Actually, I was in a relationship for 4 years. We were going to get married. I got pregnant with a baby that both of us wanted. He began to drink too much and I left. How is it my fault that things worked out this way?<quoted text>
As the law sees it, it's the woman's body and her choice. With that comes the responsibily of controlling what gets in through the pearly gates. If the gatekeeper is drunk, distracted or sleeping on the job, and something gets in that shouldn't, the woman is to blame (forcible rape being an exception to this rule). If you see a fox around a henhouse, you know there's only one reason for him to be there. Similarly, if there's a guy she doesn't know anything about(or knows to be trouble)- and he gets in, she shouldn't be surprised to end up a single mother.
I love my babies thank you very much and I am proud of myself but......THE BABY DADDY NEEDS TO BUCK UP AND TAKE CARE OF HIS RESPONSIBILITIES.