College sex scene: Men have power

Jan 18, 2011 Full story: CNN 7

It's not a new theory:A As women progress in educational and professional opportunities, their odds of finding a committed man appear to go down.

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Frank Stanton

New York, NY

#1 Jan 18, 2011
All I can say about my college years and and sex I had there is, "Thank God I lived in an all male dorm !"

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Big Ten Grad

Folsom, CA

#2 Jan 18, 2011
The main purpose of a college education is to land as many crazy hookups as possible before you enter the "real world" of girlfriends who want commitments, fiancés, wives, mistresses, trophy wives, etc.

If you go to a good college, the smarty-pants women are almost ashamed to ask for a serious relationship, so its a total FWB NSA free for all.
Frank Stanton

New York, NY

#3 Jan 18, 2011
Big Ten Grad wrote:
The main purpose of a college education is to land as many crazy hookups as possible before you enter the "real world" of girlfriends who want commitments, fiancés, wives, mistresses, trophy wives, etc.
If you go to a good college, the smarty-pants women are almost ashamed to ask for a serious relationship, so its a total FWB NSA free for all.
Who the heck needs women at a college ?!

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#4 Jan 19, 2011
Frank Stanton wrote:
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Who the heck needs women at a college ?!
Frank,WOMEN are the only Beings that we cannot do without.If nothing else,They add beauty and humanity to a VERY inhumane World.
Sorority Girl

Modesto, CA

#5 Jan 19, 2011
College is pretty much nonstop sex today, and FWBs! The people who get attached are usually just doomed to keep on getting hurt.
The Big Dipper

Gjřvik, Norway

#6 Jan 19, 2011
Sorority Girl wrote:
College is pretty much nonstop sex today, and FWBs!
I've seen videos of lots of naked students having group sex in dorms. Is this really going on today???
Bradman

United States

#7 Jan 19, 2011
The way it was when I went to college is exactly that, a hookup NSA free for all. The girls vastly outnumbered the guys so I had many hookups and several FWBs during my college experience. I'm a 27 year old guy.

The college culture really promotes it and discourages long term attached relationships in many ways. Guys are lucky since we can have multiple sex partners and FWBs since the girls are so forward willing to compromise. We can afford to be picky.

My dorm was coed and but was so small that the guys and girls often spent large amounts of time together. The guy to girl ration was often 4-1 in favor of girls so almost every guy got laid or had a couple FWBs.

Many girls would fight over a particular guy even. There was a LOT of sex believe me and often very little privacy so it wasn't uncommon to walk in on a roommate in the middle of it.

Most girls I knew in school preferred to be FWBs or just hook up. They knew it was pointless to pursue a serious relationship with us guys. Many of us lived hundreds of miles apart so even for those who attempted serious relationships, most fell apart anyway due to distance or graduation.

Now I see that same college cultural mindset continuing today post college. A lot of the females I know haven't committed to anyone and are still content with having non committal sex with multiple partners and FWBs. Most of them are in their late 20's now. My friends and I still can see no reason to married at this point. So we still call the shots.

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