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Concerned

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Hello Concerned:
I am not sure he ever did anything to help my relationship with Jennifer. He had a really interesting talk with me and convinced me to move out of Jennifer's house and said it was just between us but then shared a private pastoral discussion with many members of the church and turned it into a joke at my expense.
If you want to talk about it in private I would be happy to share the story with you.
Sean,
I'm with you. I'm sorry your going through this. BS shouldn't have even suggested you move our. That was wrong.....he shouldn't have shared anything about you or JS with anyone. It's not a joke to me. He manipulated you two. I pray that you and your kids get through this. I pray that JS can move past BS manipulation. Your a good man and don't deserve any of this.
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Just to confirm....I didn't ever win husband of the year award. I have been dealing with a ton of problems over the past ten years and has made me a not fun person to be married to. So no more speculation....I confess I s __k at being married. With that said I should get an award for x-husband of the year.
I am sick of all of this......
Sean,

It take two to tango.....you didn't get here alone......your a strong man and have many people supporting you. Just because you say you sucked at being married doesn't give anyone the right to harass you.....take your wife from you.....threaten you. Stay strong we are praying for you....
GOoD Times and letter 2BS

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no affair??- now thats funny..suppose u'll tell me theres no gate at TCAP too?

yes I agree Sean should be given the ex husband of the year award!!! I know Sean personally & for him to admit his faults - awesome. more than we can say for most & it took me some time to admit my faults as an ex husband.
I also agree that Kim is pry just as scared as many are of BS,,sadly i am sure BS thrives on that - sick.
i love have more people or maybe its a few that keep posting with different names want proof about all this? really--didnt this blog start back in April, arent all of us except Sean not posting our names? so how can they be rumors if I can agree to how i was treat & then some one else relate to that who doesnt even know me & might have been from years ago.

BS - this might be a rumor that you or some one from TEAM BS is poking in here & trying to still stir the pot & get people fired up,,,,thats too late, we have all been affected & trust me when I say that most of us are in the healing process bc we were smart enough to realize what you did is NOT God's work & you did mess up...you did NOT return our texts when we asked for help..u DID manipulate us or scold us...all the while you were sinning worse then us..it IS true that while u were preaching about adultery - you in fact were doing it...u DID watch over us as we wrote out tithes out,,then go the office the next day & get ur pay check...u DID mess up people's lives & seem to think it still is ok...but we WILL be fine & WILL still walk with out Lord Jesus bc HE NEVER hurt us...i put your kool aid down awhile ago, besides asking Christ into my life, leaving you was the next best thing I did in my spiritual life..thanks for the time at TCAP & the friends/family i have from that..but thanks for reminding me what NOT to do in a church.

BS - im a Christian, and of course I will continue to pray for you bc its not my place to judge...but man are you getting judged now. Even if you are in wrong state of mind, you know you are doing wrong & yea Satan has hold of ya,,,maybe its karma, maybe its just stupidity...whatever it is - I hope you get help..bc you still have kids ..and man did we hear stories about how you hated how ur dad treated u,.......need I say more?

For those of you that have been hurt by BS or events that happened that caused issues for you,,,get that stuff off your chest,,,no need to spread rumors or lies...but if you need to get that stuff off your chest & worried if someone may say some thing if they knew it was you--then get that crap out on this page - why not!! but my advice is that you not believe that all church is like what you experienced...stay involved in a church, stay the walk with Christ...and if you have a friend that can listen,,,talk to them...all in all this crap sucks....but we/i gotta move on & enjoy the blessings that God has given us!!

