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The Dark Side of Hookups, a Friends With Benefitsa and F- Buddies

There are 49 comments on the The Skanner story from May 11, 2010, titled The Dark Side of Hookups, a Friends With Benefitsa and F- Buddies. In it, The Skanner reports that:

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Conscience Sister

South Richmond Hill, NY

#43 May 13, 2010
Missy wrote:
<quoted text> And you don't think girls can use guys for sex as well? Thanks to women's equality and the pill, many women are just as sexually adventurous as men today! Stop with your outdated double standard sexist nonsense already.
I know your not talking to me but I know for a fact that most women don't think like men and therefore don't normally use men for sex. Being sexually adventurous or enjoying sex as much as men is one thing and men and women are equal in this area but men are way more capable of having casual sex and not cathing feelings then women are. Its not an outdated double standard, just a fact particularly because of the way men and women are brought up. Even the sluts I know are not really using the man for sex, looking for something else just going about the wrong way since they don't value their body. There are exceptions to the rules, females who already been through the bullshit and just want a nut now but these females are not the norm. Chicks might settle for FWB but for most its not what they want.
Conscience Sister

South Richmond Hill, NY

#44 May 13, 2010
In certain situations, all some females end up getting is some sex and it seems like thats what they were after since thats all they got but its really not. They tried to use sex as a means to get what they wanted and it didn't work so all they got in the end was sex.
Robert

Indialantic, FL

#45 May 13, 2010
MDJ wrote:
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Well i love gay men. And i have gay friends as well as family members. But i just had this issue with the first poster who gets under my skin. So i reacted. I mean, i agree.......it's just i get tired of our issues being more exposed. When there are a lot of people who are suffering. Like if they are focus just on black people sexual status.........what about the non blacks.......should they just die without anyone being concerned.
I remember, i was up late one night. And this documentary came on. And it was all white gay men. Who have been living with AIDS for over 30 years. When i did'nt even think you can live with the disease. How they manage to stay alive since the 70's and early 80's is outstanding. When my uncle and cousin who were gay men died of full blown AIDS..........and my uncle had just received his Master's in Psychology.
I love um too lol , I am sorry about your uncle and cousin :(
MDJ

Since: Apr 07

Location hidden

#46 May 13, 2010
Robert wrote:
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I love um too lol , I am sorry about your uncle and cousin :(
Thank You:-)
Chris

Secaucus, NJ

#47 May 17, 2010
Kennyinbmore wrote:
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FWB is how I roll. My 3 ladies are ok with it, because we're in same place in our lives where we're not looking for any serious involvements. It just works for us
That's gross. So, in fact, the three women are sleeping with each other by sleeping with the same dude - passing around the same diseases.

sick, and how desperate the chicks must be.

“Real Black Men Speak English”

Since: May 07

Bmore

#48 May 18, 2010
Chris wrote:
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That's gross. So, in fact, the three women are sleeping with each other by sleeping with the same dude - passing around the same diseases.
sick, and how desperate the chicks must be.
None of us have any diseases moron and we have protected sex. Now stop being jealous because you sleep with the same boring guy every night. lol

LastOfTheHoover

Since: Dec 09

Joliet, IL

#49 May 18, 2010
Kennyinbmore wrote:
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None of us have any diseases moron and we have protected sex. Now stop being jealous because you sleep with the same boring guy every night. lol
Lol!
Conscience Sister

Cold Spring Harbor, NY

#50 May 19, 2010
Kennyinbmore wrote:
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None of us have any diseases moron and we have protected sex. Now stop being jealous because you sleep with the same boring guy every night. lol
Lol, I personally don't judge. Do you. I wouldn't do that because I personally get more pleasure from one man than 5 since like most women, my sexuality stems from my emotions but hey thats just me. In time you will figure out which one you like the most and settle down if they don't bounce on you before than but like you said, you will cross that bridge when u get to it.

“Real Black Men Speak English”

Since: May 07

Bmore

#51 May 20, 2010
Conscience Sister wrote:
<quoted text>Lol, I personally don't judge. Do you. I wouldn't do that because I personally get more pleasure from one man than 5 since like most women, my sexuality stems from my emotions but hey thats just me. In time you will figure out which one you like the most and settle down if they don't bounce on you before than but like you said, you will cross that bridge when u get to it.
There's nothing wrong with monogamy, just not my thing. Have a good day sister

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