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Feb 22, 2008 | Posted by: roboblogger
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Jamie has been a part of our family for about a year now and this summer I had the opportunity to meet Cheyenne. Cheyenne visited my home with her Mother. Cheyenne is a very pretty girl and very plolite young girl. She was full of questions and very loving with my pets. Jamie and Cheyenne played and laughted together all afternoon. I did not know Jamie before my son starter dating her, but I do know Jamie that is a part of our life now and I do know that her girls are everything to her and that not only how much Jamie loves her girls but the love her girls have for her. I do know that life has been hard for Jamie and she has made mistakes but who of us has not? I do not care what Jamies past was or what she did or did not do right or wrong all I know is the Jamie and her girls that are a part of our lives is a wonderful person and a very loving Mother and her girls are sweet young ladies, and thay lover there Mother. Jamie and the girls know that in this family every one is loved and we help each other. I know how bad Jamie was hurt when Cheyenne father come and took her away, but Jamie said that for now it is ok because Ronnie love her also but I just wish I knew where he lives so I could see Cheyenne write her or call her. As of today he has not tryed to call or contact her in any way to tell her about Cheyenne. Mr.. Hibdon this is not right. I know you have your other children to think about but you Should contact Jamie, MR. Hibdon you can call your Mother and she can give you my home number and my cell number you can call collect or at any time. My prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry about Cheyenne.
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Cheyenne is a sweet sweet soul. We will all truly miss her. She is a true hero. She saved her family and for that she is soaring high with the angels. Its hard to see this help to such a young sweet sweet baby...
Its even harder when others cant stop saying negative things. My sister my have been Cheyennes step mother but she was a better mommy to her than anyone else ever was. Cheyenne called her mommy and as far as Cheyenne was concerned that was her mommy. To you Miss Jamie. I am sorry for your loss but it was your fault Ronnie took Cheyenne. You cant say that you were trying because you know you are on drugs. You just had Nae Nae and you other baby taken from you. Now how does that make you a good mother? You only wanted Shy Shy when it was convenient for you and she didnt get in the way of your tricks. To you miss Kathey you have no right to slander Ronnie. What you have done is against the law. This is a very very hard situation for every one. Especially for Ronnie and Mendy. It doesnt do anyone any good to run your mouths. To everyone else Mendy and Ronnie were very good parents. They still are very good parents to their remaining children. They may have had some financial struggles but they have soo much love for their children. My sister raised Shy Shy from a little bitty thing. Her real mother wasnt around and Mendy took her in just like she was her own. It is soo hard to hear negative things right now. So please if you have nothing nice to say dont say them at all. |
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The true issue here is the loss of the child!! NOT who was a good parent and who was not! Love is Quality not quantity. Nobody has the right to judge only God and He alone decided Cheyenne would be in a better place with him!! The loss of this child should be mourned and the ENTIRE family should be included, whether anyone liked them, respected them, or hated them, It is Irrelevant! All the mud slinging in the world will never bring Cheyenne back to us, so what is the point? ALL of her family loved her and will miss her dearly, regardless of the circumstances. Love each other and get along, because tomorrow might bring another tragedy.
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I am sorry for the loss of such a precious young angel, to all her family you have my deepest sympathy.
Reading the above forum from Amber has left me quite distrubded. Amber I did not see any reference to Mendy in any way especially negative so this must be you needing to reafirm your own feelings in some way. The fact is no person is put on this earth perfect. If Jamie is trying to iprove her self and her life , are you her judge? Have you been around Jamie to even know the quality of life she now has? When all is said, only one thing remains true and that is Jamie is a mother who has lost one of the most wonderful gifts she could have ever received, her daughter. Along with Cheyenne's father and stepmother, Jamie will never see this innocent child run,play oreven see the wind blow in her hair. Cheyenne may not have lived with her mther, but sometimes we have to choose the right place for our children to live despite how we feel, I know this for a fact as my children did not live with me for sometime. That never changes the love we have for our children just what others think because they are to easy to pass judgement. Jamie is a wonderfu woman and deserves to grieve for her daughter, despite what you think. |
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To everyone related and not related to Cheyenne.My name is Ashley I've been apart of her family for 15 years.I knew Cheyenne since she was a baby.All this fighting over whos a better parent is so crazy.All people should be worried about is making sure she has abeautiful funeral. and I know for a fact she would want her mother Jaimie there.I know Jaimie has done some things bad in her life,but nobodys perfect.She should be able to come to her daughter's funeral.Jaimie carried and delievered cheychey.Please make cheychey happy.To her grandmother Sheila(Nanny) i knowed you loved chey.I know you raised her I was around.To Ronnie I knowed you did everything for chey you are a good father.To Amber I wish you knew everything but you dont.You just think you know everything.To make a long story short chey is jaimies daughter and she should be able to go to her daughters funeral.The last time I saw chey i was mad at her for something so little and i nevered got to apologize to her Im so sad about her dying its so unreal.No matter what I did love her to me she was my cousin.Do something for chey get along dont fight we all loved her.TO the rest of cheys family (Ronnies side) I love u guys I wish I was there.You guys will make it through these hard times.Im so sorry .
