedwetting (also known as enuresis) past the age of five — is often exhibited by serial killers during their childhood.[19] Subsequent research, however, found that bedwetting is not related to psychopathy.[20]
It should be noted that during the 90s the FBI estimated the presence of 125 active serial killers in the USA. The existence of a cluster of personality traits known in incarcerated serial killers, when evident in a person, does not mean they are, or will become serial killers.
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Malay word for
- trannsexual
- shemale
- ladyboy
- he-she
- fifty-fifty
- chick with the stick
- cock in a frock
- ugly mo for(usually).
Trannsexual? Transgender? Cross Dressing. Girlfriend issue? Help?
I am a male and I came out to my girlfriend of 2 yearsabout me enjoying womens clothings a few months ago. We had a talk recently and I told her I would like to dress up for her and she said okay. So I did that and I liked it a lot and she made me feel comfortable. She is okay with having a discussion about that topic…but doesnt want it interfereing with our relationship…but the truthhh is i want to come out to her as the woman inside me and show her that i am truly a girl and live as one full timeeeeee. I tried to tell her and she was completely turned off by the situation and disgusted with me and told meee that i SHOULD BE A GUY…i told her i wont talk about it anymoreee but i dooo want to tell ehr and i wanttt her to accept me as a femaleeee and let me express myselfff. How can i get her to udnerstand what I am saying without being turned off??? She al ways said she likes girl and stuff and i asked her and she said "I dont mind having an open
Uhhhhhhh, you've said absolutely nothing.

Was that a cut-n-paste?
cjrian

United States

#30 Dec 10, 2010
yeah, seeing that again -
So, you're a crossdresser, who is disappointed that your girlfriend could not accept that facet of your deviation. And what were you expecting?

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#31 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
<quoted text>
Those "stats" are worse than useless, they deflect from the real problem areas.
And the last paragraph is nothing more than an anti-Catholic rant. Full disclosure - I am NOT Catholic. During the 90's quite a few old to VERY old cases surfaced. Also, during the 90's, many, many cases of "repressed memory" arose, which were little more than subject suggestion susceptibility. Some were "15 minutes of fame" - effectively false. In other words, many of these claims (even when true) were decades old, many were induced, and some were bull. At best, these cases diminished the immediate import of existing cases, and resolved little.
Why can’t a white boy stand up and get tough with someone face to face instead of using the internet like a little girl. All white boys should just become bisexual Catholic priests. Why do white boys become part of law enforcement and then rape the prisoners men or women or beat and kill them and then attempt to deny it? If you actually do a body count of actual deaths worldwide who will have the most.?
Maybe you white boys and your male lovers should be keeping statistics on what race has the most Homosexuals, cross dressers, Transsexuals, Bisexuals and like to have oral sex with other men. Who makes the most Adult Rape, Bondage, Incest. Why do White boys get married and then go out and pay for homosexual sex. A racist can hate the Black Man and still have a Black Bed Wench as is evidenced on this page. However it is probably just a cross dresser. Why do white boys wait until they get on line to try to act tough while in fact most of you want to perform fellatio on another man first chance you get. And then go home to your black bed wench and pretend to be heterosexual. White boys like to dress up in womens’ clothes.(Or a Whore) Who makes the most child porn? Why can’t a white boy stand up and get tough with someone face to face instead of using the internet like a little girl. All white boys should just become bisexual Catholic priests. Why do white boys become part of law enforcement and then rape the prisoners men or women or beat and kill them and then attempt to deny it? If you actually do a body count of actual deaths worldwide who will have the most? You want to be police and then make your own rules.!

