Court: Parents who give up rights sti...

Court: Parents who give up rights still pay

There are 39 comments on the Bluefield Daily Telegraph story from Nov 4, 2009, titled Court: Parents who give up rights still pay. In it, Bluefield Daily Telegraph reports that:

Abusive and neglectful mothers and fathers who relinquish their parental rights are still obligated to pay child support, according to the West Virginia Supreme Court.

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okay

Franklin, TN

#1 Nov 7, 2009
Its about time. Just because you dont want the kid dosent mean you dont have to support it. Its aobut time law said so. If you dont want a kid you should keep your pants zipped or wear a condom.
info

Oak Hill, WV

#2 Nov 7, 2009
okay wrote:
Its about time. Just because you dont want the kid dosent mean you dont have to support it. Its aobut time law said so. If you dont want a kid you should keep your pants zipped or wear a condom.
when my ex gave up his rights he did not have to pay me only the back he owed and thats been 3 years ago still dont get the money he wont keep a job
okay

Franklin, TN

#3 Nov 8, 2009
info wrote:
<quoted text>when my ex gave up his rights he did not have to pay me only the back he owed and thats been 3 years ago still dont get the money he wont keep a job
Take him back to court. Now you have a supreme ocurt ruling in your favor for the entire amount.
info

Oak Hill, WV

#5 Nov 8, 2009
its been so long i am sure that dont apply to me and my wounderful husband is her daddy on paper and life!
Parent

Matoaka, WV

#6 Nov 10, 2009
Of course a parent that gives up the right to the children should pay child support. The children still need to be raised, whether the parent who chooses not to see their children. What kind of person chooses to give up their children? Why would they think their actions would suddenly make the child non-existant??

The courts are smart enough to know this is usually done to try to get out of the child support - which shows how uncaring and selfish the sperm or egg donor is....which usually care more about the money than the children.

You play, you pay!!
true facts

Beckley, WV

#7 Jan 24, 2010
A sprem donor don't pay child support,You go and get the sprem and that's it dingy bird!! Some women need to use a sprem donor if they are going to run around!I have seen women trap men in a dead in marriage because they want a baby!!That's all they wanted was to use the man and then run around with other men!There are women out there that have to pick from a dozen or more men to find out whose 's the DADDY!!You need to stop puting all the blame on the fathers!!
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Richlands, VA

#8 Jan 24, 2010
If the child is adopted that is a different sistuation.
your right

Beckley, WV

#9 Jan 26, 2010
There's the old saying (mommy's baby daddy's maybe.)Some men give up parental rights because they aren't for sure that they are the father. How would you like to pay for some other guys kid for 18 years?!!
your right

Beckley, WV

#10 Jan 26, 2010
okay wrote:
Its about time. Just because you dont want the kid dosent mean you dont have to support it. Its aobut time law said so. If you dont want a kid you should keep your pants zipped or wear a condom.
And mom should get on the PILL!!!IF a woman don't want a baby get on the PILL!!
okay

Franklin, TN

#11 Jan 26, 2010
Your right there but most of the time you see men wanting sex and when the girl gets pregnant they are complaining about it blaming the woman. How many women out there actually manage to get themselves pregnat. If they dont want the kid they should take preventative measures before they impregnate anyone then they dont have a child support bill to worry about.
duh

Clay, WV

#12 Jan 26, 2010
true facts wrote:
A sprem donor don't pay child support,You go and get the sprem and that's it dingy bird!! Some women need to use a sprem donor if they are going to run around!I have seen women trap men in a dead in marriage because they want a baby!!That's all they wanted was to use the man and then run around with other men!There are women out there that have to pick from a dozen or more men to find out whose 's the DADDY!!You need to stop puting all the blame on the fathers!!
Its SPERM.not sprem
dnt mater

Clay, WV

#13 Jan 26, 2010
your right wrote:
<quoted text> And mom should get on the PILL!!!IF a woman don't want a baby get on the PILL!!
I've gotten preg on the pill twice. Took it right to both times. It dont always work.
no excuse

Beckley, WV

#14 Jan 27, 2010
dnt mater wrote:
<quoted text>I've gotten preg on the pill twice. Took it right to both times. It dont always work.
If you got pregnant with the pill once ,why use it twice ! There are other birth control for FREE!! NO EXCUSE!!
for sure