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To Cheyennne's family and friends, I'm am sorry to hear about the devastating news. It is ssooo sad that it takes a child's death to make everyone who was related and one's who think that they know everything( AMBER ROTH) to fight. Jamie has made her mistakes, but that child came from her. The people that this death will truly affect is her loving father Ronnie, her mother Jamie, and her nanny Sheila. Everyone just need to stop the fighting and let the family grieve in there loss of such a beautiful ANGEL. And Cheyenne, ur cousin Ashley will always love you and never forget all the good times she had with u when u were growing and ur cute little funny smile without ur two front teeth. U WILL BE MISSED!!!! To Jamie, you deserve to be there. You may have not been there in Cheyenne's life but you have the right to let your daughter go and tell her goodbye. My heart goes out to everyone who knew this little ANGEL CHEYENNE!!!!!
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Mrs. Roth, it is a oppertunity of a life time to incounter a person such as yourself. A person who is without sin and the right to cast stones. I know a person who is close to being perfect, but he will tell you that he is not perfect. This person is my stepgrandfather of 50 + years. He knows Jamie and thinks she is a very kind person and will help anyone. I do not understand what you think I said about Mr. Hibdon that is slander? That he is a good father that he loves Cheyenne? I do feel that it was wrong that Jamie did not know where Cheyenne and Mr. Hobdon lived and that Jamie did not have a phone number to call Cheyennne.I do feel that Mr. Hibdon should have call Jamie and told her about Cheyenne. Jamie just could not believe what she was told that her daughter could not be gone because Mr. Hibdon would call her if it were true. I think slander is what you posted on the internet about Jamie. You took it upon your self to post Jamies personal business. Jamie has tryed to tell me about her past but I have told her I do not care about her past, I care about what she is doing with her life now. Jamie has and is paying for her past and no one has to remind her that she has made mistakes. The Jamie that is in our life is a very good person and is working hard to right her wrongs. Jamie does not do drugs, drink, run around, sometimes she will slip and say a curse word but she catches her self and say she is sorry. Jamie has been working a jod since before christmas and fact she is there today and I know how hard it is for her right now. So all of you can keep kicking her down but we will be there to pick her up give her a hug and remind her that she is a good person and she has a worth in this world. I feel my life is richer because of Jamie and her girls in it. SO just keep casting stones at her because we will stand up in front of her and take the blows for her. If anyone of you would take the time to know our Jamie you would fine out that Jamie is a differant person and she is working very hard to better her life so she can do right by her girls. The only think I said about Mrs. Hibdon was that my prayers are with her and her family. If that is slander so be it.Mrs. Hibdon above everyone should know how sad Jamie is right now for she also has a loss. She should want to talk with Jamie and tell how Cheyenne has been all of the good things about Cheyenne how sorry for her she is that thay were not able to get Cheyenne out and cry together for there loss. I am not judging anyone and neither is Jamie. If all of you dislike Jamie so much put your hard feeling aside and have a heart for her right now, none of you have to put her down right now she has said nothing bad about any of you. She would only like to hear from Mr. or Mrs. Hibdon what happened. Please ease her heart and telll her what she does not know. And as for this lawyer Mark ? Lawyers do not call someone on a sunday night late and say the thing he said to Jamie Lawyers announce ther self as Mr. what ever there last name maybe. And in till thay have the facts thay would not say anything thay would write a letter. Or that is how things are done in the big citys.My prayerss are with the brothers and sisters and I pary that thay will not have to keep reliving that horrible night over and over in there minds and that all of the family will find a way for peace in there hearts and know this was GODS will, and no one is at falt. Just know Jamie has a heart also and I know how big it is. GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE OF THIS FAMILY. AND GRANT THEM PEACE>
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IAM CHY CHY AUNT EVERYBODY POSTING NEGATIVE THINGS AT THIS TIME YOU NEED TO STOP THIS ABOUT THAT BABY AND HER FAMILY THIS IS A MESSAGE FROM SHAUN RHONDA AND MY SELF WE ALL NEED EACH AND EVERY BODY PRAYERS RIGHT NOW AND EACH OTHER SO PLEASE STOP WE LOVE YOU BABY GIRL
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From everything I understand Cheyenne was a great litle girl and a very well round person. From what I understand I knew her mom as Mendy and dad as Ronnie. They were great parents to her. They tought her so much. She was one of the most sweetiest little girls ever. Mendy and Ronnie Im sory for your lose and to all of the rest of the family I am also sory for your alls loss she was a great and beatuiful little girl. Chy god bless you we will remember you as you were you are always in our prayers and make sure you keep an eye out for your brothers and sisters. We love you sweetie. Aunt Amber loves you with all of her heart and so does Uncle Billy. GOD BLESS AND WE LOVE YOU CHY.
