Your kids sound like losers...they're the ones who don't know when to pick their battles. Kind of like their mom.<quoted text>
I've raised kids who have the courage of their convictions, who realize that some things are worth fighting for, and that the only way to stand up to bullies or injustice is by taking the risk that there may be a cost.
Your kids have learned that if it costs something, it's best to hide and complain in an anonymous forum.
Your definition of unfit parent is as accurate as your definition of winning.
You truly are as bad a parent as your daddy.