Port Leyden man accused of choking gi...

Port Leyden man accused of choking girlfriend during dispute

There are 18 comments on the Watertown Daily Times story from Jan 3, 2013, titled Port Leyden man accused of choking girlfriend during dispute. In it, Watertown Daily Times reports that:

Lewis County sheriff's deputies charged Brett Golden, 22, with criminal obstruction of breathing or blood circulation, fourth-degree criminal mischief, endangering the welfare of a child and two counts of second-degree harassment.

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figures

United States

#1 Jan 15, 2013
I can't believe he made it that long..Report fails to mention his girlfriend was on bath salts and let their daughter (1) smash her nose up and have to have stitches put in her nose while she was (babysitting) while daddy worked.hmmmm funny the whole story is not told..Ask PL AMBULANCE. They picked the poor little one up with a messed up gash in her face.where was daddy??? work!!!!
Tolerance is a virtue

Cary, NC

#2 Jan 15, 2013
figures wrote:
I can't believe he made it that long..Report fails to mention his girlfriend was on bath salts and let their daughter (1) smash her nose up and have to have stitches put in her nose while she was (babysitting) while daddy worked.hmmmm funny the whole story is not told..Ask PL AMBULANCE. They picked the poor little one up with a messed up gash in her face.where was daddy??? work!!!!
What a clumsy opportunist you are; a real manipulator without any attempt to be clandestine at all !

You take a police report about a guy beating up his girlfriend and spin it so you can attack the girl.

Who would believe anything from a person that would spin an article about a WOMAN BEATER in a way that you did?

Are all the men from PL all bad?? Jeez.
nope

United States

#3 Jan 15, 2013
Tolerance is a virtue wrote:
<quoted text>
What a clumsy opportunist you are; a real manipulator without any attempt to be clandestine at all !
You take a police report about a guy beating up his girlfriend and spin it so you can attack the girl.
Who would believe anything from a person that would spin an article about a WOMAN BEATER in a way that you did?
Are all the men from PL all bad?? Jeez.
....nope just the ones with drug addict girlfriends.Baby born addicted to T.H.C.She should have gotten choked then.Her OWN Mother stepped in on that one and turned her in.Hospital can prove that one..
Tolerance is a virtue

Cary, NC

#4 Jan 16, 2013
nope wrote:
<quoted text>....nope just the ones with drug addict girlfriends.Baby born addicted to T.H.C.She should have gotten choked then.Her OWN Mother stepped in on that one and turned her in.Hospital can prove that one..
1. The definition of addiction has to be modified to use it in the phrase "THC addiction". As an analogy, comparing Tobacco addiction and THC addiction is like comparing Grapefruit to Maple seeds.

2. The Hospital can't prove anything of the sort. Any incidence concerning a patient is covered under the HIPPA privacy rule.

3. If this supposed child abuse did occur, why wasn't it in the paper ? Child abuse is reported as readily as woman beating. I believe your interpretation of what happened is misleading.

4. The male beat this woman and all you can do is villainize the victim! Villainizing a victim to excuse the actual perpetrator is not new, but at some point we, as a society, need to put an end to it. It is the sleaziest of defenses, to say the least.
whatever

Los Angeles, CA

#5 Jan 16, 2013
Tolerance is a virtue wrote:
<quoted text>
1. The definition of addiction has to be modified to use it in the phrase "THC addiction". As an analogy, comparing Tobacco addiction and THC addiction is like comparing Grapefruit to Maple seeds.
2. The Hospital can't prove anything of the sort. Any incidence concerning a patient is covered under the HIPPA privacy rule.
3. If this supposed child abuse did occur, why wasn't it in the paper ? Child abuse is reported as readily as woman beating. I believe your interpretation of what happened is misleading.
4. The male beat this woman and all you can do is villainize the victim! Villainizing a victim to excuse the actual perpetrator is not new, but at some point we, as a society, need to put an end to it. It is the sleaziest of defenses, to say the least.
I see you can cut copy and paste.lmfao
Tolerance is a virtue

Cary, NC

#6 Jan 17, 2013
whatever wrote:
<quoted text> I see you can cut copy and paste.lmfao
This article is about a WOMAN BEING BEATEN and you side-step the crime by a feeble attempt to discredit ?

Well, you probably googled my sentiments to discover from where they originated (?). I suppose I should be flattered. What difference does it make from where the statement, "Villainizing a victim to excuse the actual perpetrator is not new, but at some point we, as a society, need to put an end to it". I felt I had to include that statement to emphasize the weak and sleazy defense being offered for the woman beater.(I could tell my original point was lost on the previous poster, too.)

In order for a man to lay a hand on a woman out of anger proves he is not a man and no longer considers himself to be a man. He has become an emotional shell, totally unable to handle the situation in which he he put himself. He needs help, not from people trying to make excuses for him but from people that care and can point him in a direction to get that help ...

Ignoring a problem never helps.

The positive way forward is to learn by past mistakes.