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To everyone that this concerns Im sorry that I said anything mean on here. I am not perfect either and I know that everyone can make mistakes. Yes Jaimie I do believe that you have the right to grieve. Im sorry that I got defensive but I am watching the children my sister and my brother in law die inside. they are having a really hard time. I really dont have the patience to handle anyone talking badly about anyone right now. Im sorry that I did the same. Come on guys its not about us or any of this bickering its about chey chey and thats it. We all including myself need to knock it off and come together during this time of crisis. Please I dont want to see anything else mean on here regarding ronnie or mendy. Ok Jaimie maybe you were trying to be a good mom and turn you life around but please dont forget that mendy has been there for chey chey and has helped raise her just as if she were her own. she is hurting just as much as you are.....
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Joined: Feb 25, 2008 Comments: 2 |
That is so true Amber it isnt about everyone else its about Chy. We all need to come together and pray for her and I know we all love her. She will always be around even though we cant see her. We love you Chy.
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CHEYENNE WAZ MY BEST FRIEND THEN SHE MOVED AWAY AND I NEVER SAW HER AGIAN BUT I GOT THIS NEWS YESTERDAY AND THEN I GOT SO UP SET THAT I RAN OFF CRYING BEFOR SHE MOVED SHE WOULD COME UP TO MY HOUSE AND WAKE ME UP FOR SCHOOL CHEYENNE WAS A REALLY NICE AND WOUNDERFUL GIRL I JUST WOULD NOT NO WHY GOD TOOK HER AWAY FROM US SHE WAS A LIGHT THAT GOD MADE FOR ALL OF US TO SEE AND CHY YOU ARE A LIGHT THAT GOD SENT TO US I ANIT LIEING CHY BUT NOW WE NO YOU ARE IN A BETTER PLACE WE HOPE THAT YOU ARE VERY VERY HAPPY NOW WELL CHY WE WILL ALL MISS U VERY MUCH WELL GOOD BYE CHEYENNE WELL WILL MISS U BYE BYE HOPE YOUR HAPPY BY..........
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WE ALL WILL MISS U
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Rhea you sound like a very good friend to have, i bet when Cheyenne moved away from you she miss you also. I bet when Cheyenne would come to wake you up she always had a smile for you. that must feel really good to see your best friends big happy smile early in the mornings. You two were lucky to have been friends. I bet you were Cheyenne's light also and I bet seeing you first thing each morning was why she had that big happy smile. I am so sorry for your lose of a best friend. But you can still tell her your secrets, and all of your dreams Cheyenne will hear you, and listen with your heart for Cheyenne to tell you that your secrets and dreams are safe with her, and maybe you will also hear her funny little giggle. BEST FRIENDS FOREVER!
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Cheyenne was indeed a beautiful, bright, vibrant, sweet little girl who was always such a joy to have around. She was very much a people person, loved animals, loved crafts, and loved her family...all of them (especially her grandma), but somehow seemed to get lost amongst the shuffle and that is the saddest thing of all. We shall all deeply miss what was surely a ray of sunshine in an otherwise bleak and dreary world and it is my prayer that she is indeed in a much better place...an angel called home to heaven.
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Im cheyennes aunt.
I miss her. I wish none of this would of happend. But we all have r good memories of her in are lifes. she always made people smile =]] |
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“Everyone has one” Joined: Jul 6, 2008 Comments: 5 ISP: Poplar Bluff, MO |
Chey, I love and miss you! Please ignore the fighting. It must be wonderful to be loved so much that people would fight over who loves you more. My heart was broken when mommy Gi-Gi called me and told me. I pray everyday for your mommy's and your daddy. But more than that I pray for your brothers and sisters...I pray that God can shine some type of understanding on them. Don't underestimate them baby, kids understand things better than we as adults give them credit for! Know only that you're loved..and missed every day!!!! Love your aunt.
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