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#1094 Feb 10, 2013
Adif understanding wrote:
<quoted text>The only real difference is that anal sex is a vector for the spread of aids and other diseases far greater then vaginal intercourse.
As for me catting around, there isn't much difference from a promiscuity perspective. I never claimed to be respectable either. I'm sure a lot of people find my behavior distasteful. But don't liken it to sticking something somewhere and how often. liken it more to waving a fork around in the air while walking through a crowded room compared to waving a sharp knife. People are going to get hurt a lot more in one then the other.
You could do with some basic information on sexual hygiene, for starters.

But morally, I suggest you begin with basic self-respect and move outward. I don't find your behavior merely distasteful (and I am stating this to those who swear I have no morals as much as to you), I find it immoral. Using others sexually displays profound disrespect for other human beings. To do so using an assumed name also suggests that you prefer not to ever be held to any responsibility for such basics as the spread of disease to such persons, any pregnancy that may result, or heaven forbid, should the woman take a liking to you and feel some emotional involvement.

However, it is primarily interesting to me that all of the do-gooders posting here are not up in arms regarding your open disregard for any sense of sexual morality.

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#1095 Feb 10, 2013
Wait what wrote:
Particularly when it's a synthetic material.
Whatever turns you on, WW.
Adif understanding

United States

#1096 Feb 10, 2013
FKA Reader wrote:
<quoted text>
You could do with some basic information on sexual hygiene, for starters.
But morally, I suggest you begin with basic self-respect and move outward. I don't find your behavior merely distasteful (and I am stating this to those who swear I have no morals as much as to you), I find it immoral. Using others sexually displays profound disrespect for other human beings. To do so using an assumed name also suggests that you prefer not to ever be held to any responsibility for such basics as the spread of disease to such persons, any pregnancy that may result, or heaven forbid, should the woman take a liking to you and feel some emotional involvement.
However, it is primarily interesting to me that all of the do-gooders posting here are not up in arms regarding your open disregard for any sense of sexual morality.
You say that as if the sexual partner I chose has no say in the matter. While I would love to think I am that good that I can command anyone to drop naked and pleasure me, it simply doesn't happen that way. They have to be willing participants too. You can't be disrespectful to other humans because of your sexual habits when they willingly participate. This is what the hippy movement was about and this is how gays act all the time. The promiscuity of gays and the gay lifestyle makes my adventures look timid in comparison. I'm sorry that you are displeased by my sexual habits, but if I remember correctly, you are the one who inquired about them in your brash attempts to push the acceptance of the same (homosexual lifestyle and gay marriage).

The do gooders are likely not up in arms because they aren't asking all about my sexual habits. It seems to be only you who is concerned with it and for some reason, I did not make your list of sexual deviancy that you would champion.
Reality Speaks

Columbus, OH

#1097 Feb 11, 2013
FKA Reader wrote:
<quoted text>
Difference between cheering and not mourning.
when I was in Scouting,

The answer is hell no with gays in scouting. They will be thrown out.

Someone with balls needs to say it now.

you don't like it, who cares.

you are nothing.

“Meh.”

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#1098 Feb 11, 2013
Adif understanding wrote:
<quoted text>You say that as if the sexual partner I chose has no say in the matter. While I would love to think I am that good that I can command anyone to drop naked and pleasure me, it simply doesn't happen that way. They have to be willing participants too. You can't be disrespectful to other humans because of your sexual habits when they willingly participate. This is what the hippy movement was about and this is how gays act all the time. The promiscuity of gays and the gay lifestyle makes my adventures look timid in comparison. I'm sorry that you are displeased by my sexual habits, but if I remember correctly, you are the one who inquired about them in your brash attempts to push the acceptance of the same (homosexual lifestyle and gay marriage).
The do gooders are likely not up in arms because they aren't asking all about my sexual habits. It seems to be only you who is concerned with it and for some reason, I did not make your list of sexual deviancy that you would champion.
I love this! Same sex contact is fine, so long as it's in the context of feeding my sexual desires (threeways? Sure!) But giving people who exclusively seek partnership and sexual contact with the same sex rights? Deviance!

Also, love the definition of inappropriate promiscuity is "anyone who I imagine has more sex than I do".

I always love this mindset when I see it, though it's beginning to get a it boring. There's this set type of entitlement you see in low skilled straight white guys, around my dad's age. They've been promised all this power and agency, while the world has continued to move on. They know that they've been promised the ability to make a good living by just showing up, to control the political and legal structures, to be limited in competition to just other white guys for the things they want. I used to be really into watching this entitlement conflict with the development of a more equitable world around them. 7

What do you mean gays and lesbians (though really, only gay men ever seem to be a problem) have the same agency that was promised to me. This is unacceptable! I have to compete with women/minorities/immigrants professionally? This is not what I was promised! Women's sexual and legal agency is limiting my access to them. This should not be allowed! This government is not the one I would have chosen, and I have been promised a share of interest as a member of a ruling class...Really, the core is "I have been promised _________. I must be given it."

