I Don't Consider Prostitution A Profe...

I Don't Consider Prostitution A Profession

There are 11 comments on the GroundReport.com story from Apr 7, 2013, titled I Don't Consider Prostitution A Profession. In it, GroundReport.com reports that:

People often say, "Prostitution is one of the world's oldest professions," but as for me, "I don't consider it a profession because I consider it disgusting, a lure for the weak, condescension, health problems, enslavement, illicit and merciless." There's a question that has puzzled me for many years, why do men like to go to prostitutes for sexual ... (more)

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James Slowhand

Los Angeles, CA

#1 Apr 7, 2013
If it's not a profession, it's just because the woman you were with is not doing it right!

There are pros and then there are PROs!

Men go to prostitutes for many reasons.
Some go for sex that they don't get from their wives, such as oral sex. Or maybe their wives just are not interested in sex or are not passionate in the bedroom.

Some men just want to cuddle and talk, believe it or not.

Some men want to have anal sex or a 3some, and these things can be arranged with professional service providers or "prostitutes".

Some men just need variety, especially if they're married. It gets boring having sex with the same woman for many years, and if that woman is not super into it to begin with, or has lost her passion, a man finds it very satisfying to be with a new woman, and paying for it is a lot simpler and quicker than finding someone.

Also an affair is worse for a marriage. An affair may lead to divorce or separation. A discreet sexual tryst with a prostitute may actually SAVE a marriage that would otherwise end in divorce due to a man wanting to go out and get some new pussy.
doug

Hazel Park, MI

#2 Apr 7, 2013
James Slowhand wrote:
If it's not a profession, it's just because the woman you were with is not doing it right!
There are pros and then there are PROs!
Men go to prostitutes for many reasons.
Some go for sex that they don't get from their wives, such as oral sex. Or maybe their wives just are not interested in sex or are not passionate in the bedroom.
Some men just want to cuddle and talk, believe it or not.
Some men want to have anal sex or a 3some, and these things can be arranged with professional service providers or "prostitutes".
Some men just need variety, especially if they're married. It gets boring having sex with the same woman for many years, and if that woman is not super into it to begin with, or has lost her passion, a man finds it very satisfying to be with a new woman, and paying for it is a lot simpler and quicker than finding someone.
Also an affair is worse for a marriage. An affair may lead to divorce or separation. A discreet sexual tryst with a prostitute may actually SAVE a marriage that would otherwise end in divorce due to a man wanting to go out and get some new pussy.
I agree.I have a lot of respect for prostitutes and also for slut.They both enjoy having sex and taking care of a guys needs.My wife and I have been married 11 years and we both play separated with others.When I met her she was on her back with her legs folded back getting her p ussy bang out good and taking some down her throat.She is white but prefers the young black guys and even the older black guys give her a good banging.We will be married 12 years this Oct.Open sex is good for a relationship.

Since: Feb 13

United States

#3 Apr 7, 2013
As a Sailor forty years ago I consorted with prostitutes whenever they were available and I had the money. We went on two six month deployments, one three month deployment and several 3-6 week deployments during my four and a half years on the ship. The fact you never spend more than 7-10 days in any one port, often even less,plus it is unlikely you speak the language there as well, made it difficult to become familiar with a local female. But I would suppose now that gays will be ubiquitous in the military, the need for prostitutes will decline since you can get your ashes hauled for free in any shipboard bathroom, just like in a highway rest stop.

Since: Feb 13

United States

#4 Apr 7, 2013
The women at the Bunny Ranch in Nevada belie all of the claims made in the article. They are willing participants and make well above average money for doing what other women frown upon and judge. The men are happy, the women are happy, just the prudes and feminists are upset. Like most moralist, if you don't gamble it should be eliminated, if you don't approve of sex, it must be tightly controlled and sanctioned. If there was no demand for sex the whole species would be at risk, even the useless researchers in academia, who don't actually have sex, they simply divide in half and carry on.
The Embodiment of Truth

Zion, IL

#5 Apr 7, 2013
The sad fact is,most women use their holes as leverage,as a bargaining chip,to get what they want out of a man.Want to spend time with your friends instead of going to her parent's house for the entire day?Ok,go ahead...enjoy your full balls for the next 10 days.