Sean - keep that head up - many of us know the truth & know you,,and even if you feel you arent the married type, you dont deserve this & are a way better man then most of us & certainly are handling this a lot better then me/others.

best thing about all this --IM GONNA BE OK - & SO ARE YOU ALL THAT LISTEN TO GOD ---

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GOoD Times and letter 2BS

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Concerned wrote:
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Sean,
It take two to tango.....you didn't get here alone......your a strong man and have many people supporting you. Just because you say you sucked at being married doesn't give anyone the right to harass you.....take your wife from you.....threaten you. Stay strong we are praying for you....
totally agree. divorce is not fun any way you look at it..been there done that..throw in threats, stalking & whatever BS thinks he can do, i would lose my mind. So Sean - keep strong & yea, know that there are more people supporting you than you think.
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I know I am only one person of many. My question is to the staff and members that backed BS, laughed with him, went along with him, benefited from him. Have they taken time to apologize, ask for forgiveness, and repent?
Sean Beam

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courage wrote:
I know I am only one person of many. My question is to the staff and members that backed BS, laughed with him, went along with him, benefited from him. Have they taken time to apologize, ask for forgiveness, and repent?
I am sure 1000 times over. They held a special Sunday night service and did the very thing that you are asking about.

It is not a case of guilt by association. It's not even my business to answer this. Thought I would say something due to fact that I love and respect each person that is there. I am one person and that is what I think.

Brave people doing God's work picking up the pieces!

TCAP got hit by an F5 spiritual tornado, there are small group of people willing to pick up the pieces and do all the clean up.

If it had been an actual tornado the community would come together and rebuild. Let the community the body come together and rebuild what was lost.

Those who stayed to rebuild would be heros. The only enemy here is the devil...let not give up one more inch.
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First of all, you were kicked out by Jenn who asked you to leave more thAn once. Bennett helped you out by paying for a hotel for you while figuring it out. Don't try and play like like no one was trying to help you
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First of all, you were kicked out by Jenn who asked you to leave more thAn once. Bennett helped you out by paying for a hotel for you while figuring it out. Don't try and play like like no one was trying to help you
is this jennifer?
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First of all, you were kicked out by Jenn who asked you to leave more thAn once. Bennett helped you out by paying for a hotel for you while figuring it out. Don't try and play like like no one was trying to help you
Bennett was helping out by having an affair while still married with the man's wife he was trying to help out. Bennett was helping out by texting death threats to the same individual. Bennett is still helping out by continuing his affair after being ousted. Is that seriously what you just attempted to justify? Justify away...
Maybe you haven't noticed. Sean admitted his ways publicly. He accepted his faults. He asked for repentance. He is trying to do right.
What about Bennett?
Sean Beam

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Truth THE PEOPLE wrote:
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Bennett was helping out by having an affair while still married with the man's wife he was trying to help out. Bennett was helping out by texting death threats to the same individual. Bennett is still helping out by continuing his affair after being ousted. Is that seriously what you just attempted to justify? Justify away...
Maybe you haven't noticed. Sean admitted his ways publicly. He accepted his faults. He asked for repentance. He is trying to do right.
What about Bennett?
what I said is I am not sure he did anything to help my relationship with Jennifer.

I did not imply that he didn't do anything to help me.

I accepted Christ as my lord and savior because of Bennett Smith. My youngest son has his name.

There is a ddifference in the thoughts.....Only Jennifer and Bennett know for sure what conversation took place leading up to him having me leave the house. You probably could ask just about any member of the church because I herd so many different versions of what was said andbmy point was it should have been private as promised or we should just done it in front of the congregation. Thanks for sharing your insight to this matter.

If you have any facts or additional insights to current events please share those with the entire world.

One other correction for the record Jennifer and divorced in 2007 and I moved out of her home some time in 2011.
Sean Beam

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Anyone else that wants to take shots at me feel free because I have made every mistake known to man.......

I am a easy target so pile on.