You've got this generation and a half of wonderful, beautiful idiots, blinking in the sun and confused that the world has moved on. While I view their rage and confusion with some delight, I do wish that they could be a bit more creative.
Adif understanding

United States

#1099 Feb 11, 2013
tranpsosition wrote:
<quoted text>
I love this! Same sex contact is fine, so long as it's in the context of feeding my sexual desires (threeways? Sure!) But giving people who exclusively seek partnership and sexual contact with the same sex rights? Deviance!
Also, love the definition of inappropriate promiscuity is "anyone who I imagine has more sex than I do".

You've got this generation and a half of wonderful, beautiful idiots, blinking in the sun and confused that the world has moved on. While I view their rage and confusion with some delight, I do wish that they could be a bit more creative.
I think you are seriously confused. I have never said homosexual sex is wrong, just that it is deviant and unnatural. I have never said my sexuality is any better or worse. I have only stated that it exists and only when someone directly inquired about it. Further, I have never said that gays should not marry, just that gay marriage is an extra right not an equal right and traditionally homosexual acts have been illegal dating back to thousands of years before Christianity ever existed.

How you determined all that in connection to me is exactly why your premise is overwhelmingly rejected, it exists mostly in your head.

As for the rest of you babble, you are really reaching if you think anything I have said in these forums comes close to that. I can understand your ramblings though, if I was on the loosing side of an argument devoid of sound logic, I would be rushing to blame someone else too. But you are missing the point of it all in the process and making a fool of yourself.

“animis opibusque parati”

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#1100 Feb 11, 2013
Adif understanding wrote:
<quoted text>...But you are missing the point of it all in the process and making a fool of yourself.
She does it all the time.

“Don't trust the internet!”

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#1101 Feb 11, 2013
Reality Speaks wrote:
<quoted text>
when I was in Scouting,
The answer is hell no with gays in scouting. They will be thrown out.
Someone with balls needs to say it now.
you don't like it, who cares.
you are nothing.
Except, that is not likely the case.

Scouting was not throwing anyone out--unless they had different rules for gays than for people who sexually abused scouts. And they were certainly not involving law enforcement or ensuring that they could not rejoin scouts at a later time and in a different location.

“Don't trust the internet!”

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#1102 Feb 11, 2013
Adif understanding wrote:
<quoted text>You say that as if the sexual partner I chose has no say in the matter. While I would love to think I am that good that I can command anyone to drop naked and pleasure me, it simply doesn't happen that way. They have to be willing participants too. You can't be disrespectful to other humans because of your sexual habits when they willingly participate. This is what the hippy movement was about and this is how gays act all the time. The promiscuity of gays and the gay lifestyle makes my adventures look timid in comparison. I'm sorry that you are displeased by my sexual habits, but if I remember correctly, you are the one who inquired about them in your brash attempts to push the acceptance of the same (homosexual lifestyle and gay marriage).
The do gooders are likely not up in arms because they aren't asking all about my sexual habits. It seems to be only you who is concerned with it and for some reason, I did not make your list of sexual deviancy that you would champion.
I asked about your sexual experiences because you expressed the view that being gay is a choice. Hence I inquired into your history of attraction to other males and at what point you decided to be straight. And apparently you do have some sexual experiences with men, and see women partners as being mere serial manipulators of your organs.

Now--perhaps they are agreeable to being used in such a way--although that does then raise the question of why you would then lie about your name when engaging with them.

Personally, I find your chosen experiences to be reprehensible and emotionally and physically unhealthy. I don't know that every man who engages in anti-gay ranting is necessarily a closet case. But you seem to be skating awfully darn close to the edge.
Adif understanding

United States

#1103 Feb 11, 2013
FKA Reader wrote:
<quoted text>
I asked about your sexual experiences because you expressed the view that being gay is a choice. Hence I inquired into your history of attraction to other males and at what point you decided to be straight. And apparently you do have some sexual experiences with men, and see women partners as being mere serial manipulators of your organs.
Now--perhaps they are agreeable to being used in such a way--although that does then raise the question of why you would then lie about your name when engaging with them.
Personally, I find your chosen experiences to be reprehensible and emotionally and physically unhealthy. I don't know that every man who engages in anti-gay ranting is necessarily a closet case. But you seem to be skating awfully darn close to the edge.
Well now. It seems that not only are you upset for my sexual lifestyle that you had to pry out of me, you are upset because I acted just like everyone else on the internet and use a moniker without any identifying data when communicating with strangers online. How interesting. Do you want to track me down or something? You can come over, we'll have some dinner, open a bottle of wine, light a fire and sit on the rug in front of the fire place... I'll dim the lights, put some soft music on in the background, Flip on the disco light, put a porn on with the volume off on the big screen, get my roommate to come in and we can study the bible. I think proverbs would be a good place to start..

And I'm completely surprised that after spending the majority of your time in this and other threads sticking up for queers and queer rights, you now seek to declare that I'm not only gay, but my actions are reprehensible.

