do you really want your ex back

do you really want your ex back

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#1 Nov 12, 2012
Breaking Up Getting Back Together

If you are considering breaking up and getting back together, or have already done so, there are a few things you should know about this course of action. You should note the reasons you both are breaking up, ask yourself what it would be like if you got back together with your partner, determine if you and your partner has corrected or is at least working on the mistakes that caused the breaking up, and consider the repercussions of taking off too soon.
There are several reasons why couples break up, most notably that of emotional, physical and mental abuse, financial issues, lack of communication, and lack of trust. If you or your partner was performing physical, emotional or mental abuse, then you have to seriously ask yourself if it is worth getting back together after breaking up. Do you or your partner continue to put each other down or put other people down? Do either of you criticize each other or other people without advancing practical solutions? If you continue to do so, then that is probably why you are breaking up, and it will likely be a determining factor that will stop you from getting back together in a fulfilling relationship.
If there are financial issues at stake, then it is still possible to make it work between you two. If you two love each other, then it is conceivable that you can work through your financial difficulties. If you or your partner need to spend a few extra hours each day working, don't necessarily let that be an excuse for you to break up. Instead, try to schedule some time where you can see each other after work. When you do spend time with each other, value it and treat it as top quality time. More importantly, if you both are committed to securing a good financial future for yourself, don't lose faith in your partner's ability to bring in more money. Instead of criticizing, do all you can to help encourage better ways to make it possible.If you and your partner are considering getting back together, try and determine if you and your partner has corrected or is at least working on fixing the mistakes that caused the breaking up in the first place. It takes a team of two working together to move forward. Think about the potato sack race you might have done when you were a child. You could never say to your partner "I will jump when you jump" because then both of you will fall. Both of you have to jump together. With that said, consider the pros and cons of getting back together and when you have, then make a decision for yourself.If this applies to you or anyone you know then you are at the right place.I came accross a great book recently and to be honest with you,the book taught me that Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up that Love does not dominate; it cultivates and most importantly that Love is a game that two can play and both win.i belive you will want to learn how.And may also be wondering why i am sharing this information with you,well if i dont share it with you because this great book was written by a man who has helped 50,119 people from 77 different countries with their love lifes i can share it with you because he brought me and my wife back stronger after 5 years of divorce and if not because of that at least i can let you know that this great gift is selling at a reduced price presently....there's no way this book wont work for can also buy it for your friends and relatives as will help their marriages and the season of love is around the corner you know!...why not help the people you love enjoy their best christmas this year.....THERE ARE LIMITED why dont you hurry.
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