deadbeat father --- help me find him

deadbeat father --- help me find him

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Since: Sep 08

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#1 Jan 7, 2009
Hello everyone,

Please take a look at the website below:

www.myspace.com/look_4_this_deadbeat_dad

He is a deadbeat !!!! His name is Barry Dale Cain, He has family in Curry, Alabama. He has experience on Heavy Duty Construction.His license has been revoked due to non support, so hire at your own risk. He has also been awarded a settlement for filing workman's comp. to bad his son never seen a penny of it.

Any help would be appreachiated.These parents need to be exposed for the scum they are. Please keep this post going.

Thanks for all the help,
Karen
hoppinjohn

Pickerington, OH

#2 Jan 7, 2009
Karen get a life. I'm not excusing this man. Its just that if you perhaps, let up, maybe he'll step up. You sounds like the hounds from hell. Most men love their kids, its their kids mom they can't deal with. You chose this man to be the father of your child. And how do you think this child feels. Keep you mess to yourself and calm down. Hopefully this father will step up.

Since: Sep 08

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#3 Jan 7, 2009
why have u been reading this same post for 20 yrs? Cause that would be hounding the guy. A forum is the last place I would be reading if I didnt want anyone to hear about anyone mess.
kygirl

United States

#4 Jan 8, 2009
hoppinjohn wrote:
Karen get a life. I'm not excusing this man. Its just that if you perhaps, let up, maybe he'll step up. You sounds like the hounds from hell. Most men love their kids, its their kids mom they can't deal with. You chose this man to be the father of your child. And how do you think this child feels. Keep you mess to yourself and calm down. Hopefully this father will step up.
There are alot of men that care nothing about their kids, it has nothing to do with the mother. They just don't want to step up and take responsibility. My nephews father has only saw him twice in three years and has never payed child support. He is also a sorry piece of sh** like the father this topic was started about.

Since: Sep 08

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#5 Jan 8, 2009
Thanks for speaking out.
hoppinjohn

Pickerington, OH

#6 Jan 8, 2009
Thanks for what? How many years have you been on public assistance and working yourself. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not condoning dead beat dads. How do you know if this dad don't care for his son. Respect the man and maybe he'll give you respect and try to make up for his mistakes with his child. As far as this forum, well the net is wide open for anyone to comment, so accept constructive criticism from anyone thats on the outside looking in. Hopefully you have raised your son to be a better person than his dad. Or have you planted a "no good" seed.
The D-O-T

Grove City, OH

#7 Jan 8, 2009
If the guys license is being revoked for non-payment, that would mean this is an ongoing problem.

In order for the court to revoke something like that, would mean that he had been ordered to pay child support, not payed, and then turned over to collections, and he is evading collections.

Why don't you get a life instead of milling about the internet, finding some woman looking for her sons deadbeat dad, and you somehow found a way to take issue with it.

What an a55hole

Since: Sep 08

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#8 Jan 8, 2009
hoppinjohn,
Do you owe back child support? Maybe just a woman hater?
You don't have a clue as to what your talking about. I work full time have returned back to school a few years ago to continue my education. I couldn't have picked a better time either. I have paid taxes since I have been 18, unlike the deadbeat you choose to defend.
Yes, the internet is full of constructive criticism, but most people don't come off like an a55hole !!
How do I know this guy doesn't care about his son?
Our son is going to be 20. His family lives 20 mins from our home, he could be part of his life if he chooses to. When he does call he talks to me, because his son is a stranger, and he doesn't know what to say to him. So he doesn't have a problem with me, it's a money issue.
And the next time you come face to face with military you think about (the bad seed) that defends your nappy a55.
Oh, the thanks was for kygirl's comment.
hoppinjohn

Pickerington, OH

#9 Jan 9, 2009
I hate to tell you, Double Springs, but you sound real stupid. Going back to school was the best decision you could had made for yourself. Tell your son I love him and don't even know him. Hopefully you aren't the only influence in his life. A man child needs the truth about life told to him, not mama's opinion about her feelings. Apparently you can't read English very well either,I stated several times that I wasn't condoning his father. I read your post and absorbed your venom. My heart went out to you because carrying that kind of package is heavy.

Since: Sep 08

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#10 Jan 9, 2009
"A man child needs the truth about life told to him, not mama's opinion about her feelings.".... That my dear would get you *****ed slapped where I come from.

Dude it's not my opinion it is a fact. Do you think I run to the mailbox and hide child support, or lie to my son when he calls.

Venom? Just because I don't receive child support, doesn't mean I am not happy or that I don't know how lucky I am to have my son home and alive. These are things I promise I do not take for granted.

I might have came off a little hateful but you started off asking "how long have I been on public assistance?" Once again, lucky me I make to much money.

