Older men more interested in sex than...

Older men more interested in sex than older women: Study

There are 81 comments on the The StarPhoenix story from Aug 12, 2010, titled Older men more interested in sex than older women: Study. In it, The StarPhoenix reports that:

Men can expect to be sexually active until they hit 70, while women remain sexually active until about 66, the study led by researchers at the University of Chicago found.

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“in the night , and I'll never”

Since: Jul 10

stop loving you

#65 Aug 16, 2010
Its Tim wrote:
<quoted text> I think I remember that thread, and participating. Were you able to make any progress?
Yes, you did participate. No progress was made and the relationship ended.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#66 Aug 16, 2010
comeawaywithme wrote:
<quoted text>My original reason for being here evidently is a topic people shy away from. Four people in this entire forum were willing to give advice. They know who they are and I thank them. The topic was erectile dysfunction. Not the medical diagnosis itself but how I could tactfully discuss the problem within my relationship. I was truly trying to save the relationship but his reaction was bitter. I think embarrassment played a major role in his reaction. More issues came to light that I had to deal with.
well, some men have these old fashioned notions that ED is a personal and private hell that you suffer alone ... it is too much that anyone even his partner, knows ... but of course, how can she NOT know right????

some men simply won't admit it is a real problem .. somehow, they think .. I will get over it ...

WIll he try Testosterone replacement? VIAGRA or Cialis? SOme won't because it means admitting to the problem ...

WHy not? WHat doe she have to lose ...

In fact, not trying is how he will lose the most ... he must have the rational ability to figur that out???

“Sex Lives Matter”

Since: Nov 07

Location hidden

#67 Aug 16, 2010
Jeffsm wrote:
Sorry girls but age 55 is about the outer limits 99% of women can hope for to still be sexually appealing or even attractive to most men. Simply put, beauty is found in youth.
The actresses mentioned above all likely had plenty of surgery with makeup, hairstylists & expensive clothes before being seen in public.
Now, before the girls start up about limpy old guys, yes most men are washed up by age 55 also & only a small % have a wealthy handsome stature about them in later years.
The fact of life is we all age, whither up & die.
TRUE Beauty and great sex is in the mind and not the body. I've seen and been with very ugly 20 year olds who had hearts of coal, but absolutely gorgeous, sexually talented and giving men in their 60's.

Advice, like youth, is WASTED on the young :)

“Bring Back the Bush!”

Since: Jul 10

Ventura

#68 Aug 16, 2010
comeawaywithme wrote:
<quoted text>Yes, you did participate. No progress was made and the relationship ended.
I'm sorry to hear that. Here's hoping that this paves the way for something and someone who will be better for/to you. A man with an ego is a tough thing for any woman to deal with. Too many men cannot sit down with their partners and admit to and actually discuss their own weaknesses, even if that weakness isn't the man's fault.
Jeffsm

Dallas, TX

#69 Aug 16, 2010
comeawaywithme wrote:
<quoted text>Are you serious? Yes, we all age but whither up and die? Great topic....run with it:)
Yes, we die.
Jeffsm

Dallas, TX

#70 Aug 16, 2010
la la la lola wrote:
<quoted text>
TRUE Beauty and great sex is in the mind and not the body. I've seen and been with very ugly 20 year olds who had hearts of coal, but absolutely gorgeous, sexually talented and giving men in their 60's.
Advice, like youth, is WASTED on the young :)
La la la Lola, is that Your butt in the profile picture ??.....very nice I would have some Great Fun with that butt, beginning with a nice oily deep massage
(and I do mean deep)......:)
Richard

New Franken, WI

#71 Nov 2, 2010
I think women become ever more lovely as they age. I think an older woman (in her 60s, 70s, even 80's) with heavy, pendulous, waist-hanging breasts, who has the audacity and self-confidence to go braless, who enjoys how they look and feel flowing free and unencumbered down her chest, who has that sparkle in her eyes as she greets my admiring smile is a most gracious, sensuous and beautiful being.
42boy

Villawood, Australia

#72 Dec 1, 2010
Older men could stay longer but older women could want stronger as tissue getting thicker i guess
Oldwomenisnasty

Seattle, WA

#75 May 5, 2011
Yeah. Makes perfect sense when you think about the primary purpose of sex: reproduction. With menopause women wrinkle, everything droops, and their desire for sex often goes away.

This is a blessing when you think about it because its also widely known that men of the same age group don’t want them anyway because they’re infertile.

Olden dudes can still make babies and attract women so naturally they still have their sex drive. And before anybody flames me, this is just scientific fact.
SDW

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#76 May 5, 2011
Old Guy wrote:
<quoted text>
Don't try to act like you don't know how old men are, Space1. Being a Filipina puta, you know them well. When you were a budding flower I just KNOW you made plenty of money off old men. Now that you're all shriveled up and dry you couldn't even suck d!cks in Olongapo City!
ROFL
Sex with pregnant

Villawood, Australia

#77 Jun 11, 2011
May be true As women getting older she could becam a little bit dryer.

