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Jan 30, 2013
 
I met a guy 5 months ago through mutual friends at a party. We hit it off instantly and started seeing each other. Everything was absolutely amazing. I had never met someone that I connected with on this level. He is everything I've ever wanted and I fell completely in love with him and I felt like he was falling in love with me too. A month or so in he told me he was planning on moving away (pretty far) in the summer. Regardless of this we kept seeing each other and getting closer. Mid December he started to get distant which I assumed was mostly due to his very demanding job. We spoke several times and he said he had been thinking about things a lot and he decided it would be best for us to stop seeing each other now due to him moving in 6 months. He said he didnt want to get attached to someone just to leave them. I thought about it and I told him I would like for us to continue seeing each other and see what happens between now as then. Even said that if things went well and got serious that I would be willing to move with him if it were possible. Which I meant and I had actually looked at moving to that area in the past because a sport I love is very popular in that area. When he mentioned back in October that he was planning to move there I got a little too carried away dreaming of going there with him. Thought it was fate lol anyways...he said he is moving in with a friend he was in the army with and wouldn't feel right about moving me in there too. He doesn't seem to be considering any other options. He is very honest and level headed, at 31 I would expect him to be. I am 23 and I consider myself to be honest and level headed as well. I have met his family and he has met mine. We have a lot in common, get along great, have similar interests and values. Everything between us is amazing. Except that he is moving and doesn't see a way to continue seeing each other. He says he has feeling for me and I feel he does, truly. I told him I never thought I would meet someone like him and he said "me either". He also said it would be different if he weren't moving. I don't know where to go from here. Any help?
Jaki

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Feb 6, 2013
 
Things aren't complicated. I've some friends that face same situation like you. They separate living for a while and after a year they come back and live together again.

Important thing is you must keep contact him. Not to less and not to over. Good luck.

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Feb 7, 2013
 
Personally I think you should talk more about other options because you said he doesn't seem to be considering any other options.

Hope that helps.:)

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