Why are you so angry?

kygirl

United States

#11 Jan 10, 2009
bama_grl wrote:
"A man child needs the truth about life told to him, not mama's opinion about her feelings.".... That my dear would get you *****ed slapped where I come from.
Dude it's not my opinion it is a fact. Do you think I run to the mailbox and hide child support, or lie to my son when he calls.
Venom? Just because I don't receive child support, doesn't mean I am not happy or that I don't know how lucky I am to have my son home and alive. These are things I promise I do not take for granted.
I might have came off a little hateful but you started off asking "how long have I been on public assistance?" Once again, lucky me I make to much money.
Why are you so angry?
Because he's probably a dead beat dad too. They have to stick up for each other.
sweetontweety777 7

Zanesville, OH

#12 Jan 10, 2009
hope you find him. and for those who tell you to stop hounding him, ill bet they also voted for welfare reform. you can't have it both ways gentlemen, and i use that term very loosely. if you want to stop paying outrageous taxes to help take care of these "dead beat men's children" then help find these dead beats and make them take care of their kids. stop letting the cowards stay away from the judicial system. buck up folks. you can't have it both ways. my sister was owed over thirty thousand dollars in support from a man who made over seventy thousand dollars a year. no one did nothing. she worked two jobs at a time to raise their kids. he lived the high life avoiding child support authorities. when she went for state aid to help with insurance for the kids, she was snubbed. no one would enforce his child support order. he lived the high life while his kids suffered. soooooo sad that people can't see what our kids are going through because of these men and women who wont pay support for their children. it always gets turned around to seem like the woman who seeks support for the kids is money hungry, or is spent on revenge of the poor man. whattttttteverrrrrrrrr

“lightly burnt,but still smokin”

Since: Dec 06

in the corner of your mind,

#13 Jan 10, 2009
i think the awnser is clear"don't get knocked up by losers"
hoppinjohn

Pickerington, OH

#14 Jan 11, 2009
bama_grl wrote:
"A man child needs the truth about life told to him, not mama's opinion about her feelings.".... That my dear would get you *****ed slapped where I come from.
Dude it's not my opinion it is a fact. Do you think I run to the mailbox and hide child support, or lie to my son when he calls.
Venom? Just because I don't receive child support, doesn't mean I am not happy or that I don't know how lucky I am to have my son home and alive. These are things I promise I do not take for granted.
I might have came off a little hateful but you started off asking "how long have I been on public assistance?" Once again, lucky me I make to much money.
Why are you so angry?
Bama girl keep talking. I'm trying to see if you are for real or venting anger. You said your son was 20,that means he's a young man now. I hope you taught him about the love of God, so that he will love and take care of his family when he has one. Good Luck to you and your. Bye
The D-O-T

Grove City, OH

#15 Jan 11, 2009
hoppinjohn wrote:
<quoted text>Bama girl keep talking. I'm trying to see if you are for real or venting anger. You said your son was 20,that means he's a young man now. I hope you taught him about the love of God, so that he will love and take care of his family when he has one. Good Luck to you and your. Bye
None of this changes the fact that you are a stupid a55hole who vents his worthless opinions out via the internet. In your first post, you told her to "get a life." Who is in more need of a life, the woman searching for her sons deadbeat father, or the random douchebag who had to throw in his two cents via the internet...even though he knows no details, knows nothing of the situation, and is probably a random dumba55 in general.

Maybe "the love of God" will help her pay her bills, and help her provide for her child.

You are such a stupid a55hole
hoppinjohn

Pickerington, OH

#16 Jan 11, 2009
This comment is for D-O-T. You need to call Netcare here in Columbus. Sorry I can't provide a phone number to make it easy for you. These people will gladly assess your situation. Furthermore, you need to start your own post call "Dipping".

Since: Sep 08

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#17 Jan 11, 2009
hoppinjohn wrote:
<quoted text>bama girl keep talking. I'm trying to see if you are for real or venting anger. You said your son was 20,that means he's a young man now. I hope you taught him about the love of God, so that he will love and take care of his family when he has one. Good Luck to you and your. Bye
OH my, It's really funny that you should bring God into this subject. The deadbeat in question was raised a Christian, the whole family goes to church. My guess is to repent their sins for not being a good father/parents/grandparents. My son isn't the issue of this post, he is a loving son, and I am grateful for everyday I am blessed to share with him.

You seem very passionate about this, I would love to here "your story" since you are compelled to voice your opinion about mine.

If you think for one minute I am doing this behind the deadbeats back you couldn't be more wrong. He knows and does not care. IF this was a pay back it's not nearly as harsh as it should me on MY part alone.
The D-O-T

Grove City, OH

#18 Jan 11, 2009
hoppinjohn wrote:
This comment is for D-O-T. You need to call Netcare here in Columbus. Sorry I can't provide a phone number to make it easy for you. These people will gladly assess your situation. Furthermore, you need to start your own post call "Dipping".
Such a clever retort, implying that I have mental health issues. I'm not the one who started attacking this woman, spouting off nonsense for no apparent reason. Take your own advice, and go get a life, instead of musing over the happenings in another persons.

As for "dipping"...I have no idea what you're getting at. I can't make any sense of it, please, enlighten me.
TheTruth

Columbus, OH

#19 Jan 12, 2009
Your son is 20. He no longer needs child support. And since you raised him, if he can't fend for himself, it is YOUR fault.

Face it. YOU picked his father. YOU live with it.

And no, I'm not a deadbeat dad. I just read to my daughter and put her to bed.

Since: Sep 08

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#20 Jan 12, 2009
New name, still the same crappy attitude. Like I told you before you do not know the whole story, BUT I believe You don't get to decide what I or my son is entitled to. That is for the court to decide.

So enuf about me, what is your problem with me wanting the law to be enforced?

I like how you THINK that anything is my fault, or that I truly PICKED this guy to be the father of my child.

The TRUTH is.... Your a looser, and there is in no way any child could possible look up to you. If these are the values you will teach your daughter, I hope YOUR KARMA doesn't bite her on the butt when she grows up. No one should have to ask anyone to do the right thing.

MY child could have used a caring and loving father to support him in his life decisions, but that sure the **** didn't happen either.

You can't tell your story because your just a bitter,mean,angry person who can only lash out on others. It's people like you that only makes me stronger.:p

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