Since: Dec 10

Pittsburgh

#78 Aug 6, 2011
I'm 57 from Pittsburgh area. Any younger ladies that may be interested, hit me up. Let's talk about it.
barbara

Van Wert, OH

#79 Sep 18, 2011
Old Guy wrote:
<quoted text>
The real truth is: most older guys prefer younger women because of the more youthful body. Have you ever seen a 60 yr old woman with her clothes off? Probably not. But, it's bad. Loose skin all over. Cellulite all over. Dried out snatch. Painful for her to have sex. Tits hanging to her waist.
I'm 62 and would rather give $200 to a 24 yr old for sex than have it free from my wife. Of course, this preference has cost me probably $50,000 in the past 20 yrs. But, worth every penny. And, the best sex is still the 16 yr olds.
Maybe if you spent that money on a platic surgeon, your wife's skin and breast could look younger. Dryness can easily be fixed with some lubricant. You might enjoy the side benefits of some of the new sweet-smelling, hot lubricants.

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#80 Dec 13, 2011
My wife and I are in advanced age and we have enjoyed sex by the use of lubricants, and oral pleasure. I greatly enjoy seeing her orgasm orally and she enjoys helping me. Are able once in a while to have sexual intercourse.
Carpe Diem

Las Vegas, NV

#81 Dec 13, 2011
Old Guy wrote:
<quoted text>
The real truth is: most older guys prefer younger women because of the more youthful body. Have you ever seen a 60 yr old woman with her clothes off? Probably not. But, it's bad. Loose skin all over. Cellulite all over. Dried out snatch. Painful for her to have sex. Tits hanging to her waist.
I'm 62 and would rather give $200 to a 24 yr old for sex than have it free from my wife. Of course, this preference has cost me probably $50,000 in the past 20 yrs. But, worth every penny. And, the best sex is still the 16 yr olds.
Posts like this one make me realize how lucky I am that I prefer older women to younger ones. This guy is truly cursed, as he ages further and further away from his sexual partners, for whom he must pay. How sad, both for him and for his wife. I, on the other hand, have a wife who seems sexier now to me than she ever did before, and whose mother seemed much sexier to me when she reached her 60's and 70's than she ever was in her 50's. I'm counting on my wife continuing to follow the same progression as her mom. So far, so good.
Carpe Diem

Las Vegas, NV

#82 Dec 13, 2011
Hampton23 wrote:
My wife and I are in advanced age and we have enjoyed sex by the use of lubricants, and oral pleasure. I greatly enjoy seeing her orgasm orally and she enjoys helping me. Are able once in a while to have sexual intercourse.
Good for you, Hampton23; you are my role model for my future love life. My wife and I are in our 50's, and already do what you do: lots of oral sex, with occasional intercourse. Like you, "I greatly enjoy seeing her orgasm orally." I don't know how old you are, but keep up the good work. I hope I will get to have what you have when I am your age.

Since: Dec 10

Pittsburgh

#84 Dec 27, 2012
What's an old guy to do when the wife's interest in sex has declined? Any mature ladies out there still horny? Hit me up and let's talk about it
sklanth

Dearborn, MI

#85 Mar 18, 2013
Geezer wrote:
I'm over 60 and find women my own age much more attractive than younger women. That's always been the case with me. I'm most attracted to women my own age. When I was 20, fourty year old women were not attractive. Now women in their 50's and 60's are more attractive than 20 or 30 year olds. I suspect most men are that way really. As for sexually active part, I seem to be thinking about sex quite often and getting less inhibited and more kinky as I get older. At least imaginings in any case. I'm wondering a lot lately what it would be like to suck a cock though I have been heterosexual all my life and the thought of kissing a man on the lips is still repulsive. I also wonder what it would be like to be dominated. Something I would never have even considered as being even sexual just 10 years ago. Are some of my fellow baby boomers having similar experiences as they age?
You are not alone. In fact, I had to look at the name of your post again to make sure it wasn't me writing that. i think about sex constantly and the thoughts of kinkiness continue to grow, heck I have even wondered what it would be like to feel a cock in my mouth even though I am as straight as can be. Don't feel that you are a lone babe in the woods, I am there too.

Since: Feb 13

Location hidden

#86 Mar 18, 2013
I am 48 and my interest in sex has not diminished at all over the years. In fact I would say I get aroused more often now than I did when I was younger
Barry Bali

Denpasar, Indonesia

#87 Mar 18, 2013
Long live older women ! Sure, sometimes older women don't lubricate as easily as when they were younger,
but that just makes for a good reason to give them some long, slow oral sex ! Older women's bodies are often younger than their faces, and in my opinion and experience, older women are much better in bed than their younger sisters ! A friend of mine once said of older women : " they don't yell, they don't tell, they don't swell. and they're as grateful as hell "

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