God Bless all of God's souls!
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First of all, you were kicked out by Jenn who asked you to leave more thAn once. Bennett helped you out by paying for a hotel for you while figuring it out. Don't try and play like like no one was trying to help you
You are a sad and perverted individual that is trying to justify what BS has done and continues to do. Forget him supposedly being a Pastor. If he was any kind of man, he wouldn't be doing this to his own wife. I would also say he is doing this to his family but I believe this is one of his kids.
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Sean Beam wrote:
Anyone else that wants to take shots at me feel free because I have made every mistake known to man.......
I am a easy target so pile on.
God Bless all of God's souls!
Not wanting to take a shot but do want to be honest.Your self deprication at first seemed honest and sincere but continuing to do it seems like fishing for sympathy. If in fact you left your house because BS advised you to than shame on both you and him. Sounds like you needed to open your eyes and stand up as a man to him.
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Beyond Belief wrote:
<quoted text>Not wanting to take a shot but do want to be honest.Your self deprication at first seemed honest and sincere but continuing to do it seems like fishing for sympathy. If in fact you left your house because BS advised you to than shame on both you and him. Sounds like you needed to open your eyes and stand up as a man to him.
Sean, I would ignore this. I could not imagine the pain you have gone thru from all of this. We should be able to trust our pastors. BS gave a member of our church the # to the homeless shelter when she got kicked out of her apartment. So trust me when I say, he wasn't helping you, he was helping himself. Also it's more like Andy Stanley that brought you to Jesus because that's the sermons you hear, not BS. Gods word does not return even spoken by The unsaved.
Sean Beam

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Curious wrote:
<quoted text>Sean, I would ignore this. I could not imagine the pain you have gone thru from all of this. We should be able to trust our pastors. BS gave a member of our church the # to the homeless shelter when she got kicked out of her apartment. So trust me when I say, he wasn't helping you, he was helping himself. Also it's more like Andy Stanley that brought you to Jesus because that's the sermons you hear, not BS. Gods word does not return even spoken by The unsaved.
Good advice. Thanks.
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Curious wrote:
<quoted text>Sean, I would ignore this. I could not imagine the pain you have gone thru from all of this. We should be able to trust our pastors. BS gave a member of our church the # to the homeless shelter when she got kicked out of her apartment. So trust me when I say, he wasn't helping you, he was helping himself. Also it's more like Andy Stanley that brought you to Jesus because that's the sermons you hear, not BS. Gods word does not return even spoken by The unsaved.
There is a pretty wide divide between trusting someone and blindly following someone. But it appears from this whole forum that blundly following was pretty popular for years at this "Church". At least it was until the gravy train derailed. Someone please explain how all this has been allowed to go on for so many years. Seems to be alot of bad judgment on both sides of this fence. Maybe everyone got caught up in the glamour of things and lost sight of the purpose of the church.
Sean Beam

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<quoted text>There is a pretty wide divide between trusting someone and blindly following someone. But it appears from this whole forum that blundly following was pretty popular for years at this "Church". At least it was until the gravy train derailed. Someone please explain how all this has been allowed to go on for so many years. Seems to be alot of bad judgment on both sides of this fence. Maybe everyone got caught up in the glamour of things and lost sight of the purpose of the church.
You seem to have a real judgmental tone about you? How Have you made this far in life and never been deceived?
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Sean Beam wrote:
Anyone else that wants to take shots at me feel free because I have made every mistake known to man.......
I am a easy target so pile on.
God Bless all of God's souls!
Being honest, I have no idea what this thread is about, and only read a few of your posts.

You recognizing faults in yourself is a good thing. Working everyday to improve upon your faults you owe yourself.

Ask people you trust in your travels to help you become a better you. Help others the best you can.

Ignore pettiness. Move forward.

If you see yourself slipping backwards.....stop...take a breath.....and then plan to move forward and do so.

Best regards.
Concerned

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Sean,
It take two to tango.....you didn't get here alone......your a strong man and have many people supporting you. Just because you say you sucked at being married doesn't give anyone the right to harass you.....take your wife from you.....threaten you. Stay strong we are praying for you....
Mr. Beam, are you telling the truth, judging from your creminal past. It's out there on the court's dockit too. http://www.delawarecountyclerk.org/pa.urd/PAM...
courage

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Mr. Beam, are you telling the truth, judging from your creminal past. It's out there on the court's dockit too. http://www.delawarecountyclerk.org/pa.urd/PAM...
since there is no DOB not sure that they are all the same person. Even if they were, it doesn't change the facts of this case. Proof will come and all your lies BS will be out there@ Low Blow BS, so Christian and pastor like!

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