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#32 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
yeah, seeing that again -
So, you're a crossdresser, who is disappointed that your girlfriend could not accept that facet of your deviation. And what were you expecting?
This type of serial killer seeks thrills and derives pleasure from killing, seeing people as expendable means to this goal. Forensic psychologists have identified three subtypes of the hedonistic killer: "lust", "thrill" and "comfort".[60]
[edit] Lust

Sex is the primary motive of lust killers, whether or not the victims are dead, and fantasy plays a large role in their killings. Their sexual gratification depends on the amount of torture and mutilation they perform on their victims. They usually use weapons that require close contact with the victims, such as knives or hands. As lust killers continue with their murders, the time between killings decreases or the required level of stimulation increases, sometimes both.[60][68][69]

Kenneth Bianchi, one of the "Hillside Stranglers", murdered women and girls of different ages, races and appearance because his sexual urges required different types of stimulation and increasing intensity.[69]

Jeffrey Dahmer searched for his perfect fantasy lover — beautiful, submissive and eternal. As his desire increased, he experimented with drugs, alcohol and exotic sex. His increasing need for stimulation was demonstrated by the dismemberment of victims, whose heads and genitals he preserved. He experimented with cannibalism to "ensure his victims

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#33 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
yeah, seeing that again -
So, you're a crossdresser, who is disappointed that your girlfriend could not accept that facet of your deviation. And what were you expecting?
Modern Europe of the 14th to 18th century, where witchcraft came to be seen as a vast diabolical conspiracy against Christianity, and accusations of witchcraft led to large-scale witch-hunts, especially in Germanic Europe.[2]

The "witch-cult hypothesis", a controversial theory that European witchcraft was a suppressed pagan religion, was popular in the 19th and 20th centuries. Since the mid-20th century, Witchcraft has become the self-designation of a branch of neopaganism, especially in the Wicca tradition following Gerald Gardner, who claimed a religious tradition of Witchcraft with pre-Christian roots.[3]
For several years numerous charges of child molestation and other allegations of sexual abuse or improprieties were levied against members of the Roman Catholic clergy. These cases had been in various stages for some time, but since the late 1990s the scope of the problem became more widely known. By 2003, it was common to regularly hear a report of a priest resigning or being defrocked or censured by his bishop. These scandals originated in the United States, but spread to many other countries around the world.
One of the most notorious cases that made national and international news involved a priest named John Geoghan. Over 130 men reported that they had been abused by Geoghan when they were children; the abuse cases spanned 30 years. The priest was ultimately sentenced to nine years for child molestation. What turned this story into a national and a Catholic institutional scandal was the revelation that Geoghan's bishop, Cardinal Bernard Law of Boston, had been privy to the allegations against Geoghan, but had quietly reassigned him to a succession of parishes. Several times, Cardinal Law even presided over secret financial settlements of claims that were substantiated or confirmed. The cardinal resigned his post in the wake of these revelations.
The Boston case opened the floodgates to hundreds of similar cases in a dozen states. Upon inquiry, similar stories of child molestation or other sexual abuse and financial cover-ups have drained the financial resources of many parishes. Already, the church has set aside $30 million just for victims of

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#34 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
yeah, seeing that again -
So, you're a crossdresser, who is disappointed that your girlfriend could not accept that facet of your deviation. And what were you expecting?
Characteristics of Offenders Who Violate and Assault Children

According to the Survey of Inmates of State Correctional Facilities by the U.S. Department of Justice Bureau of Justice Statistics, the following statistics have been recorded concerning the characteristics of offenders who violate and assault children.

* Those inmates who were convicted of committing violent acts against children were more like to have been white, a percentage of nearly 70%, than any other race.
* White inmates were nearly three times more likely to have victimized a child than black inmates.
* About one in every seven Hispanic convicts had been convicted for a crime against a child.
* Nearly two-thirds of convicted child molesters and/or offenders were or had been married.
* Child molesters and offenders were more likely to have grown up in a two parent home and were more likely to have been molested as a child.
* Approximately 22% of child offenders reported having been sexually abused as a child.
http://childprotection.lifetips.com/tip/11723...
I cjrian and I came out to my girlfriend of 2 yearsabout me enjoying womens clothings a few months ago. We had a talk recently and I told her I would like to dress up for her and she said okay. So I did that and I liked it a lot and she made me feel comfortable. She is okay with having a discussion about that topic…but doesnt want it interfereing with our relationship…but the truthhh is i want to come out to her as the woman inside me and show her that i am truly a girl and live as one full timeeeeee. I tried to tell her and she was completely turned off by the situation and disgusted with me and told meee that i SHOULD BE A GUY…i told her i wont talk about it anymoreee but i dooo want to tell ehr and i wanttt her to accept me as a femaleeee and let me express myselfff. How can i get her to udnerstand what I am saying without being turned off??? She al ways said she likes girl and stuff and i asked her and she said "I dont mind having an open discussion about it. And I like girls who are actually girls. That’s a turnon. Vaginas, good smelling girls who are soft is a turn on. Youre a Guy. I like my Guys in control" Buttt I told her that, that is what I wanted to be for herrr andd i might be a girl inside and i wanted to express it for her.."Yehh I have nothing to say. I d c."

