The gay kids just split town as soon as they could get away. Many left before they we really old enough to.<quoted text>like I was saying back when I was a kid a dads job was he sees he might have a gay boy for a kid he mans him up right quick. it may be hes spending too much time with the women doing womens stuff like sewing and cooking so the mans got to take the boy out and show him man stuff like hunting and sports and such. you get it early like that and you dont end up with a gay. its beyond me why people forget that nowadasy
You see, you don't really know what defines a gay person as gay. Your comments indicate that you think it is the same as some mannerisms that your neck of the woods think are innately female. Apart from squatting to pee and bleeding once a month, there really aren't any innately female mannerisms. Those things are just learned from the surrounding culture. They aren't immutable truth.
Most gay people aren't effeminate. Those that are certainly are more visible.
Your confusion is understandable.