Beckley, WV

#15 Jan 27, 2010
Men are after the sex YES!!,but it is the woman's responsibility to keep herself from getting pregnant !!
for sure

Beckley, WV

#16 Jan 27, 2010
okay wrote:
Its about time. Just because you dont want the kid dosent mean you dont have to support it. Its aobut time law said so. If you dont want a kid you should keep your pants zipped or wear a condom.
And mom should take some responsibility for her self,sence she has to go through all the labor pains and raiseing baby for 18 years!!There are some dads that don't know where their kids are because mom takes off with them.Two sides to this coin!!
hmmm

Franklin, TN

#17 Jan 27, 2010
for sure wrote:
Men are after the sex YES!!,but it is the woman's responsibility to keep herself from getting pregnant !!
This must be from a man. Ok not all birth control is 100 percent. I had one pregnacy on the pill and I took it properly, one while on the deppo shot and it was taken properly, and one after I had a tubal and they got the wrong tube. If a man dont want a kid its just as much his responciblity to use protection. The woman got pregnant on purpose just dont work. YOu can use protection and if a man dont then he has no one to blame but him self. He could have used a condom.
for sure

Beckley, WV

#18 Jan 27, 2010
hmmm wrote:
<quoted text>
This must be from a man. Ok not all birth control is 100 percent. I had one pregnacy on the pill and I took it properly, one while on the deppo shot and it was taken properly, and one after I had a tubal and they got the wrong tube. If a man dont want a kid its just as much his responciblity to use protection. The woman got pregnant on purpose just dont work. YOu can use protection and if a man dont then he has no one to blame but him self. He could have used a condom.
And condons bust!!
be truthful

Beckley, WV

#19 Jan 27, 2010
hmmm wrote:
<quoted text>
This must be from a man. Ok not all birth control is 100 percent. I had one pregnacy on the pill and I took it properly, one while on the deppo shot and it was taken properly, and one after I had a tubal and they got the wrong tube. If a man dont want a kid its just as much his responciblity to use protection. The woman got pregnant on purpose just dont work. YOu can use protection and if a man dont then he has no one to blame but him self. He could have used a condom.
And you must be a woman putting all the blame on the man because you got pregnant for three times!!Sorry don't by that your birth control failed three times.Once maybe ,but three times no!!
hmmm

Franklin, TN

#20 Jan 27, 2010
be truthful wrote:
<quoted text>And you must be a woman putting all the blame on the man because you got pregnant for three times!!Sorry don't by that your birth control failed three times.Once maybe ,but three times no!!
Actually nope. My husband was just as responcible for our children as I am. I think the responciblity ratio is about 50/50. I was married when all 3 of my children were concieved. I dont hear my husband of 12 years saying im solely responcible for them. I am not one of the women out there complainig becaus they are not getting their child support. In our situation with teh first two we wanted kids the first time just not yet. Second time we wanted to wait until my oldest was 5 and 3rd time yeah we were done. Not that its any of your business we found out that my body was not reacting to the birth control the way it should and it was not working. With the tubal all i can say is I guess we were meant for 3 kids. What im trying to say is this. If you dont want kids dont have sex. Its just as much your responcibility as the womans. Yeah you can say its the womans job not to get pregnant. But she dont get herself pregnant and its your responcibilty not to get someone pregnant. If you dont take all teh precautions then its your own fault and teh kid deserves the support.
alright

Franklin, TN

#21 Jan 27, 2010
for sure wrote:
Men are after the sex YES!!,but it is the woman's responsibility to keep herself from getting pregnant !!
Before I say this im goint to tell you right off im a man. I have 3 beautiful children. I am equally responcible for their being on this earth as my spouse. I know how a woman gets pregnant and I know every time I have sex there is a possiblity that the woman will get pregnant. Nothing is fool proof. Including tubals and vasectomy. If you dont want a child then you can use protection it does not eliminate your risk only not havign sex does that. But you reduce it and you reduce it furter if you use condomes it spermacide. Now that being said, just because you dont want your kids dosent mean tat they do not deserve your support. Its not about getting back at her its about them. Now you can so say and do waht you want but you know real men own up to their mistakes and take responciblity. They dont hide from it.

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