Beyond 'Fifty Shades': Sex experts share their favorite books

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Feels Like 133

Spring, TX

#1 Nov 6, 2012
I saw the promos. It just looked like some guy who had a fetish for handcuffs.
It was not sexy at all to me. Of course, now if I see the first scenes in 9 1/2 Weeks that seemed so racy then, they seem lukewarm now. Times have changed.

I would find it much more sexy if a guy would do his own laundry, mop a floor or do some chore I abhor doing. LOL
Yes Mam

Dedham, MA

#2 Nov 6, 2012
When I do the dishes my wife will stand behind me, reach around and slide her hand down my pants and "play", the kids will come in the room and have no idea. I will take the laundry I have cleaned up to our bedroom and begin ironing, and she will close the door and pull me out of my pants and slowly stroke me. And if all her chores are done and I get into bed before she falls asleep then she will reward me.

BUT

If I don't do the chores to her satisfaction, she will knee, slap or squeeze my balls painfully. I am not certain what displeased her last night but I am sitting at work rather uncomfortably right now as I am wearing a ball binder that is squeezing rather intensely.

“Play with your food”

Since: Mar 12

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#3 Nov 6, 2012
Feels Like 133 wrote:
I saw the promos. It just looked like some guy who had a fetish for handcuffs.
It was not sexy at all to me. Of course, now if I see the first scenes in 9 1/2 Weeks that seemed so racy then, they seem lukewarm now. Times have changed.
I would find it much more sexy if a guy would do his own laundry, mop a floor or do some chore I abhor doing. LOL
Babe... You're exactly who needs to have a good Dominant show you what's what ;)

When the chores are the basis of your sex life, it's time to give up on life in my book.

“Play with your food”

Since: Mar 12

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#4 Nov 6, 2012
Yes Mam wrote:
When I do the dishes my wife will stand behind me, reach around and slide her hand down my pants and "play", the kids will come in the room and have no idea. I will take the laundry I have cleaned up to our bedroom and begin ironing, and she will close the door and pull me out of my pants and slowly stroke me. And if all her chores are done and I get into bed before she falls asleep then she will reward me.
BUT
If I don't do the chores to her satisfaction, she will knee, slap or squeeze my balls painfully. I am not certain what displeased her last night but I am sitting at work rather uncomfortably right now as I am wearing a ball binder that is squeezing rather intensely.
You sound like a real Prince Charming... Or actually, more like a small "c" cinderella...
Yes Mam

Dedham, MA

#5 Nov 6, 2012
I'm not sure I get your comment

“Play with your food”

Since: Mar 12

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#6 Nov 6, 2012
Yes Mam wrote:
I'm not sure I get your comment
Well, let Me write more slowly for you. Like those Disney characters, your story sounds like a fairy tale... But, if it were real, you'd be much less like Prince Charming to a woman and much more like cinderella in her eyes. You see, women don't fantasize about a guy who lets himself get abused for not doing his chores well (like Cinderella), they want a real man. Sooooooo, I'm saying that you aren't like a real desirable man to a woman, you are more like cinderella, but more submissive. I feel sorry for your wife.

I hope you understood this time...
Yes Mam

Dedham, MA

#7 Nov 6, 2012
Spectacles wrote:
<quoted text>
Well, let Me write more slowly for you. Like those Disney characters, your story sounds like a fairy tale... But, if it were real, you'd be much less like Prince Charming to a woman and much more like cinderella in her eyes. You see, women don't fantasize about a guy who lets himself get abused for not doing his chores well (like Cinderella), they want a real man. Sooooooo, I'm saying that you aren't like a real desirable man to a woman, you are more like cinderella, but more submissive. I feel sorry for your wife.
I hope you understood this time...
Put like that, yes I understand, all too well I understand.
Feels Like 133

Spring, TX

#8 Nov 6, 2012
Spectacles wrote:
<quoted text>
Babe... You're exactly who needs to have a good Dominant show you what's what ;)
When the chores are the basis of your sex life, it's time to give up on life in my book.
Unless you look like a young Mickey Rourke, Ewan Mcgregor, Josh Holloway
or Ryan Gosling ( a little too tall and thin), take a hike. lmao

The comment about chores is what is called a joke.
Feels like 133

Spring, TX

#10 Nov 14, 2012
Pat Robertson has an opinion about what he calls "mommy-porn" and says he didn't know that 30% of women (don't know where he got that number)
struggle with porn addiction. He thought it was a male issue. Wake up,
Pat.

“Play with your food”

Since: Mar 12

Location hidden

#11 Nov 14, 2012
Feels like 133 wrote:
Pat Robertson has an opinion about what he calls "mommy-porn" and says he didn't know that 30% of women (don't know where he got that number)
struggle with porn addiction. He thought it was a male issue. Wake up,
Pat.
You know how most of those bible thumpers end up getting caught right!? Ask Jim Baker and that one who always cried...

“Male”

Since: Apr 09

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#12 Nov 14, 2012
A guy has now been divorced in the UK because he wouldn't go along with some of the S/M in the book.

It would be illegal (yes, even between consenting adults, in private) to go along with much of the S/M in the book.

So, men now have it even worse in marriage: criminals if they do, divorced if they don't.
Feels like 133

Spring, TX

#13 Nov 14, 2012
http://thedailyedge.thejournal.ie/divorce-fif...

Who is this author anyway? Pat Robertson said she is a housewife.
What does she know about S&M? Bondage, etc.? I have heard/read that the books are poorly written and are just popular because they are new and there's a lot of them. I picked up the book Topping From Below but didn't buy it. I came home and read the first chapters online. BORING. If this is mommy porn, they can keep it. Not erotic at all.

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