What negative aspects are attached to gay people doing the same things that are considered positive is straight people do them?<quoted text>
But in the army, that's exactly what they do.
And letting things slide as none of our business sends the false message that their behavior is acceptable.
Like this entire notion of family being whoever you decide they are.
I understand the positive aspects of this, but the negative ones and the messages sent outweigh the positives, in my opinion.
Living productive lives.
Forming healthy relationships.
Falling in love.
Forming strong supportive families.
Really, if you want to prevent only the gay kids from learning about and living these values, you are going to have to stop teaching them to ALL kids, because the gay ones are listening, too.
And if you do not want gay folks from embracing these values, what alternative are you suggesting?