The woman is giving the man a choice:abandon what you truly want to do,and spend your time,energy,and patience in a manner in which she demands,and in exchange she will give you her permission to use her holes to drain your balls.Don't,and you will be denied use of her body.

Not only that,but she may ALSO require the occasional spending of money to continue giving you the use of her body for sexual release.

Prostitutes on the other hand ask only for money in exchange for a therapeutic service which they render.It's a simple transaction,and most of all,honest.

I think women can become "addicted" to manipulation. It starts off with sexuality: they are actually reinforced by society to be deceptive about the fact that they actually like sex. Instead, they are taught to withhold and hide it. They learn very quickly that not decieving/manipulating in this area will get them the scorn of other women, and also the beta males and white knights who have been intimidated into participating in the shaming themselves.

They do this to keep the value - the asking price - of sex high. If you look at almost every one of our sexual taboos, they have the effect of lowering the supply of sex, so that more can be demanded in exchange for it. If a woman is too sexually open, the rest of the "pussy union" comes in to punish the "ratebreaker". Also, less-expensive expressions of female sexuality - pornography and prostitution - are derided by women, and shame is administered to men for opting for these alternatives and not paying a higher price for sex.

So from that perspective, once a woman learns to lie and manipulate in the area of sexuality, it's probably easy to convince herself that it's OK to do it in other areas, and to do it again and again. Manipulation gets her what she wants easily, and then it becomes harder and harder for her to act responsibly and actually earn what she wants. Just like it's easier for a substance abuser to keep drinking or taking drugs than to make up their mind to quit.

Another thing to think about: men often get what they want by producing something of value, and exchanging it for what they want. Why is it that women are less likely to be productive in this way than men, but more likely than men to get what they want by taking something away (their pleasant company, the sight of their body which they cover with clothes) or making conditions unpleasant (nagging, playing the victim)? It's easier to be an extractor than a producer, I guess.

tl:dr Hookers are more honest and enjoyable than their non-pro counterparts.

Since: Apr 13

Oakdale, PA

#6 Apr 8, 2013
Looks like only men have responded to this. Imagine that. Prostitutes give you what you want, when you want it, and they know how to do it. Wonder why anyone would find them disgusting?
james Bond OO7

Pasadena, CA

#7 Apr 8, 2013
we can have rough sex with pros

Since: Nov 12

Palm Coast, FL

#8 Jun 7, 2013
james Bond OO7 wrote:
we can have rough sex with pros
that might be true James, but always heard treat a wh**e like a lady and she will take care of you. Sounds like a better idea than being rough.

Since: Nov 12

Palm Coast, FL

#9 Jun 7, 2013
As to a health problem - when I was in the military in El Paso (Ft Bliss) the joke was if you wanted to avoid picking up some disease it was safer to go across the border to the working girls then trying to pick up a free piece on the US side. Most houses keep their girls checked - they are usually safe. True you probably want to avoid street walker because they are into drugs and everything else.

Since: Feb 13

United States

#10 Jun 11, 2013
While in previous generations the price of pussy was monogamy and commitment, both emotional and financial, the cost today has been greatly diminished. In their pursuit to be like men, women have decided they will screw with abandon too. Which has lead to massive numbers of unwed mothers receiving no support except from taxpayers. Hordes of illegitimate children grow up to fuel the gun death statistics in poor neighborhoods and keep prisons full because there are no men to provide role modeling. Men have no more value except as a sperm donor to his cadre to loose women he is servicing in the name of sexual equality.

Since: Nov 12

Palm Coast, FL

#11 Jun 15, 2013
Sex and irresponsible with regard to having children are not the same thing. Lots of people have sex without having children. People that have sex with no regard to that responsibility are simply unresponsible. In other words if you are going to have sex you need to be responsible.

But one doesn't have to obtain from sex to avoid having children - there are numerous preventive methods - but it does take responsibility.
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