Please, take a midol, go back upstairs and ride your cramps out, then come back to join us later when you are feeling better. Here is some lite reading for you in the mean time.

http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/health-risks...

“Don't trust the internet!”

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#1104 Feb 11, 2013
Adif understanding wrote:
<quoted text>Well now. It seems that not only are you upset for my sexual lifestyle that you had to pry out of me, you are upset because I acted just like everyone else on the internet and use a moniker without any identifying data when communicating with strangers online. How interesting. Do you want to track me down or something? You can come over, we'll have some dinner, open a bottle of wine, light a fire and sit on the rug in front of the fire place... I'll dim the lights, put some soft music on in the background, Flip on the disco light, put a porn on with the volume off on the big screen, get my roommate to come in and we can study the bible. I think proverbs would be a good place to start..
And I'm completely surprised that after spending the majority of your time in this and other threads sticking up for queers and queer rights, you now seek to declare that I'm not only gay, but my actions are reprehensible.
Please, take a midol, go back upstairs and ride your cramps out, then come back to join us later when you are feeling better. Here is some lite reading for you in the mean time.
http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/health-risks...
Lovely.

I told you earlier, I don't care if you are attracted to men, but you seem to be rather conflicted about it.

I also don't care that you are anonymous on the internet. However, when it comes to gettin your rocks off with women you don't particularly care for, well, then anonymity looks very different.

Dishonesty is reprehensible. I would also suggest that I find sex with strangers to be pretty sleazy--regardless of whether it is hetero or otherwise.

“Don't trust the internet!”

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#1105 Feb 11, 2013
Adif understanding wrote:
<quoted text>Well now. It seems that not only are you upset for my sexual lifestyle that you had to pry out of me, you are upset because I acted just like everyone else on the internet and use a moniker without any identifying data when communicating with strangers online. How interesting. Do you want to track me down or something? You can come over, we'll have some dinner, open a bottle of wine, light a fire and sit on the rug in front of the fire place... I'll dim the lights, put some soft music on in the background, Flip on the disco light, put a porn on with the volume off on the big screen, get my roommate to come in and we can study the bible. I think proverbs would be a good place to start..
And I'm completely surprised that after spending the majority of your time in this and other threads sticking up for queers and queer rights, you now seek to declare that I'm not only gay, but my actions are reprehensible.
Please, take a midol, go back upstairs and ride your cramps out, then come back to join us later when you are feeling better. Here is some lite reading for you in the mean time.
http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/health-risks...
BTW--the American College of Pediatricians--who provided your factsheet, is known for some major dishonesties of its own.

“Don't trust the internet!”

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#1106 Feb 11, 2013
Adif understanding wrote:
<quoted text>Well now. It seems that not only are you upset for my sexual lifestyle that you had to pry out of me, you are upset because I acted just like everyone else on the internet and use a moniker without any identifying data when communicating with strangers online. How interesting. Do you want to track me down or something? You can come over, we'll have some dinner, open a bottle of wine, light a fire and sit on the rug in front of the fire place... I'll dim the lights, put some soft music on in the background, Flip on the disco light, put a porn on with the volume off on the big screen, get my roommate to come in and we can study the bible. I think proverbs would be a good place to start..
And I'm completely surprised that after spending the majority of your time in this and other threads sticking up for queers and queer rights, you now seek to declare that I'm not only gay, but my actions are reprehensible.
Please, take a midol, go back upstairs and ride your cramps out, then come back to join us later when you are feeling better. Here is some lite reading for you in the mean time.
http://factsaboutyouth.com/posts/health-risks...
You might want to take a look at this critique of your materials:

http://www.crosswalk.com/blogs/dr-warren-thro...
Adif understanding

United States

#1107 Feb 11, 2013
FKA Reader wrote:
<quoted text>
Lovely.
I told you earlier, I don't care if you are attracted to men, but you seem to be rather conflicted about it.
I also don't care that you are anonymous on the internet. However, when it comes to gettin your rocks off with women you don't particularly care for, well, then anonymity looks very different.
Dishonesty is reprehensible. I would also suggest that I find sex with strangers to be pretty sleazy--regardless of whether it is hetero or otherwise.
lol.. There is no conflict.. I hunt therefore I am.

As for the rest, I described my sexual lifestyle like that of a typical gay person. You find it offensive, so be it. But if you want to talk about dishonesty, you need to look in the mirror. You were all for gays until you though I was one. Now you changed that to just how I treat women which I modeled right from the GLB relationships. I did this for a reason, it was because I knew what you were trying to do so I threw the gay response to you.

The reality is, you had no clue, probably still don't, and I'm willing to bet that you will somehow try to argue it's different because you thought I was strait at first or something.
Adif understanding

United States

#1108 Feb 11, 2013
FKA Reader wrote:
<quoted text>
You might want to take a look at this critique of your materials:
http://www.crosswalk.com/blogs/dr-warren-thro...
lol.. So one skewed opinion for another I see. Keep on keeping on I guess.

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