i remember a time when "marriage" was the next logical step. even if the couple was not totally in love, in order to deflect shame of unwed pregnancies....
now theres no shame in it anymore.
theres no shame in getting pregnant at 17 anymore.
theres no shame in recieving handouts.
theres no shame in getting something that you didnt theoretically work for.
theres no shame having 5 kids with 3 different men.
theres no shame . zero. none.
we dont hand out "food stamps"....we just hand out "cash cards"
we purposefully keep rationalizing their uncivilized behaviours to them.
we keep reinforcing that theres nothing wrong with not being able to support your responsibilities.
you have kids because u had sex. no one came and implanted u with donor eggs in the middle of the night without your consent.
considering how easy it is to avoid pregnancies.........
if u dont have a condom....and u cant control urself...cant u least withdrawl?
cut down chance even by 50%?
we as a society have entitled "parenthood"...
sure have sex and have babies.
others will pay for it cause we as a society cant turn our back on kids.
now we are held hostage by generation of illiterate wannabe adults who see no shame in being unable to being responsible for their actions.
unless pregnancy was forced on u....it was ur choice! ur actions!