GOP sees need to woo Asian-American voters GOP sees need to woo...

Apr 11, 2013 Full story: USA Today 257

Republicans admit they have a problem with Hispanic voters. They have an even bigger problem with Asian-Americans, a group that less than 20 years ago was a majority GOP voting bloc.

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#21 May 19, 2013
1 Korean American wrote:
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Its not a gun, but there is social pressure for Asian women to date white guys, and for white women to not date Asian guys.
My friend married a Korean guy. She tells me that white guys always say to her " Why an Asian guy?" as if she did something wrong.
Its an attitude that has to change.
I wonder if she would have dated you without that social pressure. Doesn't seem like love to me...
Trust me, the "pressure" was for her to date an Asian, preferably Chinese, guy, not to go out and find a white guy. Her family was less than fully on board with the "white guy" son in law, at first.

She chose me, despite her parents protestations (might be the only time in her life she has ever stood up to her father) because we are just super compatible- she'd never found that in any of the other guys she'd dated.

The problem, if it exists, is in Asian cultures where they tend to let other people do their thinking for them. They do things based on what their parents or society thinks they should do, not based on what they think they should do.

Here's the deal. You are in the USA now. You are an adult. In this country, you are free to make your own choices. Don't choose your date based on who your parents think is "best for you"- that will only lead to a lifetime of misery.

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#22 May 19, 2013
1 Korean American wrote:
http://creepywhiteguys.tumblr. com/

How creepy. But at the same time, it is a type of mental slavery. I would never want to be in a marriage that was because of social pressure. Thats not love.
Exactly. Make your own choice, don't decide based on what someone else is telling you.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#23 May 19, 2013
libertarian4321 wrote:
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Trust me, the "pressure" was for her to date an Asian, preferably Chinese, guy, not to go out and find a white guy. Her family was less than fully on board with the "white guy" son in law, at first.
She chose me, despite her parents protestations (might be the only time in her life she has ever stood up to her father) because we are just super compatible- she'd never found that in any of the other guys she'd dated.
The problem, if it exists, is in Asian cultures where they tend to let other people do their thinking for them. They do things based on what their parents or society thinks they should do, not based on what they think they should do.
Here's the deal. You are in the USA now. You are an adult. In this country, you are free to make your own choices. Don't choose your date based on who your parents think is "best for you"- that will only lead to a lifetime of misery.
Family pressure is micro-aspect. Yet again, you ignore the macro effects. Many husbands are now expected to take care of their wives parents in "Asian" cultures.

You seem to acknowledge that the macro effects exist, and it is "Asian's fault" for falling for it.

That seems to suggest that you view your wife for her ethnicity, and not as an individual. Sad indeed.

She trusted you and viewed you as an individual, the entire time, you just viewed her for her race.

Sad indeed, to live a marriage based on lies.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#24 May 19, 2013
libertarian4321 wrote:
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Exactly. Make your own choice, don't decide based on what someone else is telling you.
You look at that site, and you don't see anything wrong with all the creepy white guys like you who view Asian women for their race?

Rejected by white women, harass Asian women.

That is your white guy mentality. You are the hive program. We see it happening and your days are numbered.

Your typical white guy dishonesty is showing in your genetics.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#25 May 19, 2013
libertarian4321 wrote:
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Exactly. Make your own choice, don't decide based on what someone else is telling you.
She married you for social pressure from white society.

Ask her if she feels more accepted by whites now.

ALso, its even sadder that white women are pressured to not marry Asian men by society and their family.

Of course, you don't care because you represent the very social force you pretend to be against.

the mark of an inferior being. To hide and rot inside the mind.

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#26 May 19, 2013
1 Korean American wrote:
http://creepywhiteguys.tumblr.com/
Just look at that site.
That guy in the video looks like one of those guys who goes to a web site to hook up with Asian or Russian or whatever girls. Basically, those girls are just looking for a rich American and a chance to come over here. I doubt it would matter if the American was white, Asian, Hispanic, or black.

Clearly, those are more "sex in exchange for money" deals than real relationships.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#27 May 19, 2013
A white girl marrying an Asian man is the ultimate sign of doing what she wants, against the white man's wishes and societal pressures.

Btw, the average white women who marries an Asian man, makes 30% more than a white woman who marries a white man.

This tells you that smart people can resist the white man's societal pressures better than poorer dumber people (perhaps your wife)

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#28 May 19, 2013
libertarian4321 wrote:
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That guy in the video looks like one of those guys who goes to a web site to hook up with Asian or Russian or whatever girls. Basically, those girls are just looking for a rich American and a chance to come over here. I doubt it would matter if the American was white, Asian, Hispanic, or black.
Clearly, those are more "sex in exchange for money" deals than real relationships.
Well, there's more. A lot lot more.

Look at all the creepy asianphiles who stalk her.

This is the REAL social pressure that needs to be rebelled against.

But you are too scared, and you are too tied to the power that you pretend to fight against.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#29 May 19, 2013
basically white female + asian guy = love

because society hates that.

white male + asian female = societal pressure

so the former is clearly more likely to be ideal than the latter.

just sayin... this message needs your help to be distributed. thanks for helping out.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#30 May 19, 2013
libertarian4321 wrote:
Clearly, those are more "sex in exchange for money" deals than real relationships.
He was looking for an Asian woman because he has an Asian fetish.

He thinks Asian women are more submissive and sexually obedient like a dog.

Probably not that different from your way of thinking about your wife.

All BS aside... we know the typical stuff you will say to cover your true thoughts.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#31 May 19, 2013
http://www.topix.com/forum/asian-american/TMF...