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#35 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
<quoted text>
Uhhhhhhh, you've said absolutely nothing.
Was that a cut-n-paste?
White people self-identify as transgender, transgender identity includes many overlapping categories. These include cross-dresser (CD); transvestite (TV); androgynes; genderqueer; people who live cross-gender; drag kings; and drag queens; and, frequently, transsexual (TS).[26] Usually not included are transvestic fetishists (because it is considered to be a paraphilia rather than gender identification). In an interview, artist RuPaul talked about society's ambivalence to the differences in the people who embody these terms. "A friend of mine recently did the Oprah show about transgender youth," said RuPaul. "It was obvious that we, as a culture, have a hard time trying to understand the difference between a drag queen, transsexual, and a transgender, yet we find it very easy to know the difference between the American baseball league and the National baseball league, when they are both so similar."[27] These terms are explained below.

The extent to which intersex people (those with ambiguous genitalia or other physical sexual characteristics) are transgender is debated, since not all intersex people disagree with their gender assigned at birth. The current definitions of transgender include all transsexual people, although this has been criticized.(See below.)

Since: Dec 10

Denver, CO

#36 Dec 10, 2010
cjrian wrote:
<quoted text>
Uhhhhhhh, you've said absolutely nothing.
Was that a cut-n-paste?
The term trans man refers to female-to-male (FtM or F2M) transgender people, and trans woman refers to male-to-female (MtF or M2F) transgender people, although some transgender people identify only slightly with the gender not assigned at birth. In the past, it was assumed that there were far more trans women than trans men, but a Swedish study estimated a ratio of 1.4:1 in favour of trans women for those requesting sex reassignment surgery and a ratio of 1:1 for those who proceeded.[28]

The term cisgender has been coined as an antonym referring to non-transgender people; i.e. those who identify with their gender assigned at birth.[29]
[edit] Transsexual
Main article: Transsexualism

Transsexual people identify as, or desire to live and be accepted as, a member of the sex opposite to that assigned at birth.[30][31]

Many trans people desire to undergo gender transition. People who have transitioned, who do not necessarily identify as transgender or transsexual any longer, may identify as simply a man or a woman. Those that continue identifying as transsexual men or women may not want to ignore their pre-transition life, and may continue strong ties with other trans people and raising social consciousness.[32]

Many transsexual people have a wish to alter their bodies. These physical changes are collectively known as gender reassignment therapy and often (but not always) include hormone replacement therapy and sex reassignment surgery. References to "pre-operative", "post-operative" and "non-operative" transsexual people indicate whether they have had, or are planning to have sex reassignment surgery, although some trans people reject these terms as objectifying trans people based on their surgical status and not their mental gender identity.
[edit] Cross-dresser
The term 'cross-dresser' is not exactly defined in the relevant literature. Michael A. Gilbert,[33] professor at the Department of Philosophy, York University, Toronto, offers this definition: "[A cross-dresser] is a person who has an apparent gender identification with one sex, and who has and certainly has been birth-designated as belonging to one sex, but who wears the clothing of the opposite sex because it is the clothing of the opposite sex." This excludes people "who wear opposite sex clothing for other reasons". Also, the group doesn't include "those female impersonators who look upon dressing as solely connected to their livelihood, actors undertaking roles, individual males and females enjoying a masquerade, and so on. These individuals are cross dressing but are not cross dressers."[34] Cross-dressers may not identify with, or want to be the opposite gender, nor adopt the behaviors or practices of the opposite gender, and generally do not want to change their bodies medically. The majority of cross-dressers identify as heterosexual.[35]
[edit] Transvestite
Main article: Transvestism

