Bennett Smith gate stories from the victims point of view

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loser

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#559
Nov 20, 2013
 
Could you get a bigger loser? Really what a disgrace to the church. Christians and his own wife and kids.
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#560
Nov 20, 2013
 
Sean- isn't there any legal recourse for getting your children out of that environment? If the courts found enough evidence to arrest him for stalking you how is it legal for him to be living with your kids?
If your visitation rights have been violated certainly a judge would order your ex-wife to comply with the visitation agreement or face some sort of consequence.
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I just am so confused by people proclaiming BS's superiority because of his ability to "be real" "be authentic". To be authentic is to be rooted in truth. He has done everything BUT be truthful by creating convoluted smoke screens to deceive people into thinking he is the victim. From attacking the Beneke's to saying he isn't having an affair...real? Authentic? He wouldn't recognize those attributes if they smacked him in the face. I feel sorry for those who have believed these lies.

But all of this behavior is TYPICAL OF AN ADDICT. If you have ever been an addict and have gone through a recovery program like AA, you will learn these things. An addict WILL SAY ANYTHING to cover up their faults and make themselves the victim and blame others. They do not deal in reality. Their only reality is the one created in their own mind by their addiction.

BS has spoke openly about his past with substance abuse. Anyone who is in recovery knows you cannot go back to substance use without it completely taking over again as substance ABUSE. This is not about people judging Bennett for drinking. This is about an addict who was in recovery who has now entered active addiction again and lines must be drawn AS A RESULT OF HIS DECISION TO PARTICIPATE IN SUBSTANCE ABUSE. You are no longer dealing with the old Bennett. You are dealing with an addict and my prayer is that his kids somehow understand this so they can stop the cycle for themselves.

You cannot trust an addict in active addiction. Period.
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11 things we know about BS
1. His mother would be ashamed of his actions
2. He ruined his own marriage
3. He is having an affair and has been for over a year
4. It is with Jennifer Young his best friend
5. Is living with his girlfriend Jennifer Young "claiming" to be a live in nanny.
6. Is about to lose the a law suit that he hasn't even tried to win even for his wife and kids sake
7. Just humiliated his wife and shared things that would embarrass her. He confessed to being a CHEATER
8. Loves the bars more than the church
9. Hates church goers
10. Claims to love God but spitefully steals from God and abuses Gods people. Lies manipulates and commits sin after sin with no regret or repentance of heart
11. Is jaded because his best friends could no longer overlook his abuse of power, committing adultery, stealing the churches money, and asked him to do the right thing. They had a job to do as board members and they chose God over Bennett. How date they!!

Yea BS. We all got screenshots of your drunken posts. Do sad you hurt Paul and Mary publicly. Haven't you done enough to Kim?
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#563
Nov 20, 2013
 
Someone post the Facebook transcript!
Sean Beam

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Nov 20, 2013
 
concerned wrote:
Sean- isn't there any legal recourse for getting your children out of that environment? If the courts found enough evidence to arrest him for stalking you how is it legal for him to be living with your kids?
If your visitation rights have been violated certainly a judge would order your ex-wife to comply with the visitation agreement or face some sort of consequence.
Thanks for the concern. I will look into your ideas.
wasnt me

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#565
Nov 20, 2013
 
stalkers wrote:
Someone post the Facebook transcript!
how are we stalkers when he POST on a PUBLIC Social media website? Are you seriously in denial after he had 39 likes and 15 comments. wow now I have heard sticking your head in the sand but dag you are waste deep in the sand. So the people proving him to be a liar again and again are the "bad guys"
How about he leaves Sean and his kids alone and we will not keep showing what a liar and irresponsible reckless person he is! He needs eyes on him because he is dangerous and not a stable man! I am pretty sure you can go Delaware Courts and request a copy of the police report, That should be an eye opener to you koolade drinkers! If anyone see BS under the influence of any kind, please notify authorities for the safety of Beams kids. Obviously their mother isn't capable of making good decisions
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Nov 20, 2013
 
