Reality

Columbus, OH

#1900 Apr 2, 2014
The judge should make a decision at this point, this is ridiculous to leave us all in limbo.
RU Stupid

Columbus, OH

#1901 Apr 2, 2014
christians wrote:
Why don't you all try to love, support and forgive Bennett like Jesus would?
How the hell do you support someone that is constantly living in sin. Abusing Sean's kids, threatening them, harassing people, not paying his dues, still terrorizing people! How about we say hypothetically you and I meet and I beat the shit out of you, abuse the ones you love, lie about you, start false rumors about you, destroy every relationship you have and continue to send you harassing texts, threaten you with physical violence, worst of all I abuse the very innocent children in your life and then have some DUMBASS tell you to forgive me cause that's what Jesus would do. Are you so religious you don't know who or what Jesus is? Jesus would not support his psychotic behavior. BS didnt just make a mistake. He is a psychopath on the lose, just a lesser version of Ted Bundy.

The Good Lord said less he have a millstone around his neck and thrown into the deepest part of the Sea. Now go back to your bible and study it on your own. You obviously spent to much time under Bennett Smith
RU Stupid

Columbus, OH

#1902 Apr 2, 2014
Better yet. READ what Paul has to say about living in sin. You really are a special kind of stupid!!!

Your words are like telling the victims of Ted Bundy while he is in the midst of raping and murdering them, well you got to support him, love him. He is doing nothing good to support, everything he does is a lie. No wonder the Smith kids had no one to go to! pull your head out of the sand for Gods sake.
question

Hilliard, OH

#1903 Apr 2, 2014
christians wrote:
Why don't you all try to love, support and forgive Bennett like Jesus would?
How is the second and third marriage going 4 u?
Dear BS

Columbus, OH

#1904 Apr 3, 2014
You are now married to the woman of your dreams and get to start life over with four children. Maybe this is your 2nd chance to be a decent dad because you sure failed the first go around.
Hoping that your marriage is still exciting and filled with love, No going back now. Too late to change your mind and this is Jen's 3rd husband, lets hope she got it right this time. There is no leaving Bennett, The only way out is if he leaves you. Did you notice Kim did not put up a fight. She is free and you are not.
Bennett gave up his entire family for you so hope it was worth it for the life you will now have.
Health Nut

Delaware, OH

#1905 Apr 3, 2014
amazing weight loss wrote:
<quoted text>
bennett smith has lost a lot of weight since his last video! the baby urine diet is the bomb!
Maybe super fat Sean Beam should try the baby urine diet. No. I don't think it works for people who are that obese. Has anyone seen that guy lately sheesh. You should see him waddle.
The real health nut

Canton, OH

#1906 Apr 3, 2014
Health Nut wrote:
<quoted text>
Maybe super fat Sean Beam should try the baby urine diet. No. I don't think it works for people who are that obese. Has anyone seen that guy lately sheesh. You should see him waddle.
You next post should be Billy madison, you two are so juvenile. What church do you want to lead?
fat a

Canton, OH

#1907 Apr 3, 2014
Health Nut wrote:
<quoted text>
Maybe super fat Sean Beam should try the baby urine diet. No. I don't think it works for people who are that obese. Has anyone seen that guy lately sheesh. You should see him waddle.
Can anyone guess Sean Beam weight?
Diamond D

Canton, OH

#1908 Apr 3, 2014
fat a wrote:
<quoted text>
Can anyone guess Sean Beam weight?
500 lbs?
Crack head

Columbus, OH

#1909 Apr 3, 2014
fat a wrote:
<quoted text>
Can anyone guess Sean Beam weight?
its hard to gain wait when you're a coke head.
mark p

Canton, OH

#1910 Apr 3, 2014
Crack head wrote:
<quoted text>its hard to gain wait when you're a coke head.
I like Pepsi.
Reality

Columbus, OH

#1911 Apr 3, 2014
Diamond D wrote:
<quoted text>
500 lbs?
Fat and worthless
magic man

Canton, OH

#1912 Apr 4, 2014
Reality wrote:
<quoted text>
Fat and worthless
Judge give me the win, I am ready to get back to work. Look at the post above, I am now writing my own sermons now. Can I file a motion on topix? Where is my lawyer?
Unwanted Bennett