A transvestite is somebody who cross-dresses.[36][37] The term "transvestite" is used as a synonym for the term "cross-dresser",[38] [39] although it has been stated that "cross-dresser" is the preferred term.[39][40] The term "transvestite" and the associated term "transvestism" are conceptually different from the term "fetishistic transvestism" (a.k.a. "transvestic fetishism"), as "transvestic fetishist" describes those who intermittently use clothing of the opposite gender for fetishistic purposes,[41][42] and "transvestite" does not. In medical terms, transvestic fetishism is differentiated from cross-dressing by use of the separate codes 302.3[42] in the DSM and F65.1[41] in the ICD.
[edit] Drag kings and queens
See also: Drag king, Drag queen, and Faux queen
New York City drag king Murray Hill with drag queen Linda Simpson.

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yeah, seeing that again -
So, you're a crossdresser, who is disappointed that your girlfriend could not accept that facet of your deviation. And what were you expecting?
Genderqueer is a recent attempt to signify gender experiences that do not fit into binary concepts, and refers to a combination of gender identities and sexual orientations. One example could be a person whose gender presentation is sometimes perceived as male, sometimes female, but whose gender identity is female, gender expression is butch, and sexual orientation is lesbian. It suggests nonconformity or mixing of gender stereotypes, conjoining both gender and sexuality,[43] and challenges existing constructions and identities.[44] In the binary sex/gender system, genderqueerness is unintelligible and abjected.[45]
[edit] People who live cross-gender
An androgyne is a person who does not fit cleanly into the typical gender roles of their society. It does not imply any specific form of sexual orientation. Androgynes may identify as beyond gender, between genders, moving across genders, entirely genderless, or any or all of these. Androgyne identities include pangender, bigender, trigender, ambigender, non-gendered, agender, Gender fluid or intergender. Androgyny can be either physical or psychological; it does not depend on birth sex and is not limited to intersex people. Occasionally, people who do not define themselves as androgynes adapt their physical appearance to look androgynous. This outward androgyny has been used in fashion, and the milder forms of it (women wearing men's pants or men wearing two earrings, for example) are not seen as transgender behavior.

The term androgyne is also sometimes used as a medical synonym for an intersex individual.[51]

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Uhhhhhhh, you've said absolutely nothing.
Was that a cut-n-paste?
Therapy is recommended by most mental health professionals for those who suffer from internal conflicts regarding their gender identity or those who feel discomfort in their assigned gender role, especially if they desire to transition. People who experience discord between their gender and the expectations of others or whose gender identity conflicts with their body may benefit by talking through their feelings in depth with someone who will listen attentively. However, research on gender identity is relatively new to psychology and scientific understanding of it and related issues is still in its infancy.[59]

Transgender people may be eligible for diagnosis of gender identity disorder (GID) "only if [being transgender] causes distress or disability."[60] This distress is referred to as gender dysphoria and may manifest as depression or inability to work and form healthy relationships with others. This diagnosis is often misinterpreted as implying that simply being transgender means a person suffers from GID, which is not the case. This has caused much confusion to transgender people and those who seek to either criticize or affirm them. Transgender people who are comfortable with their gender, whose gender does not directly cause inner frustration or impair their functioning, do not suffer from GID. Moreover, GID is not necessarily permanent, and is often resolved through therapy and/or transitioning. GID does not refer to people who feel oppressed by the negative attitudes and behaviors or others including legal entities in the same way that racist institutions do not create a "race disorder." Neither does GID imply an opinion of immorality - the psychological establishment holds the position that people with any kind of mental or emotional problem should not receive stigma. The solution for GID is whatever will alleviate suffering and restore functionality; this often, but not always, consists of undergoing a gender transition.[59]

Antisocial personality disorder (adyp or Atu) is defined by the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual as "...a pervasive pattern of disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others that begins in childhood or early adolescence and continues into adulthood."[1]

Antisocial personality disorder is sometimes known as sociopathic personality disorder. It is also sometimes referred to as psychopathy or sociopathy. However, the two are not to be used interchangably. Some researchers believe that antisocial personality disorder and psychopathic personality are different conditions.

