Young girls dating older boys....

Young girls dating older boys....

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Curious

Saint Louis, MO

#1 Dec 17, 2008
What do you all think about a 20-21 yo guy dating a 15 yo girl? As a parent what would you do?
If I was a parent

Marthasville, MO

#2 Dec 17, 2008
well if i was a parent i wouldnt allow then to offically date but i would allow them to be friends
not sure

Blue Springs, MO

#3 Dec 17, 2008
I would probly not encourage it...but at the same time it would depend on who the boy was and how mature or imature he was....I certainly wouldnt want my daughter dating a guy that age if he was a drinker or partier...also legally he may be breaking the law???? I would worry about that if he was my son...I would be very concerned....
15 is kinda young to date anyway....
Bob

Saint Louis, MO

#4 Dec 17, 2008
No 21 year old player will be dating my 15 year old virgin daughter.
jingles

Saint Louis, MO

#5 Dec 18, 2008
are you forsure he's just 20or21?Well if it was a child of mine no sir,but again now days they don't think age should matter.Why isn't he dating someone more his own age?
Frosty the Snowman

United States

#6 Dec 18, 2008
Age really has nothing to do with it. I realize I am probably opening a whole new can of worms, but why does it seem so wrong at a younger age but yet when they get older it's okay? If a teenager is old enough to put his or her hands on a car wheel and operate a motor vehicle, why isn't it okay for him or her to put his or her hands elsewhere consent to sex? Parents make such a big deal out of this and so does the government; it's all about control. They want to suppress our natural, sexual urges and society has done a marvelous job at placing a certain level of blame and shame on those who engage in taboo sexual behaviors (i.e. younger-older, black-white, homosexual relationships). Abstinence doesn't work and as far as the age thing goes, I am not in any way, shape or form promoting pedophilia because there is a big difference in a 50-year-old man having sex with a 5-year-old boy or girl. All I'm saying is that if the law allows teenagers to consent to driving a vehicle, purchasing a hunting knife, exposure to R-rated movies, why isn't it okay for them to engage in consensual sex with someone who just happens to be a few years older? Love knows no racial or age barriers, if you ask me, but then again, I see I am in the minority.
one who knows

Dexter, MO

#7 Dec 29, 2008
it is against the law for a 2o-21 yr old to date a 15 yr old. as a parent, if you know about it then you are also committing a crime. this is not my opinion, it is a fact according to stoddard county juvenile officer
the facts

Grover, MO

#8 Dec 29, 2008
I was told that if you are 21 dating anyone 14 or younger is illegal....I was told this also by the stoddard county junenile office...plus attorney...
parent

Saint Louis, MO

#9 Dec 29, 2008
If the mother of the girl approves, then I don't see where the problem is. A parent can sign for her daughter to marry before she is 18 in Missouri, so where is the problem if the mother is ok with the dating relationship? Is that still considered against the law?
one who knows

Dexter, MO

#10 Dec 30, 2008
i don't know about your facts. all i know is i was told by juvenile officer that a 20-21 yr old could not date a 15 yr. old

Since: Dec 08

Chesterfield, MO

#11 Dec 31, 2008
What does a 15 yoa female have to offer a 20-21 yoa male and visa versa? The 15yoa female should be concerned with highschool and hanging with friends of her age. The 20-21 yoa male should be working full time or going to college. Where could you possibly see the two of them would be on the same level. As for your daughter she is still a juvenile and needs to live life with kids her age. The 20-21 yoa male is an adult and should be staying with in his age bracket. That said, if they were 20 and 25 then I would not see a problem, but to let a 20-21 yoa male date your daughter, you really need a reality check. Reguardless if she is mature and he is the perfect gentleman. She is going to miss out in her own life expierences because she is trying to live in his world and visa versa. The maturity levels are completely different in the two of them at their ages. She is living to complete highshcool and either work full time or go to college. He is currently focoused on work or college then will be looking for a career. What if he has to move, what are her options then. I am totally against this and never would allow it. Hope my 2 cents helps.
yoo

Dexter, MO

#12 Jan 2, 2009
I believe the law in Missouri is that a boy of 21 may (have sex) with a girl as long as she is at least 17 years old. It is not statutory rape. The age of the boy cannot be no older than 21 as long as the girl is under 18.
lol

Oak Ridge, MO

#13 Jan 8, 2009
Bob wrote:
No 21 year old player will be dating my 15 year old virgin daughter.
How do you know your daughter's a virgin???...girls start very young these days ;)
lol

Oak Ridge, MO

#14 Jan 8, 2009
one who knows wrote:
it is against the law for a 2o-21 yr old to date a 15 yr old. as a parent, if you know about it then you are also committing a crime. this is not my opinion, it is a fact according to stoddard county juvenile officer
It's only against the law to f*ck
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United States

#15 Jan 25, 2009
Bob wrote:
No 21 year old player will be dating my 15 year old virgin daughter.
no one wants to date ur ugly 15 year old virgin daughter
U Bass Turds

Sparta, NJ

#16 Feb 12, 2009
Any male 18 or older who has/does/will date or have sex with any female 16 or younger is a pedophile.

I see all the time.
High schoolers going to the middle schools.
19 plus yoa hanging out at the highschool.
The only reason why a 9th grader would want to date a 6/7th grader is for easy sex and the girls his age don't want him.

As a parent I would beat his A$$..... then notify the police of his pedophilia activity.
U Bass Turds

Sparta, NJ

#17 Feb 12, 2009
For older boys it is easy to entice young girls for going out and having sex...The girls of age around 15 are easy going because of their childish mind... They dont know the bad side of it..They dont know that they can be used at any stage...The biggest thing is for the boys of type 'Desperate' young girls are the only option..Because the girls of age 20+ do have some experience of life and they dont easily give away themselves to any guy.

'Love between young girls and older boys' is more towards infatuation rather than pure carving love.

You will reap what you sew...
confussed

Redmond, WA

#18 Feb 17, 2009
If a girl likes an older guy and the guy likes her. It doesn't mean he's only after her for sex. He could really like her. And he might want sex but what guy doesn't? Every single guy wants it. So why does age matter when it comes to it? People need to realize that older guys could actually fall for someone who's younger than them. But you can't help who you like right? So I think that age shouldn't really matter. They're just numbers. Only unless its more than 5 years.
WHAT

Oakland City, IN

#19 Feb 17, 2009
That is correct.
yoo wrote:
I believe the law in Missouri is that a boy of 21 may (have sex) with a girl as long as she is at least 17 years old. It is not statutory rape. The age of the boy cannot be no older than 21 as long as the girl is under 18.
who cares

United States

#20 Feb 18, 2009
everybody i think it is ok for girls to date older guy i have dated a one myself.... just think back to the olden days there were 16 year olds married to 20 what would you do about it then.... our society may not be the same but in a way it is...i have been to Zalma School and i havent seen much guys go to jr or elem. for kids to date and the jr. or elem prob dont even know about sex yet anyways....but i can say that there are some gurls in that school who may not act like a ho but they really are.. in plus do you know what your daughter is doin right now if she is dating in older guy it is ok to worrie yes but the more you tri to keep them apart the more they will see each other than.. my mother tried and i disobayed her cause she told me i couldn't and i did it anyways.... you may say that your daughters are virgins but really dont no cause letting them go with friends and hang out with guys let me tell you things go on and you may never find out.

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