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Tyler, TX

#21 Nov 23, 2009
tell her to put an ad in craigs list for the town he is living in..... looking for a mom in that area. to get pics of him working off the books. if their going to work illegally, hide funds from the kids and the government then he needs to be rotting in jail. the employers would feel the heat finally and stop what their doing. a web site to run the "footage" of these deadbeats breaking the law. if your not getting child support you can use a few extra bucks. Ideally women could get the information and have credit in a pool. then the one who came up with the information would be hooked up with another mother in her target state. if no one could be found then compensation for the photos etc. would be paid. i dream of a network of moms and dads working together across the states. its expensive to hire a detective to do what we are capable of doing ourselvs... i could not afford the plane ticket, and a hotel, and a car to get the information my private eye did... most people have access to computers... we need to pull together, work together, help each other. we all have the same goal, JUSTICE!!!! ill say it again. out of state moms, listen up. if your deadbeat is in the Tyler Texas area. i would love to catch your deadbeat on tape. it would be an honor. FOR FREE.

Savage, MN

#22 Nov 24, 2009
I am so glad that there are other parents out there in my situation. I will find my sons father again. I always do. It takes me awhile but I manage to find him. He just sold their house in Waxhaw, North Carolina. I should assume they still live in the area because the wife has family there. And my weekly money is still coming. They sold their house for under what they paid 4 years ago. Bought it for 333,000 and sold it for 302,000. Was hoping that we could have put a lien on the house for the back support but that is one of the last resorts I guess. Hoping he comes back to Minnesota because they "WILL" go after him here. But no he will hide out in North Carolina where he knows he is safe. I think that is why he moved to that state, to hide from everyone, and that that state does basically nothing to a dead beat that is thousands of dollars behind on their support. I am my own "private eye" But very glad he sat in jail last year for this!! Thanks everyone for your comments and suggestions, this week/weekend I will be doing a lot of searching.
working mom

Tyler, TX

#23 Nov 24, 2009
i have read this about north carolina... it is a disgrace. thats why there needs to be video. on youtube at least. showing them living, hiding, and ignoring their children's. this will move people and states to stop making it easy for them to break the law. if your scumbag is working off the books, cheating the government, and your children they should be exposed, and the company he's working for punished. tax evasion is illegal. mothers and fathers, keep fighting, and dont give up.
bringstevetojust ice

Providence, RI

#24 Feb 15, 2010
Do what I did and put up a website about your deadbeat. Check out mine http://www.stephenswallow.com

Post it all over craigslist in the town where you think your deadbeat might be hiding. Post the link on the web where ever you can including myspace and facebook. Also make up myspace and facebook profiles of your deadbeat. Go onto Classmates.com and put up fake profiles for the school and year your deadbeat attended. Send flyers with the deadbeat's photo and amount owed to all the neighbors in the neighborhood he lives in, to the bars he might hang out in, to the bait and tackle store he may frequent ect ect. Put you deadbeat up on http://www.mostwanteddeadbeats.com Do whatever you can to get your story out there for the world to see!!!

Bronx, NY

#25 Feb 26, 2010
deadbeat too wrote:
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YES!! it is! I have two that owe over 30,000 together and he wants to lower his support after he had another child. North Carolina doesn't do crap! I live in Monroe, NC 2 mins from Waxhaw. I talked to some ladies from NY the other day and they were so shocked because if these cases were in NY their butts would be in JAIL!
NY Tossing them in jail - It's true but not in all cases ( I SOOO wish it were!!)..I'm 20 now, but a few years back my mom tried to get child support ( I think it was her 3rd attempt)..Gave them his name, his address, COPY OF HIS LICENSE, etc...and it was just one big run around..never got any support and he was never thrown in jail

Bronx, NY

#26 Feb 26, 2010
Btw, you can also find what states they live(d) in etc on

if they own anything check out county records and tax information online .. I found a lot of stuff out that way too

United States

#27 Apr 26, 2010
I have an ex that hasn't see his son in over 3 years and he owes $29,000 in child support. He lives in Morehead City North Carolina and the child support enforcement there is terrible. They cut you off at the knees. You can't hire a process server to serve him with papers which apparently I have to do even though I have an order in Oregon. His name is James Meyerhofer. He also goes by Jim and he is a deadbeat dad. If anyone is from the area or knows him please let me know. If Oregon can get he name of his employer then they will garnish his wages.
Rheea Ellis

United States

#28 Sep 8, 2010
Billy Neal Queen of Lincolnton NC is a dead beat dad. Lincoln county NC will not make him do any thing and even though he was abusive to my daughter he still has the right to see his daughters . I totally support these children they live with my daughter in my home. NC does NOT CARE.

Savage, MN

#29 Sep 9, 2010
I just found an address for my son's father! Now, to start searching again and going to my child support people to try to get the support he owes. I cannot believe North Carolina, they are slow. I suppose just as slow as here in Minnesota. You can write letter after letter and nothing ever seems to get done about it. They will keep getting letter after letter from me until this deadbeat is paid up. I do not care how long it takes, I will get it done! He still lives in the Waxhaw area.
Rhee Gaye Ellis

Lincolnton, NC

#30 Nov 23, 2011
Rheea Ellis wrote:
Billy Neal Queen of Lincolnton NC is a dead beat dad. Lincoln county NC will not make him do any thing and even though he was abusive to my daughter he still has the right to see his daughters . I totally support these children they live with my daughter in my home. NC does NOT CARE.
Billy Neal Queen has made so many harassing phone calls to his wife's place of employment she has lost her job. He quit his place of employment when DSS Finally served papers to garnish his wages.
This man is dangerous to my family. We get no cooperation from law enforcement or DSS if it is difficult or time consuming.. forget it , the simply will not take the trouble .. they would rather the children suffer. Lincoln County NC One of our county commissioners sits on the board of DSS here he just says duh. my husband is a DA Veteran with stage 4 cancer I am angry , This punk does nothing but cause trouble and keep everyone upset the children worried and devastated. He refuses to support them or himself.. just sign them over and get the hell out of our lives. You have not supported the children emotionally or financially since they have been born. You have done so much harm.

United States

#31 Feb 9, 2012
Christopher Calchi is a DEADBEAT DAD from NY living in Cary NC.

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