Signs and symptoms

Characteristics of people with antisocial personality disorder may include:[2]

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Was that a cut-n-paste?
Among the most common characteristics of the those with Antisocial Personality Disorder are superficial charm, shallow emotions, a distorted sense of self, a constant search for new sensations (which can have bizarre consequences), and manipulation of others without remorse or empathy for the victim. Egocentrism, megalomania, lack of responsibility, extroversion, excessive hedonism, high impulsivity, and the desire to experience sensations of control and power also are very common. This type of psychosis does not relate to assaults of panic or to schizophrenia.[1]
[edit] Diagnosis

The prototypical psychopath has deficits or deviances in several areas: interpersonal relationships, emotion, and self-control. Psychopaths gain satisfaction through antisocial behavior, and do not experience shame, guilt, or remorse for their actions.[12][13][14] Psychopaths lack a sense of guilt or remorse for any harm they may have caused others, instead rationalizing the behavior, blaming someone else, or denying it outright.[15] Psychopaths also lack empathy towards others in general, resulting in tactlessness, insensitivity, and contemptuousness. All of this belies their tendency to make a good, likable first impression. Psychopaths have a superficial charm about them, enabled by a willingness to say anything without concern for accuracy or truth. Shallow affect also describes the psychopath's tendency for genuine emotion to be short lived and egocentric with an overall cold demeanor. Their behavior is impulsive and irresponsible, often failing to keep a job or defaulting on debts.[15] Psychopaths also have a markedly distorted sense of the potential consequences of their actions, not only for others, but also for themselves. They do not deeply recognize the risk of being caught, disbelieved or injured as a result of their behaviour.[16]
Socially deviant lifestyle

1. Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
2. Parasitic lifestyle
3. Poor behavioral control
4. Promiscuous sexual behavior
5. Lack of realistic, long-term goals
6. Impulsiveness
7. Irresponsibility
8. Juvenile delinquency
9. Early behavioral problems

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Was that a cut-n-paste?
Substance abuse has been associated with psychopathy,[42] particularly Factor 2 (anti-social behaviour), but not Factor 1 (emotional) scores of the PCL-R.[39][40] Conduct disorder and ADHD have both been associated with psychopathy; which may be explained by disruption to dorsolateral prefrontal cortex. This area is associated with executive function, which is affected in all three disorders.[39]

There is some evidence of an association between ASPD and other personality disorders (i.e. histrionic, narcissistic and borderline personality disorders),[40] however, evidence for a link with psychopathy is more tentative.[41]

Anxiety may be associated positively with antisocial behaviour, but it is inversely associated with Factor I (emotional) scores on the PCL-R.[39] Depression is inversely associated with psychopathy.[39] Although violence may be associated with schizophrenia, there is no conclusive evidence for a link between psychopathy and schizophrenia.[39][41]
MacNeill, the former Utah State Developmental Center clinical director and Pleasant Grove resident, is serving a prison sentence for fraud, forgery and identity theft. But investigators believe he spent a lifetime getting away with other crimes — including murder. And family sources expect a murder charge may be filed against him next month.
"MacNeill's a thespian," said investigator Doug Witney, who has spent nearly three years researching MacNeill and the suspicious death of his wife, Michele. "It appears his whole life was scripted and staged."
Witney said MacNeill used his position as a doctor to have access to women and used his title as attorney to get around the law.
But three and a half years ago, many people who now believe MacNeill killed his wife, thought he was an upstanding citizen, a devoted husband and a loving father. One daughter went into medicine because of his example of helping others. Another daughter said she became an avid reader thanks to her father, who spent hours and hours discussing hundreds of books with her.
"The father that I knew was a fictional character. It was an act the whole time," his oldest daughter, Rachel, said.
Neighbors also said the MacNeill family seemed "perfect" on the outside. But relatives of MacNeill's wife say they had an inkling from the beginning that something wasn't right.

The United States National Library of Medicine has used the term "Caucasian" as a race in the past, but has discontinued its usage in favor of the term "European," avoiding the now deprecated[21] term
* White Africans of European ancestry
*white child molesters of european ancestry

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