Here are white rapists targeting Asian women because of their Asian fetish.

One day, this might be your daughter being targeted for an Asian fetish rape. All because of the Asian fetish you enjoyed. How funny that would be.
chicaboom

Vienna, VA

#32 May 19, 2013
1 Korean American wrote:
http://www.topix.com/forum/asi an-american/TMF01JL6GKJ87U5D9
Here are white rapists targeting Asian women because of their Asian fetish.
One day, this might be your daughter being targeted for an Asian fetish rape. All because of the Asian fetish you enjoyed. How funny that would be.
It would only be funny to you.

I think more and more asian women are becoming astute to this. I think asian women were blinded by the false flattery as they did not enjoy being ignored or passed over as a womsn. Due to their race they always were. Even with the asian fetish asian women are not considered beautiful. It adds insultbto injury. How nice of you to pour salt on the wound. It is female nature to want to be desired.
Latino SGV

Covina, CA

#33 May 19, 2013
1 Korean American wrote:
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Yeah, moving to Korea from California, it is amazing how well managed and affordable health care is in Korea.
You wait 5 minutes to see a doctor about a cold usually about a 3 minute walk away. I'm still in shock that people here go see a doctor about a cold, And guess what? It costs like 10 bucks, and you literally feel a lot better. On the other hand, the down side is, since eveyrone knows the health care system is so good, the excuse " im sick" doesn't work as well for missing work. LOL
Doctors here are forced to reveal what drug companies they have sales commissions with. The US is light years from such legal work. Btw, My doctor buddy just bought a lamborghini back in the states. Oh, and yes, it still costs $5,000 to get an xray in the states.
something's not right there. Do you get it yet?
Yeah, I get it. Looks like Americans with some cash will now be traveling to S. Korea for their health care soon.
Latino SGV

Covina, CA

#34 May 19, 2013
BTW, I though this thread was about politics. How'd it end up here mostly about inter-racial relationships?

Lol... it's a free country.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#35 May 19, 2013
chicaboom wrote:
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It would only be funny to you.
I think more and more asian women are becoming astute to this. I think asian women were blinded by the false flattery as they did not enjoy being ignored or passed over as a womsn. Due to their race they always were. Even with the asian fetish asian women are not considered beautiful. It adds insultbto injury. How nice of you to pour salt on the wound. It is female nature to want to be desired.
i meant how funny it would be if it applied to his future daughter. until now, he thought he only benefitted from the asian fetish. i was saying it to get a rise out of him. you know i hate it too.

well, when u are young as a woman, sure, the power of attraction and sex gets you what you want. but as a woman, when u are older, and you no longer have that power, it is a sad existence without dignity in America.

middle aged women in Korea have a lot more political power and societal clout than middle aged women in America.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#36 May 19, 2013
chicaboom wrote:
It is female nature to want to be desired.
anyways... long time! u miss me?^_^ V

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#37 May 19, 2013
1 Korean American wrote:
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He was looking for an Asian woman because he has an Asian fetish.
He thinks Asian women are more submissive and sexually obedient like a dog.
Probably not that different from your way of thinking about your wife.
All BS aside... we know the typical stuff you will say to cover your true thoughts.
Wow, dude, you are a mess.

Did some white guy steal your girl friend at some point?

Did it occur to you that she left you because you were a weak dick head with serious inferiority issues?

Maybe she wanted a strong guy who wasn't a whiner and a jackass?

Don't blame society for the fact that you were rejected and had to settle for your second choice. Look in the mirror to find the reason that happened.

Society didn't mess up your relationship, you did. Women don't like weak, sniveling men, regardless of their race.

BTW, you are also an asshat if you think all Asian women are "submissive." My wife is a strong, smart, successful, well educated, highly paid professional. I wouldn't have married her if she wasn't capable of keeping up with me on an intellectual level. Cute, dumb, submissive girls are fine for one-night stands, but not for marriage.

Maybe your attitude toward women is (another reason) why they reject you?

You sound like a real Neanderthal...

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#38 May 19, 2013
Latino SGV wrote:
BTW, I though this thread was about politics. How'd it end up here mostly about inter-racial relationships?
Lol... it's a free country.
Yup, it looks like we got slightly off track.

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#39 May 19, 2013
libertarian4321 wrote:
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Wow, dude, you are a mess.
Did some white guy steal your girl friend at some point?
Did it occur to you that she left you because you were a weak dick head with serious inferiority issues?
Maybe she wanted a strong guy who wasn't a whiner and a jackass?
Don't blame society for the fact that you were rejected and had to settle for your second choice. Look in the mirror to find the reason that happened.
Society didn't mess up your relationship, you did. Women don't like weak, sniveling men, regardless of their race.
BTW, you are also an asshat if you think all Asian women are "submissive." My wife is a strong, smart, successful, well educated, highly paid professional. I wouldn't have married her if she wasn't capable of keeping up with me on an intellectual level. Cute, dumb, submissive girls are fine for one-night stands, but not for marriage.
Maybe your attitude toward women is (another reason) why they reject you?
You sound like a real Neanderthal...
I'm married dood.

Btw, you're the one with hair on your back. LOL!!!

ooga booga! My brain can't acknowledge Asian fetish! Ooga booga! Shave my back! LOL!!!!!!!!!!

“Ruling over East of Vegas(EOV)”

Since: Dec 12

Kwanghuidong, Korea

#40 May 19, 2013
libertarian4321 wrote:
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Yup, it looks like we got slightly off track.
No, we are on track. I call the shots here. You fall in line sucka.

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