There's no shame in learning and bettering one's self !
WNY

Rochester, NY

#7 Jan 17, 2013
What do you tell a girlfriend with two black eyes? Nothing, you already told her twice!
Tolerance is a virtue

Cary, NC

#8 Jan 17, 2013
WNY wrote:
What do you tell a girlfriend with two black eyes? Nothing, you already told her twice!
I'll never understand why anyone being abused goes back to the abuser! Obviously she needs help, too!

It was suggested to me to read a book called, "Women that Love too Much", by Robin Norwood. That was ages ago when I couldn't let go of a man that was "emotionally unavailable". You know, the kind that would dangle the carrot of hope in front of you and give you glimmers of a fantastic relationship only to fall short at the most (or least!) opportune times. It helped me out tremendously! And I never got into that situation again.

Some years later my sister was suggested to read it (not by me but --- by a professional) and she didn't see herself within the pages AT ALL. She still lives with the selfish womanizing drunk. We grew up in the same family, under the same roof, but still handle our problems very differently. Very interesting. Proves everyone is their own person.

Please get this book, read it and see if it'll help your friend out. It's a great book to pass around!

Good Luck. I hope everything works out.
brett

Geneva, NY

#9 Jan 18, 2013
im not the one putin this shit on here this is a place for ppl to start trouble.this is going to stop me from seeing my daughter.and i had nothing to do with it i dont know who you are but please stop i am not a women beater it never happend befor.i made a mistake. and now im paying for it. and she made a mistake for smokin when she was prego and our cps case got closed.me and her both paied for that one. i dont want to bad mouth the mother to my kid.she always was good to my daughter.and so was i. i just want everything to go as smoth as possiable. and this is not helpin matters none. i havent seen abbi since wed when this post started... thanks for that to whom is conserns i did not post anything with out my real name. brittany if you read this please dont take it out on me. im sorry for peoples need to get shit started i just want to see my daughter
brett

Geneva, NY

#10 Jan 18, 2013
thaks to who was defendin me tho at least i know someone cares about me
Tolerance is a virtue

Cary, NC

#11 Jan 18, 2013
brett wrote:
im not the one putin this shit on here this is a place for ppl to start trouble.this is going to stop me from seeing my daughter.and i had nothing to do with it i dont know who you are but please stop i am not a women beater it never happend befor.i made a mistake. and now im paying for it. and she made a mistake for smokin when she was prego and our cps case got closed.me and her both paied for that one. i dont want to bad mouth the mother to my kid.she always was good to my daughter.and so was i. i just want everything to go as smoth as possiable. and this is not helpin matters none. i havent seen abbi since wed when this post started... thanks for that to whom is conserns i did not post anything with out my real name. brittany if you read this please dont take it out on me. im sorry for peoples need to get shit started i just want to see my daughter
Stay on track, try to always have a positive focus. It may take a while but this to will be behind you if you stay out of trouble.

Good Luck.
NC sucks

Boonville, NY

#12 Feb 27, 2013
Tolerance is a virtue wrote:
<quoted text>
What a clumsy opportunist you are; a real manipulator without any attempt to be clandestine at all !
You take a police report about a guy beating up his girlfriend and spin it so you can attack the girl.
Who would believe anything from a person that would spin an article about a WOMAN BEATER in a way that you did?
Are all the men from PL all bad?? Jeez.
Maybe its better than being gay like you, suck on boy.
curious

Johnstown, NY

#13 Apr 22, 2013
figures wrote:
I can't believe he made it that long..Report fails to mention his girlfriend was on bath salts and let their daughter (1) smash her nose up and have to have stitches put in her nose while she was (babysitting) while daddy worked.hmmmm funny the whole story is not told..Ask PL AMBULANCE. They picked the poor little one up with a messed up gash in her face.where was daddy??? work!!!!
who are these people''please tell me..and do they still have this child in their custody

“Busy”

Since: Feb 11

Location hidden

#14 Apr 22, 2013
There are quite of few woman beaters that live in port leyden. Put their names up.
Tolerance is a Virtue

Cary, NC

#15 Apr 23, 2013
curious wrote:
<quoted text> who are these people''please tell me..and do they still have this child in their custody
By double clicking on the blue colored hyperlink under the heading of this article a new page pops up which includes the article with the MANS name in it. His name is also in the excerpt:

Jan 3, 2013 | Posted by: roboblogger

Port Leyden man accused of choking girlfriend during dispute
Full story: Watertown Daily Times

Lewis County sheriff's deputies charged Brett Golden, 22, with criminal obstruction of breathing or blood circulation, fourth-degree criminal mischief, endangering the welfare of a child and two counts of second-degree harassment.

Don't know how you can find out if they still have custody, unless someone knows and is willing to divulge that info here.
RPD

Brooklyn, NY

#16 Apr 23, 2013
What do you tell a woman with welts around her neck? Nothing, you already told her once.
Girlfriend

United States

#17 Apr 23, 2013
Is the girlfriends name Brittany something?
lisa

Speculator, NY

#18 May 27, 2013
wow

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