He didn't mean it. Please, if you have a heart at all let him go. That girl was his life, his world, he would give his own life before watching her die before him. Don't make him suffer anymore than he already has. Ask around, most guys would have done the same thing he did and toss an accelerant on flames to make them bigger. It is not a huge surprise everyone does it. He was just unofrtunate and unlucky victim, him and his daughter, and this was JUST A TERRIBLE ACCIDENT. Let him go. Please let him go....:'(