Sean Beam wrote:
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Thanks for the concern. I will look into your ideas.
Long ago, when my ex spouse violated my visitation rights all I had to do was bring a Sherriff with me, give them a copy of the court docs showing the visitation and I got my kids. I don't understand how this continues. There are laws in place for this.
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Long ago, when my ex spouse violated my visitation rights all I had to do was bring a Sherriff with me, give them a copy of the court docs showing the visitation and I got my kids. I don't understand how this continues. There are laws in place for this.
I know, that's how it usually is handled. I think good ol' Sean is enjoying being the injured party..milking it for all it's worth... trying to show the world what a "lunatic" BS is. Who knows, might help his "stalking" case. Ya think?? I don't know for sure but I've never seen such a poor defenseless ex husband. Doesn't he have a lawyer?? Wake up people.
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Disappointed wrote:
<quoted text> I know, that's how it usually is handled. I think good ol' Sean is enjoying being the injured party..milking it for all it's worth... trying to show the world what a "lunatic" BS is. Who knows, might help his "stalking" case. Ya think?? I don't know for sure but I've never seen such a poor defenseless ex husband. Doesn't he have a lawyer?? Wake up people.
That's odd, just on Sunday we were "self proclaimed Christians" who the enemy was having a field day with... Your words... We were supposed to have compassion for our fallen bretheren and let God deal with the situation.... Your words.....Sounds like someone doesn't know how to practice what they preach....or ever did.
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ummmmm wrote:
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That's odd, just on Sunday we were "self proclaimed Christians" who the enemy was having a field day with... Your words... We were supposed to have compassion for our fallen bretheren and let God deal with the situation.... Your words.....Sounds like someone doesn't know how to practice what they preach....or ever did.
You are entitled, but I do have a knack for discernment. You see, I am not involved. When they feel there is something personal at stake, people choose to believe what they want to believe. I am an outsider and because this is a public forum, I can observe. I have no allegiance, no agenda. Just commenting on what I see. "Can't see the whole house just looking out the window."
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Remove head from sphincter, then drive your ass home!
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Manny Rates
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
$17,337 -$38,616
(Median)
17K 21K 26K 31K 39K
MEDIAN:$25,726
10% 25% 50% 75% 90%
Where is JY getting the money to pay her Manny?
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How can BS take such a pay-cut?
WE use to spend this on lunches, frosted hair and massages? Now what??
Pastor Gilligan:
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
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<quoted text> I know, that's how it usually is handled. I think good ol' Sean is enjoying being the injured party..milking it for all it's worth... trying to show the world what a "lunatic" BS is. Who knows, might help his "stalking" case. Ya think?? I don't know for sure but I've never seen such a poor defenseless ex husband. Doesn't he have a lawyer?? Wake up people.
how defenseless could it be to have the man who harassed stalked and threaten you move in with your 4 children. How could anyone defend a pastor who is having an affair and doing theses things. I am thinking that disappointed might now be BS. Just pray for these children.
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#574
Nov 21, 2013
 
so let me get this straight......

The woman BS has been accused of having an affair with is JY...

BS has denied the Affair!

But He now LIVES with her????

Oh wait he is the live in Nanny??

What about taking care of his own 12 year old daughter. Why doesnt he go home when JY gets home or better yet watch the one little guy at his own house like all other daycare providers do??

Is there anyone out there buyiing this story?
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#575
Nov 21, 2013
 
BS Resume

abandoned his own child

was arrested in Franklin county for assault

Was fired for abuse of alcohol, physically and verbally abusing his staff, and mismanagement of chuch funds.

Was so out of control that a TRO temp restraining order had to be sought after to PROTECT the church staff and children at the school and daycare.

Mentioned dropping bombs in texts to the long time church member trying to save the church

threatened to fight a church member DB

wrote large sums of money to himself and wife after his employment was terminated. Pretty sure this is a crime.

Has admitted to going to the bars.

Was recently arrested in Delaware County for stalking, menacing, and telecommunications harassment.

Has a related restraining order in affect against the childrens own father.

Has severe road rage and has been known to chase people (even young teens) to their homes.

I guess that JY has very little standards when picking out a nanny.
BAD NANNY

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#576
Nov 21, 2013
 
I LOVE YOU POD!
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#577
Nov 21, 2013
 
There's clearly a lot of hurt here. I'm an outsider. Not a member of TCAP, have never attended. I don't even live in OH. I'm concerned that this kind of blog/ comment thread is the kind of thing that can push someone over the edge. He's hurt many of you, and is currently engaged in behavior that is hurting. But the taunting, the name calling, the insults, etc the kind of thing that can push someone over the edge. This kind of online treatment could easily push someone towards drastic measures. Ending his own life kind of thing. You don't know me, clearly don't have to listen to me, but I'd ask everyone to take a step back, breathe and ask how fruitful this conversation really is.
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#578
Nov 21, 2013
 
I agree..... He just posted that he is dying today...... As believers we need to pray for him and rebuke suicide.... He needs a lifeboat not a nail in the coffin

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