Columbus, OH

#1913 Apr 4, 2014
You can't get your lawyer. You can't get back to work at church. Stay away from harm victims! You're so mean to laid victims off. Now you are LAY OFF!
Forgive Bennett

Columbus, OH

#1914 Apr 4, 2014
I have to forgive BS for what he did laid victims off. But he needs work at used cars likes real job. He needs focus his life and better at used cars because he is active.
Man boobs

Columbus, OH

#1915 Apr 5, 2014
fat a wrote:
<quoted text>
Can anyone guess Sean Beam weight?
bennett and his man boobs have no room to talk. How much money did you spend on your face and it still doesn't look any better. How about the churches money you used to get caps on your nearly teeth. Hope someone knocks this caps off you POS. you are the ugliest person I have ever met.
Jenn

Richfield, OH

#1916 Apr 5, 2014
Man boobs wrote:
<quoted text>bennett and his man boobs have no room to talk. How much money did you spend on your face and it still doesn't look any better. How about the churches money you used to get caps on your nearly teeth. Hope someone knocks this caps off you POS. you are the ugliest person I have ever met.
Don't talk about my husband like that.
to much time on your hand

Cleveland, OH

#1917 Apr 7, 2014
you people really need to get a life..l.cant believe you are still ranting about this man and his family. Don't believe all that you read, most of this stuff is lies. If you still feel the need to post all this stuff everyday you are no better than he is. Put your energy into something usefull, you have been ranting for almost a year now, time to give it up
Really

Columbus, OH

#1918 Apr 7, 2014
to much time on your hand wrote:
you people really need to get a life..l.cant believe you are still ranting about this man and his family. Don't believe all that you read, most of this stuff is lies. If you still feel the need to post all this stuff everyday you are no better than he is. Put your energy into something usefull, you have been ranting for almost a year now, time to give it up
and he is still fighting for the church, still abusing people, still harassing peoe, still telling lies, when he stops hurting people, we will stop exposing him. Please tell me one thing on here that is a lie!!! As usual I don't expect a reply. Even his own family won't defend him so why are you? You should defend the innocent people being hurt by this monster
Josie Betts

Columbus, OH

#1919 Apr 7, 2014
actually...he did EVERYTHING that was mentioned.

If Bennett was convicted to the full extent of the law and shamed in a media circus...

Trust me... It would not make any of you feel better for the years of abuse and manipulation.

I have been vindicated in the past after being thrown under the bus by a leader... It does not take away the pain.

Get a Good Christian Counselor, and process through the grieving process.

The first step of Forgiveness is realizing the FULL extent you were wronged. You cannot forgive w/o knowing what you are forgiving.

Recommendations:
1) Read up on Narcissistic personality disorder bit.ly/1hHxvBt
2) View these resources: http://www.healingspiritualabuse.com/
3) Go to a church that offers a peer counseling ministry and has transparent leaders (wounded healers)
i.e. Vineyard Church Deleware County http://www.vineyardcdc.org/
Heritage Christian Church http://www.heritagecc.org/
Vineyard Columbus www.vineyardcolumbus.org
Northside Fellowship
etc.

(Make sure the Pastor does not live like a Hollywood Millionaire, I can vouch for the above pastors)

I question whether one should stay at TCAP- being that many who enabled Bennett over the years are still on staff. Also- that building was a context of abuse, and may complicate your healing process.

Forgiving Bennett is giving his offenses to Christ, so HE can deal with Bennet. God is Grace, and God is Just.

Bitterness over Bennett will consume you. DO NOT let the madness of Bennet further destroy you. That is Satan's Plan. Bennett is out of the picture...do not Give the Devil or Bennett any more power to screw up your life.

To many people gravitate towards power roles because they felt insignificant or were abused or abandoned... I can imagine that this might be the case with Bennett. Don't perpetuate the cycle by not forgiving and pursuing healing.

I met Bennett several years ago and he struck me as a Bully with Daddy issues that was trying to build a big church for all the wrong reasons.

Forgive Bennett, Engage Jesus.

Great Counseling Practices: Directions on High Street, Wellspring is great too!

Lord Bless you guys. I would love to see this forum become a discussion group on healing and forgiveness. Grow beyond Bennett and become like Jesus

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