I'M sorry to say that his choice of companions is a reflection on his own morality.
Recently a deputy sheriff was fired for having some young ones at his house during a party. He was off duty too.
If it's any consolation, it won't last. Your dad is 49, she's 20. She'll be 40 when he's 69,when she's 50 (which is still young these days)he'll be 79.
I feel bad for you because your dad left your mom for a girl he's old enough to be her father. It must be very emabarassing for you and your sister and mother.
Lastly I don't wish to rub it in, but you are going to have to face it, your dad is not the most homorable man in Lewis County. He has in the past been accused of some very serious stuff.
I'M going on 40. I don't have a gray hair in my head. I'M not lying when I say I'M a handsome fella. Girls her age do not look at me anymore and that's fine, I couldn't go out with a girl that young myself anyway.
If you are underage and I think you are, forgive my posts above,I would never in a million years ever,ever be alone with a minor.
I can tell from your posts this whole thing is eating at you and I wish you well.
Andy, I'm a DUI convicted man myself,[back in the day] who admitted my guilt. Paid my dues, just like I should have. Billman was found innocent of the charge. Let it go. As for him being a babe magnet. It's good to be the king! Get over your jealousy. Call him up for some pointers. Because I'm pretty sure he'd like to talk w/the man that is talking about meeting his under age daughter. Who is my daughters age. I think I'll give Joe a call about you. As for his classic car, boat whatever. I'm pretty sure he worked for them. So back off of him and leave his family alone. What did you get arrested for?